Need some insight on my Aquarius BFF

Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Maybe you both have a different view of „important“? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Maybe you both have a different view of „important“? 🤷🏻‍♀️

like about we are both going to our mutual friends house and i dont know where and she ignores me when im asking for direction?

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Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

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Posted by Onimusha01

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg. I will go and find out myself in person wth is going on... My Bff she sometimes ignores me when she is depressed, or dont want to talk.. but If she sees me she'll talk.

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Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

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Posted by AquaNextDoor

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Maybe you both have a different view of „important“? 🤷🏻‍♀️

like about we are both going to our mutual friends house and i dont know where and she ignores me when im asking for direction?

see i told you,i know when not to react if its not important,and she use to tell me everything and im not even complaining when shes venting,i dont know what i did wrong for her to not trust me anymore,Now i always get the news about what happened to her after its over like when her brother physically assaulted her resulting in her having bruises i was so angry with her and question her why she didnt call me or txt me and her response was “i didnt want to bother you i know your busy with your new job”,i feel like she didnt trust me enough to be there for her when she she needs me,i guess she still didnt know me after all this years of our friendship

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

If its hurting you, go get an answer.... thats what I'll do... When I have a situation with any of my friends, I cant even sleep. so I know where you come from. Go there and ask her... wtf yo?! haha. Honestly, go get an answer... maybe she is going through a very bad time.. U know when we go into hermit mode, sometimes we dont even contact our closest friends bc we dont like to feel we are bothering or being a burden.

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Posted by Onimusha01

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Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

If its hurting you, go get an answer.... thats what I'll do... When I have a situation with any of my friends, I cant even sleep. so I know where you come from. Go there and ask her... wtf yo?! haha. Honestly, go get an answer... maybe she is going through a very bad time.. U know when we go into hermit mode, sometimes we dont even contact our closest friends bc we dont like to feel we are bothering or being a burden.

exactly if she know me well then she must know there is no time when i know a friend need me even if its in the middle of the night i would go to her if she say she needs me,i guess all those times im opening up to her she didnt come to think she can count on me anytime because i treat my bestfriend as family

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Posted by Onimusha01

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

If its hurting you, go get an answer.... thats what I'll do... When I have a situation with any of my friends, I cant even sleep. so I know where you come from. Go there and ask her... wtf yo?! haha. Honestly, go get an answer... maybe she is going through a very bad time.. U know when we go into hermit mode, sometimes we dont even contact our closest friends bc we dont like to feel we are bothering or being a burden.

exactly if she know me well then she must know there is no time when i know a friend need me even if its in the middle of the night i would go to her if she say she needs me,i guess all those times im opening up to her she didnt come to think she can count on me anytime because i treat my bestfriend as family

Yeah, but U are the one hurting, She got the answer you are looking for... Do you even know what she is up to? is she like getting new friends? do you see her living her life as she always did ? Has she been there for you as you been there for her? if not. I would really reconsider calling a person like that a BFF.

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

If its hurting you, go get an answer.... thats what I'll do... When I have a situation with any of my friends, I cant even sleep. so I know where you come from. Go there and ask her... wtf yo?! haha. Honestly, go get an answer... maybe she is going through a very bad time.. U know when we go into hermit mode, sometimes we dont even contact our closest friends bc we dont like to feel we are bothering or being a burden.

exactly if she know me well then she must know there is no time when i know a friend need me even if its in the middle of the night i would go to her if she say she needs me,i guess all those times im opening up to her she didnt come to think she can count on me anytime because i treat my bestfriend as family

Yeah, but U are the one hurting, She got the answer you are looking for... Do you even know what she is up to? is she like getting new friends? do you see her living her life as she always did ? Has she been there for you as you been there for her? if not. I would really reconsider calling a person like that a BFF.

shes the typical aqua(she has many would call a friend but not close enough to know the real her) i am the closest she ever let a person in as per her shes afraid to open up because she loves unconditionally and will get hurt so much if the frienship or relationship fall apart,no she isnt living her life like she use to because thats my job i always drag her whenever i see her hurting otherwise she woudnt even acknowledge that she needs the entertainment(she isnt honest with her feelings and are always in denial but i can see right through her)she is in a lot of stress i know because of her business/with her debt problem she has a lot on her plate but its not like shes not in that situation from the start we met i was there when her stone(her father) died,i was there when her mother would belittle her,i was there when her brothers would disrespect her and would even hurt her,i wont say everything because this would make it long but the point is im always there at her weakest,so i dont know what changed

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

If its hurting you, go get an answer.... thats what I'll do... When I have a situation with any of my friends, I cant even sleep. so I know where you come from. Go there and ask her... wtf yo?! haha. Honestly, go get an answer... maybe she is going through a very bad time.. U know when we go into hermit mode, sometimes we dont even contact our closest friends bc we dont like to feel we are bothering or being a burden.

exactly if she know me well then she must know there is no time when i know a friend need me even if its in the middle of the night i would go to her if she say she needs me,i guess all those times im opening up to her she didnt come to think she can count on me anytime because i treat my bestfriend as family

