My ICE-TEA bearer

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virgosagscorpio
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I forgot how I met this aqua guy but we became friends instantly and counting the days it's been almost 4 years of friendship. When I met him I was in a commited relationship with my ex cap. He would always bring me ice tea and would joke around that he was my servant. He would always start an argument with me and would always try to piss me off and failed. He throws compliment in an annoying way that I eventually get used to but before i always want to kill him. We're working in one company so we basically see each other almost everyday. He was a weird creature for me. We talk a lot about anything and he was intellectually stimulating, smart and original. The thing that he does that annoys me much is whenever he calls me his "lesbian girlfriend" in front of many people so some think we're lovers. One time when I was dining out with my fianc?, he texted me saying "ai yubs u" which creates an argument between me and my fianc? leading to my fianc? calling him and warned him to stay away from me but we remained friends and he then teases me more that I have a controlling bf. He sometimes act like a school boy in front of me which I find funny and immature for someone his age (31) but he also acts like a guru and would preach me and gave me advises on life but he always wants to have an argument with me even if it's clear that I am right and he was wrong. He always ask me out specially after my engagement ended but I never had enough time to accommodate his invites. Then he invited me again to a family party next week coz his sister is moving to Australia. I know he likes me or am I wrong?!?! I'm too old for guess-the-feeling-game but I'll throw some quarter for your opinion anyways...
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Posted by aquasnoz
I'd say he does fancy you. Sometimes it could be a fine line for us when it comes to friendship vs romance. There could be a couple of things tbh but my hunch is he does fancy you in some way and he's probably just trying to be a good friend while figuring out if he's got a chance.



I'll take it by heart from the mouth of an aqua man
Thank you @aquasnoz...
Oh my your name makes me sleep 🙂
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Posted by Metoo
It all starts with friendship for aqua so I say you have a date and see if there is a real spark!! What do you have to lose?
A guy who stimulates your mind, makes you laugh and the two of you put up with each other for 4 years and he continues to ask you out despite your having to decline several times?
This could work! If no sparks...you'll always have a friend in him, but yes, I think he likes you.



I'll give it a shot, am glad you saw it that way, I care bout him and he is one friend that I don't wanna lose for some fancy feeling.
Thank you 🙂
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Posted by virgosagscorpio
Posted by aquasnoz
I'd say he does fancy you. Sometimes it could be a fine line for us when it comes to friendship vs romance. There could be a couple of things tbh but my hunch is he does fancy you in some way and he's probably just trying to be a good friend while figuring out if he's got a chance.



I'll take it by heart from the mouth of an aqua man
Thank you @aquasnoz...
Oh my your name makes me sleep 🙂
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oh my I hope that's a good thing lol!

I always sorta draw from past experiences so I kinda always say keep one eye closed the other open. What I say may not apply to him but it sounds similar. There was a lot of attraction between the virgo friend of mine but in the end I deemed it to be unsuitable for very similar reasons but that didn't stop me from being a good friend and all.

If he's got a pisces in venus the best way I can describe it is we have the ability to channel that 'love' in very different ways.
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@Aquasnoz
I turned down his invitation actually and he told me that he won't be coming thou, he invited me for dinner again but we just can't seem to see each other at the office today so I texted him back that am at home already. He told me that he has something to tell me but it may not mean anything to me at all so I asked him what was that, then he sent me a message saying "you keep me on track and I am happy when we're talking and whenever I'm down ur the 1st person I think of, truth is I'm happy you're there" it took me 30 mins to reply and I sent him a message "woot woot! So sweet 🙂" I know I sound sooooooooooooo stupid but I don't know what to say, LOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!