New here, typical question time...

Hey everyone, stumbled across the site by accident today. I'm an aqua sun male, (b-day was yesterday), moon pisces and ascending aries..




I've recently taken an interest in a libran female that's 8yrs younger than myself and at this point we are only acquaintances. If things work out then this weekend we are to get together... I have an attraction towards this individual and had to go through some effort just to even be able to introduce myself to her. My question is with our signs mixing together and the appropriate method of letting things happen more naturally. Is it ideal to enter into this situation with the outlook of developing a relationship or friendship, ie letting things fall where they may? I've read up on Libra females quite a bit and equally on my own and I am certainly at a point in life that I am very unyielding of accepting relationships from the majority of people I meet. I've yet to find the one that can trigger my emotional/intellectual connect, finding the physical connection doesn't seem to be a large problem.

If necessary I'd be more than happy to provide more detail/background, just don't want to bore anyone here. 🙂

I bet your chart is almost identical to my boyfriend's. He just turned 29 on February 14. Interesting that you are attracted to such a younger woman- my Aqua tends to look down on women who are younger than himself and assumes they lack maturity. I'm the first younger woman he's dated- and I'm only 3 years younger than he is.

I'll agree with aquaj- if she's interested, she'll get the ball rolling. I was the initiator with my Aqua and led the way in our relationship in the beginning. It worked out well for us.

Do you have any idea what the rest of her chart looks like?

Posted by aliaries
I bet your chart is almost identical to my boyfriend's. He just turned 29 on February 14. Interesting that you are attracted to such a younger woman- my Aqua tends to look down on women who are younger than himself and assumes they lack maturity. I'm the first younger woman he's dated- and I'm only 3 years younger than he is.

I'll agree with aquaj- if she's interested, she'll get the ball rolling. I was the initiator with my Aqua and led the way in our relationship in the beginning. It worked out well for us.

You didn't specify but I am assuming you are a Libra?

What you said in the beginning actually holds true to myself as well, I put a limit on any girl sub 25 I don't take interest in... HOWEVER, I also try to keep an open mind because I feel it's unfair to block someone out due to age so that can essentially open it up by a year or two. That of course makes this one even stranger yet, honestly it's the smile drawing me in, something about it is one of those events that lights the room and it's intriguing me because I see this and I automatically think of happiness. I think I'm broken.. 😛

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You didn't specify but I am assuming you are a Libra?

What you said in the beginning actually holds true to myself as well, I put a limit on any girl sub 25 I don't take interest in... HOWEVER, I also try to keep an open mind because I feel it's unfair to block someone out due to age so that can essentially open it up by a year or two. That of course makes this one even stranger yet, honestly it's the smile drawing me in, something about it is one of those events that lights the room and it's intriguing me because I see this and I automatically think of happiness. I think I'm broken.. 😛

I'm actually an Aries Sun/Capricorn Moon/Pisces Rising. My boyfriend is an Aquarius Sun/Pisces Moon/Pisces rising. We're sextile in almost every placement.

And it's a little eerie to read your posts because they hit so close to hope. :p I believe my boyfriend has said almost that exact statement to me regarding my smile, verbatim, on numerous occasions.

I have several Libra female friends interesting bunch. I do know that they have no problem with letting you know how they fee. +++Warning+++ They appear to become attached very quickly but they really don't!! Leave it alone if you are not really interested.. As Aqua's we tend to like Libra's I have dated several and remained friends. We generally make great friends, passionate lovers, but something just seems off in the relationship!!

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Internexus, you have such an Aqua face😄 — it!

Please tell me you don't have green eyes and light brown hair, too, Internexus? After looking at your pictures, I'd say you're pretty much my boyfriend's doppelganger.

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Internexus, you have such an Aqua face😄 — it!

Thanks, just doin my part! 🙂

Majority of the time I like to feel that my eyes are blue, I'm one of those individuals that color seems to change. I'm not really certain if it's based upon mood, in relation to what I am wearing etc, I've had people mention them being a gorgeous blue to, gray, green etc.. I may try to dig up a few pics that people have commented on and let you get an honest view.

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I have several Libra female friends interesting bunch. I do know that they have no problem with letting you know how they feel. +++Warning+++ They appear to become attached very quickly but they really don't!! Leave it alone if you are not really interested..

+1 i have 4 libra fems in my life. they do attach fast and they dont mind letting you know how they feel. i remember one of them telling me, "Chem i kissed him" im like sooooooooo, "i wouldnt have kissed him if i didnt want him to be my man" i was like, " well honey you got a lot of men in aruba..because you was kissing a lot of them". when we went on vacation.

as for her being young. my bro (1/31) is an aqua too. his pisces gf is 22 he is 35. he says he is so in love. i've seen it happen. i know he dated a girl that was 19 and he was 29.

and my aqua ex (02/01) is 31 his current gf is 19...so it can happen.

Not sure if these links will work but here are some random shots that show eyes fairly well..

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Posted by aliaries
Your eyes are beautiful! What a handsome man you are. 🙂 So you're an army man? My boyfriend was Navy- so were his father and grandfather.

Here's a good shot of his eyes-



^ Goofy photo from when we were only together for a month or two?

And six years later...

Thank you 😄 I feel like I can relate to the color of the gentleman in the first photo more often than not, wonder if it's any kind of trait to aqua males in relation to the blue hue. I am in the Air Force myself. 🙂

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And...before I hide my posts here... my favorite:

You two look very happy! Have you two had any real hiccups in the relationship with your mixture of signs? I've only met one aries that I know so for certain and there certainly wasn't a match on the intellectual level.

