Meet up with aqua man for first time after him breaking it off.

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Sooo 2 weeks ago aqua man I was dating broke it off just wanted to remain friends, we were an official couple but nothing too serious. I asked him for a serious relationship last week as I just felt we needed to just make it less wishy washy and I really gave my heart to this guy ( I'm aqua too so you know how much that means) he just wanted to remain friends.

We agreed we needed time apart as the attraction is still there can't keep our hands off each other but we would still keep in contact just in a platonic manner, meet up at the end of the month for a coffee or a movie night if we felt ready.

Now he's supposed to be sending me a fitness plan when he was back at work today as that's his area of expertise and I need some help with that we wouldn't need to see each other for that. Yesterday he asked me up for a training session to his house in 3 days time to give me a personal training session, I'm not sure how to handle this as I didn't ask for that kind of help and would mean seeing each other while attraction is still there not like what we agreed. Is he just being friendly or trying to hook up again. I'm treating it as just business in my mind but worried we will slip back into old habits of sleeping together.

Male aquas need your help!lol if you broke it off to just friends not wanting sex anymore would you meet up so soon with an ex? Would your level of attraction fade that quick?
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Posted by EveryOunce
You and I both know he wants to have sex. Stop acting like you have no clue. He wants to bang but still keep you in the friend zone.
Seriously didn't think aqua guys could be like that but hey thought once they made their mind up they wouldn't change it, I did think he wanted sex but wasn't sure, been there done the Fwb not going back to that, he can keep wanting it I'm stubborn as hell and not giving in! lol
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You and I both know he wants to have sex. Stop acting like you have no clue. He wants to bang but still keep you in the friend zone.
Seriously didn't think aqua guys could be like that but hey thought once they made their mind up they wouldn't change it, I did think he wanted sex but wasn't sure, been there done the Fwb not going back to that, he can keep wanting it I'm stubborn as hell and not giving in! lol
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Most tend to blur the lines between friends and relationships but some secretly hope you don't want more because they like to play the field. Some are eternal bachelors.
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You and I both know he wants to have sex. Stop acting like you have no clue. He wants to bang but still keep you in the friend zone.
Seriously didn't think aqua guys could be like that but hey thought once they made their mind up they wouldn't change it, I did think he wanted sex but wasn't sure, been there done the Fwb not going back to that, he can keep wanting it I'm stubborn as hell and not giving in! lol


Most tend to blur the lines between friends and relationships but some secretly hope you don't want more because they like to play the field. Some are eternal bachelors.

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Thanks for your insight this ones had me puzzled being an aqua myself I've definitely blurred the lines of friendship and relationships before, this one he didn't want sex anymore and just be friends which I thought was weird, but I think he's the eternal bachelor type that's playing the field, I will find out on Wednesday whats his game is if your right he's definitely gonna make a move lol
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Well went up tonight done my fitness session he didn't even make any moves was just strictly platonic. Have to say I'm shocked was just like normal friends chilled out after fitness training watching tv and chatted about random stuff. Good night just as friends looks like I had nothing to worry about at all he really does just want to be friends nothing more. Proved us all wrong ?

No banging at all lol
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Posted by bumboklatt
Idk if he's a guy chances are he wants to bang you.

It's natural

Can't really tell with an aqua. We can be really friendly and then banging a few minutes later
lol I was expecting him to try it on, for the 10 months we were together he couldn't keep his hands off me before we did it multiple times a night he had no problem banging me i loved it! , then he just decided we should be friends no sex. It was so strange out of the blue guess he's just a strange aqua. Didn't even flirt with me once tonight, just kept asking me opinions on random things and watched tv programmes we both like was just like chilling with my girl friends. I'm going up in 2 weeks again but think I'm safe from his advances lol
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Posted by dracula
you sure his an Aqua?, male aquas will be in a healthy relationship or even married and will never back out outta good fuck from an ex!
Yep only 3 days apart in our birthdays! Honestly this aqua has me stumped ? we had amazing sex when we were together, then out the blue he wants to start the new year fresh no sex just friends. I was expecting to get an extra work out session tonight ? bit disappointed lol thinking he didn't mean what he said before about no sex but he's just gave up amazing sex for friendship? I'm confused more than ever now because even me as an aqua girl would have sex with an ex if it was good sex. Weirdest aqua ive ever met lol
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Idk if he's a guy chances are he wants to bang you.

