Loneliness: I hear it can kill

Are there any other Aquarians that feel as lonely as I do? Even in a room full of people, I can't shake this painful stab of loneliness! I feel soooooo disconnected from the world. After a full day, I come home & I feel like just falling apart. And it takes everything I have not to actually go insane! I sit and I think to myself that no one should feel this kind of anguish or pain...it is extremely cruel! Why should anyone have to deal with this? Why am I feeling this way? What could I possibly learn from this? I look around and I see people moving about, doing their thing, enjoying their lives while my life feels like its on hold or something. I feel like I'm on the outside looking in. Like I'm not part of the play but just in the audience watching and listening and wondering what the hell is going on. My life feels stagnant and its just not going anywhere! I very much want to make a change, and a very drastic one at that!! Sometimes I get this urge to do something eratic and on impulse except I don't know what. The urge is there and it is sometimes powerful. Like something or someone is urging me to make a move but I don't know what. This kind of energy can move moutains!! But I feel like I'm in prison and can't go anywhere even if I wanted to. What a waste of powerful energy, huh? I know that I'm the one that needs to make the change from within but I just can't seem to muster the strength I need to shove myself out of my own way! Especially if I don't know where I'd go once I bull-dozed my way through!! Does anyone else understand what I'm feeling or saying here? Can anyone shed some light on my situation? My heart and soul could really use some advice 😢

I don't know what the full circumstances are in your life, but I have come to learn one of the main reasons that we all live and keep on living is the feeling of being needed by someone or something. We as Aquarians are supposed to be the humanitarians of the zodiac, so perhaps there is something out there that you could pour your heart and soul into that needs you. I know for myself it has been a little 2.4lb 2 year old chihuahua who has spent most of her life in a crate, drinking from a hamster bottle. I got her 2 weeks ago and just watching her become a whole dog and the joy she gets from the simple pleasure of running around the living room, has made a lot of other stuff in my life seem very insignificant. Just go out on the web and you can read lots of tear jerking stories about all the poor little animals out there that have been abused, neglected, etc. and how much these agencies need peoples' help.

Now, I am not saying that for you it would be animals, but there must be something out there that needs YOU!!!! Sit and mediate on that and then go after whatever it is. I really do believe that if you found it many of the feelings you are experiencing right now would no longer exist and you would be filled with much more peace and contentment.

WHILE READING YOUR ARTICLE, I FELT AS IF YOU WERE TALKING FOR ME. I'M ALSO AN AQUARIOUS AND I SWEAR THAT I FEEL THE SAME WAY! I'VE TRIED OVER THE PAST COUPLE OF YEARS TO FIND A RELATIONSHIP OR BETTER YET A CLOSE FRIEND, NO LUCK. I DON'T UNDERSTAND BECAUSE I'M A GOOD PERSON AND I FEEL AS IF I HAVE SO MUCH TO GIVE, IT'S LIKE I'M FORCED TO BE IN MY OWN WORLD DUE TO THE FACT THAT I SEE IT IN A DIFFERENT LIGHT. THE ONLY CONCLUSION THAT I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO COME TO IS THAT I CAN'T CONTINUE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE; THEY WILL SIMPLY FIND ME WHEN I LEAST EXPECT IT, JUST LIKE YOU; I HAVE BEEN FEELING THE SAME AS YOU FOR SEVERAL MONTHS. IT WAS HELPFUL TO ME TO READ YOUR LETTER AND REALIZE THAT I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE OUT THERE WHO FEELS DETACHED AND ALONE. I REALLY HOPE YOU RECEIVE THIS REPLY, IF YOU DO, E-MAIL ME BACK AT JMOLER_2000@YAHOO.COM I WOULD LOVE TO GET AQUANTED WITH SOMEONE WHO FEELS THE SAME AS I DO ABOUT LIFE AND THE WORLD.

Dear Lonely: Whether it's healthy or not, I'm used to the loneliness of being an Aquarius. I think it's part of our blood, or stars, or whatever...but please don't be nonplussed about your predicament. Learn to love to be by yourself. Most folks are "average" ; that's why they call them the masses. We are not part of the masses. That' pretty much all there is to it. It's taken me years to get used to it, but i'm not average nor part of the masses, and so I am lonely too. Sometimes. I regale in others' way of being and maybe you can too. Don't take what others' say too much to heart: they don't know what they are talking about. Please post back as there are people out there who care about us. I am one.

YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO. SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR POLITICALLY CORRECTNESS? FORGET THAT! DO IT, BULLDOZE THROUGH YOURSELF YOUR SELF PITY AND BE REASSURED THAT YOU ARE A CREATIVE PERSON THAT YOU KNOW HOW TO BE SPONTANEOUS AND ENCOURAGING WHEN YOU NEED TO BE AND WHAT EVER HAPPENS WHEN YOU BULLDOZE THROUGH YOURSELF IS THE ADVENTURE DO SOMETHING CRAZY AND WILD YOU KNOW OUT OF THE ORDINARY AND HAVE FUN DOING BUY CLOTHES YOU NEVER BOUGHT BEFORE TRY THAT DISH THAT YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO TRY BUT NEVER GOT THE CHANCE BE OUTGOING AND WHAT EVER HAPPENS HAPPENS REMEMBER US AQUARIANS ALSO WORRY TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMUCH HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!

Boy, did you hit the nail on the head!! I have tried to explain that feeling to my wife (a Leo) for years. I am laid back when it
comes to being with others and yet she thinks that I am miserable. For years I have felt lonely in a crowd yet comfortable to know
that I am familiar to all. I have the typical Aquarian giving nature, until someone takes advantage of that very nature. I have a
good sense with animals and we give each other happiness. Right now I am at an empasse with my wife. Leo and Aquarius do
not make a good match. The initial parts was great, then fizzled fast. I never used to believe in the Zodiac signs and matches;
however, based on what has transpired the past few years, I am believing it more and more. Hang in there. Another Aquarian
understands you. Seek out a Gemini or a Libra. I have a Libra friend who hooked up with an Aquarian and she couldn't be happier.

Yes, you sure hit that nail right on the head...I had a man I loved dearly and he lied and cheated and stole from me until there was no good memeories of times past left ...and THEN imagine trying to ever be with that Dude again..talk about lonely with someone there.And he was a Libra..Oh well, life goes on..somewhere out there is some one for us..gotta be!