My Aquarius Ex

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Ducky6346
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9 Years

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Hi, I'm a bit confused, and I think I've read every single article there is to read about this strange starsign!
I met my aquarius and we hit it off really well, we did become good friends and we knew everything about each other, I mean everything, he did tell me everything which I know they struggle with!
There was never a dull moment, we travelled and we were together a grand total of 6 months, about a month in he decided he was ready and he said he loved me too ( im a libra so i love everything) and he said it everyday since.
He showed me off, I met his family, he did all the signs of someone being in love, then 3 months ish, he made a comment about one of my insecurities by accident and things were slippery for a bit but got back on track however I was swapping a lot of pills at the time to find a good one for my skin and they made me extremely sensitive and as i looked back over our conversation - i would bring it up unneccessarily. Now that I'm on a better pill, I'm like what?! That wouldn't bother me.. Why?

Anyway, beginning of april ( april 8th being our 6 months) we got in a HUGE tiff because i got the mother of all mood swings and i was very mean, but he knew and i knew and my mum knew it was out of character and i felt physically sick at myself and he knew that he knew i was sorry and i was going to make a change immidiately!

Then a week after that he broke up with me saying that if the pill was the problem he would be supportive but actually he wouldn't call what we had love? And he felt hollow? Didn't see a future?

So now I'm confused, that first weekend I got all my questions out and since then I have not said a word to him,

Is there any chance of him coming back? Like rethinking? Does he actually mean he didn't love me? Or is he just pushing me away because it's easier than just admitting whatever?
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AquaNextDoor
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10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

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Aquas dislike negative moody people. We put good distance between us and moody people. Thats just not working.. we aren't the ones to rub your back for hours while feeding you ice cream and reassuring you that its not about you. We arent good at comforting people who decide to be in a moody state 24/7.

I personally dont mess with people who have a bad rainy vibe. I'm just like "get over it and take charge of your life"

I dont know why u take those pills.. maybe if you can stop taking them he'll consider coming back to check out if you put yourself and your moods together. Remember, no one wants a drama queen.

Good luck
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workingirl
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No offence, but I do think that Aqua guys should do some kind of a training in handling moody people or rather occasional moodiness. Sometimes they can. But yeah, it happened to me too, I said something when I was sullen, it wasn't even personal, especially not directed to the Aqua guy, but it triggered a dislike, he being sullen for 2-3 weeks, and almost a breakup. So the thing about Aquas is you can't be moody, negative or aggressive, only they can. 🙂 Get off the pills, give him some time, Aquas can be impulsive. And yeah, be nice, giggly, positive, mellow, and find a way to build a 1000% turbo confidence without needing him because he'll probably be better at mischievously/unknowingly attacking it than strengthening it. Fingers crossed! Aqua guy + Libra girl is a great match worth fighting for!
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febaqua
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Posted by workingirl
No offence, but I do think that Aqua guys should do some kind of a training in handling moody people or rather occasional moodiness. Sometimes they can. But yeah, it happened to me too, I said something when I was sullen, it wasn't even personal, especially not directed to the Aqua guy, but it triggered a dislike, he being sullen for 2-3 weeks, and almost a breakup. So the thing about Aquas is you can't be moody, negative or aggressive, only they can. 🙂 Get off the pills, give him some time, Aquas can be impulsive. And yeah, be nice, giggly, positive, mellow, and find a way to build a 1000% turbo confidence without needing him because he'll probably be better at mischievously/unknowingly attacking it than strengthening it. Fingers crossed! Aqua guy + Libra girl is a great match worth fighting for!
Rather than be giggling, and acting as if nothing had happened, if she can speak to him and sincerely feel sorry for what had happened and state to him why she cares, it will do a world of good.
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Ducky6346
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I really appreciate the help! Trust me I am off those pills ( it was the contraceptive one) and I'd been trying to find one that benefitted my skin and was just good, I'm on one now that is good(:

He hasn't spoken to me, and I haven't made contact I'm just letting him cool off and have a breather from the situation, although yesterday at college i nearly walked right into him, he saw me, froze for a second, like looked awkward and then I veered off to the left because there was an easier route to take

I'm also taken steps for me like improving my own self esteem, getting myself really fit, want to go for a new look too, I don't know if he will come back or not, but I want to be in a good state if he does so that the ball is in my court,

I don't believe that he couldn't of loved me though because he did treat me like an angel, even when moody he was there, when i was sick he was comforting me and rubbing my back and literally just a week before the breakup when we were arguing he REALLY REALLY did not want to split up ¯¯¯¯¯¯
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febaqua
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Posted by Ducky6346
I really appreciate the help! Trust me I am off those pills ( it was the contraceptive one) and I'd been trying to find one that benefitted my skin and was just good, I'm on one now that is good(:

He hasn't spoken to me, and I haven't made contact I'm just letting him cool off and have a breather from the situation, although yesterday at college i nearly walked right into him, he saw me, froze for a second, like looked awkward and then I veered off to the left because there was an easier route to take

I'm also taken steps for me like improving my own self esteem, getting myself really fit, want to go for a new look too, I don't know if he will come back or not, but I want to be in a good state if he does so that the ball is in my court,

I don't believe that he couldn't of loved me though because he did treat me like an angel, even when moody he was there, when i was sick he was comforting me and rubbing my back and literally just a week before the breakup when we were arguing he REALLY REALLY did not want to split up ¯¯¯¯¯¯
Horrible decision to look away. Now, don't be surprised if he has had enough.