It's natural

Can't really tell with an aqua. We can be really friendly and then banging a few minutes later
lol I was expecting him to try it on, for the 10 months we were together he couldn't keep his hands off me before we did it multiple times a night he had no problem banging me i loved it! , then he just decided we should be friends no sex. It was so strange out of the blue guess he's just a strange aqua. Didn't even flirt with me once tonight, just kept asking me opinions on random things and watched tv programmes we both like was just like chilling with my girl friends. I'm going up in 2 weeks again but think I'm safe from his advances lol
Well I can't speak for all aquas but sex isn't everything. The hanging out and communicating is just if not better than banging.

Huge advances in an aqua relationship can be made by hanging out as friends. When the sexual chemistry comes then it's eezy peezy
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Yeah I do like to communicate as friends feel connected with them then, it's just a bit backwards because the sexual chemistry came first now we're friends? My sex drive is really high and so is his so this is what is strange, I've got a date on Friday with an Aries so not clinging on to a relationship with my aqua ex He says I'm gorgeous and getting better looking but doesn't want the sexual relationship? That's what I can't get my head around lol
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Idk if he's a guy chances are he wants to bang you.

It's natural

Can't really tell with an aqua. We can be really friendly and then banging a few minutes later
lol I was expecting him to try it on, for the 10 months we were together he couldn't keep his hands off me before we did it multiple times a night he had no problem banging me i loved it! , then he just decided we should be friends no sex. It was so strange out of the blue guess he's just a strange aqua. Didn't even flirt with me once tonight, just kept asking me opinions on random things and watched tv programmes we both like was just like chilling with my girl friends. I'm going up in 2 weeks again but think I'm safe from his advances lol
Well I can't speak for all aquas but sex isn't everything. The hanging out and communicating is just if not better than banging.

Huge advances in an aqua relationship can be made by hanging out as friends. When the sexual chemistry comes then it's eezy peezy
Yeah I do like to communicate as friends feel connected with them then, it's just a bit backwards because the sexual chemistry came first now we're friends? My sex drive is really high and so is his so this is what is strange, I've got a date on Friday with an Aries so not clinging on to a relationship with my aqua ex He says I'm gorgeous and getting better looking but doesn't want the sexual relationship? That's what I can't get my head around lol
Well you know aqua like to do or say the opposite of what we mean haha
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Ha ha yeah we do I could be ugly and he does want to sleep with me, or wants sex but not friendship, honestly this one has me stumped I can't work it out lol I'm sexy as hell! Lol
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Posted by bumboklatt
Idk if he's a guy chances are he wants to bang you.

It's natural

Can't really tell with an aqua. We can be really friendly and then banging a few minutes later
lol I was expecting him to try it on, for the 10 months we were together he couldn't keep his hands off me before we did it multiple times a night he had no problem banging me i loved it! , then he just decided we should be friends no sex. It was so strange out of the blue guess he's just a strange aqua. Didn't even flirt with me once tonight, just kept asking me opinions on random things and watched tv programmes we both like was just like chilling with my girl friends. I'm going up in 2 weeks again but think I'm safe from his advances lol
Well I can't speak for all aquas but sex isn't everything. The hanging out and communicating is just if not better than banging.

Huge advances in an aqua relationship can be made by hanging out as friends. When the sexual chemistry comes then it's eezy peezy
Yeah I do like to communicate as friends feel connected with them then, it's just a bit backwards because the sexual chemistry came first now we're friends? My sex drive is really high and so is his so this is what is strange, I've got a date on Friday with an Aries so not clinging on to a relationship with my aqua ex He says I'm gorgeous and getting better looking but doesn't want the sexual relationship? That's what I can't get my head around lol
Well you know aqua like to do or say the opposite of what we mean haha
Ha ha yeah we do I could be ugly and he does want to sleep with me, or wants sex but not friendship, honestly this one has me stumped I can't work it out lol I'm sexy as hell! Lol
Hmm maybe he values you as a friend, which in all honesty is a real relationship to us.

I had a similar thing going with an Aqua, ended terribly but we would still be friends if not for the long distance

Sex means nothing to us hahaha. He could be testing himself and you as well.

Life is one big science experiment hahaha
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Yeah he seems to value our friendship I value it too, we didn't break up messy I just accepted it and really happy we could stay friends I know about testing people but not in this way usually keep people in friend zone before sexual relations see if they stick around, sex means a lot to me I must be a strange aqua ha ha! Will see what happens he maybe is testing only time will tell lol
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you sure his an Aqua?, male aquas will be in a healthy relationship or even married and will never back out outta good fuck from an ex!
I'm confused more than ever now because even me as an aqua girl would have sex with an ex if it was good sex. Weirdest aqua ive ever met lol
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I like you already lol love that spirit Ms Aqua 🙂

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