Yeah, but U are the one hurting, She got the answer you are looking for... Do you even know what she is up to? is she like getting new friends? do you see her living her life as she always did ? Has she been there for you as you been there for her? if not. I would really reconsider calling a person like that a BFF.

shes the typical aqua(she has many would call a friend but not close enough to know the real her) i am the closest she ever let a person in as per her shes afraid to open up because she loves unconditionally and will get hurt so much if the frienship or relationship fall apart,no she isnt living her life like she use to because thats my job i always drag her whenever i see her hurting otherwise she woudnt even acknowledge that she needs the entertainment(she isnt honest with her feelings and are always in denial but i can see right through her)she is in a lot of stress i know because of her business/with her debt problem she has a lot on her plate but its not like shes not in that situation from the start we met i was there when her stone(her father) died,i was there when her mother would belittle her,i was there when her brothers would disrespect her and would even hurt her,i wont say everything because this would make it long but the point is im always there at her weakest,so i dont know what changed

Okay so my question to you know is... I just hear you say that you been there for her... But has she been there for you the same? What has she done for you that you consider her your BFF?

Look, .. I can be busy to head to toe and I will still go and check up on my Bestfriend. even If I fall asleep at her couch. I just see here that you smothered her to much...and maybe you are giving her more attention to her that what she bargained for. you shoud know if she is not reciprocating the friendship .. then you might think she is your bff.. But are you her BFF?

We aquas are as open as a book when it comes to BFF's and you say she isnt coming to you the same way ... Again, I would reconsider that friendship.

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you like her more than a friend?

hell no! its purely friendship,shes like a sister to me

Okay, When My BFF doesnt answer her phone, I drive to her house even to find out she was sleeping... if im worry i will not leave it at a text msg.

shes more airy than me,maybe its my moon but still shes hurting me by drifting apart,i dont know how can i save our friendship if shes not willing😭

If its hurting you, go get an answer.... thats what I'll do... When I have a situation with any of my friends, I cant even sleep. so I know where you come from. Go there and ask her... wtf yo?! haha. Honestly, go get an answer... maybe she is going through a very bad time.. U know when we go into hermit mode, sometimes we dont even contact our closest friends bc we dont like to feel we are bothering or being a burden.

exactly if she know me well then she must know there is no time when i know a friend need me even if its in the middle of the night i would go to her if she say she needs me,i guess all those times im opening up to her she didnt come to think she can count on me anytime because i treat my bestfriend as family

Yeah, but U are the one hurting, She got the answer you are looking for... Do you even know what she is up to? is she like getting new friends? do you see her living her life as she always did ? Has she been there for you as you been there for her? if not. I would really reconsider calling a person like that a BFF.

shes the typical aqua(she has many would call a friend but not close enough to know the real her) i am the closest she ever let a person in as per her shes afraid to open up because she loves unconditionally and will get hurt so much if the frienship or relationship fall apart,no she isnt living her life like she use to because thats my job i always drag her whenever i see her hurting otherwise she woudnt even acknowledge that she needs the entertainment(she isnt honest with her feelings and are always in denial but i can see right through her)she is in a lot of stress i know because of her business/with her debt problem she has a lot on her plate but its not like shes not in that situation from the start we met i was there when her stone(her father) died,i was there when her mother would belittle her,i was there when her brothers would disrespect her and would even hurt her,i wont say everything because this would make it long but the point is im always there at her weakest,so i dont know what changed

Okay so my question to you know is... I just hear you say that you been there for her... But has she been there for you the same? What has she done for you that you consider her your BFF?

Look, .. I can be busy to head to toe and I will still go and check up on my Bestfriend. even If I fall asleep at her couch. I just see here that you smothered her to much...and maybe you are giving her more attention to her that what she bargained for. you shoud know if she is not reciprocating the friendship .. then you might think she is your bff.. But are you her BFF?

We aquas are as open as a book when it comes to BFF's and you say she isnt coming to you the same way ... Again, I would reconsider that friendship.

in the past yes whenever i need advice and to vent shes always there for me,thats why i like her coz she would say something that would piss me but she is just telling the truth but now i feel we are drifting apart,im thinking maybe im the one whos not being available,often times in the couple of months she would be so excited to invite me to go here and there but i would always decline because i have a job and need to turn in early or was way to tired to join her we used to stay awake all night talking anything and everything even chat all day but i thought she would understand as she is busy herself even though she have more flexible time than me,you made me realize this oh my is it my fault that she closed off?

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Posted by TraditionalAquarianKinda

I don't think you've parted, she may be going through something personally. Tell her how you feel but of course you know be logical about it.

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by TraditionalAquarianKinda

I don't think you've parted, she may be going through something personally. Tell her how you feel but of course you know be logical about it.

maybe she is,i respect her to tell me when she feels like it but shes closed off a long time ago since before i got a job,im more honest with my feelings even though i get awkward sometimes expressing it in words,shes a cap moon she either deny it,hide it or brush it off😑

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