Ahh Air Force! Very cool- congrats to you and thank you for your service. 🙂

Based on the photos and your general demeanor, I doubt you'll have an issue wooing your Libra lady. Just speaking from the personal experiences of my Aqua, he's shared with me that he felt a lot of the conflict you've described in your previous posts with regard to physical attraction vs. mental attraction. He has been in relationships with women who he has been extremely physically attracted to, but had never actually found a mental connection with a woman before he entered into his relationship with me. Although fulfilling, the transition to dating a person like me who requires mental stimulation has been difficult for him at times. I'm not just a sex object for him- and believe it or not, that has been tough for him to wrap his head around. I mention this because I want you to be wary. Once you get what you want, it may prove to be difficult for you to cope with- at first. Women who require intellectual AND sexual stimulation require much more energy than what you might be used to. Also- based on all that mutable Pisces energy that you have- paired with your worldly Aqua energy- be wary of "grass is greener" syndrome and a possible wondering eye.

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And...before I hide my posts here... my favorite:

Aries! You're so beautiful! 😄

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Awww!!! Thanks Lady!! Now I'm sitting at my desk with this goofy huge smile on my face, lol!

You're beautiful, yourself! 😄

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Posted by aliaries
And...before I hide my posts here... my favorite:

You two look very happy! Have you two had any real hiccups in the relationship with your mixture of signs? I've only met one aries that I know so for certain and there certainly wasn't a match on the intellectual level.

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Thank you!

We did have hiccups- especially in the beginning. I'm an Aries Venus as well as Sun- and that energy almost always causes impulsiveness and possessiveness. To Aquas, those two traits are incredibly ugly. He put me in my places and I dialled it down- A LOT. Being with him has been quite an adjustment for me as well, but thankfully his Pisces placements continue to make him very forgiving and understanding and my Capricorn placements keep me here and interested. 🙂

I think what makes us work so well on an intellectual level is all the Capricorn energy I have- it pairs well with his Pisces placements. We're both true bookworms and nerds. We both have interests in politics. We're highly competitive. We're both athletic. We're animal lovers (dog AND cat). We play jeopardy together at night, haha. We sings and dance around our house all the time.

It's not always easy- the Pisces energy, for all its positives, is still mutable and prone to drama and temper tantrums. Every few months, he can get antsy and question our relationship, go through an emotional breakdown for a few days, and then give me the most heartfelt apology for his antics. Thankfully, I know him so well now, that I can just hunker down and weather the storm.

It's been my most fulfilling and rewarding relationship to date- and I've been in several long term relationships with a Libra and 2 Leos.

I hate to further monopolize your thread, Internexus, but I do have a random question for you:

Have you had any serious relationships with Leo's in your past? My boyfriend has dated/been in relationships with SO many Leo's its almost comical. Even the childhood/middle school girlfriends/crushes he had were predominantly Leo's. The other night, he was on Facebook next to me and showed me the profile of the first girl he French-kissed- what do you know!-she's a Leo! lol!

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And...before I hide my posts here... my favorite:

You two look very happy! Have you two had any real hiccups in the relationship with your mixture of signs? I've only met one aries that I know so for certain and there certainly wasn't a match on the intellectual level.

Thank you!

We did have hiccups- especially in the beginning. I'm an Aries Venus as well as Sun- and that energy almost always causes impulsiveness and possessiveness. To Aquas, those two traits are incredibly ugly. He put me in my places and I dialled it down- A LOT. Being with him has been quite an adjustment for me as well, but thankfully his Pisces placements continue to make him very forgiving and understanding and my Capricorn placements keep me here and interested. 🙂

I think what makes us work so well on an intellectual level is all the Capricorn energy I have- it pairs well with his Pisces placements. We're both true bookworms and nerds. We both have interests in politics. We're highly competitive. We're both athletic. We're animal lovers (dog AND cat). We play jeopardy together at night, haha. We sings and dance around our house all the time.

It's not always easy- the Pisces energy, for all its positives, is still mutable and prone to drama and temper tantrums. Every few months, he can get antsy and question our relationship, go through an emotional breakdown for a few days, and then give me the most heartfelt apology for his antics. Thankfully, I know him so well now, that I can just hunker down and weather the storm.

It's been my most fulfilling and rewarding relationship to date- and I've been in several long term relationships with a Libra and 2 Leos.

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I'm happy to see that you two were able to compromise accordingly where it counts to equate out to such a great and fulfilling relationship! I haven't figured out if the Pisces moon placement for me is a blessing or a nightmare I can't wake from.. The random things that you mention you two doing around the home, politics etc relates to myself greatly, I am a very playful/silly individual that is re

Posted by aliaries
I hate to further monopolize your thread, Internexus, but I do have a random question for you:

Have you had any serious relationships with Leo's in your past? My boyfriend has dated/been in relationships with SO many Leo's its almost comical. Even the childhood/middle school girlfriends/crushes he had were predominantly Leo's. The other night, he was on Facebook next to me and showed me the profile of the first girl he French-kissed- what do you know!-she's a Leo! lol!

I've not held any sort of a relationship with anyone that I was consciously aware of them being Leo.. That's funny/strange that he's had so many, I wonder if there was a natural attraction earlier in his life that singled them out and he was just following the laws! Haha! My whole dating/love life is very skewed and messed up from the typical. I dated one person starting in highschool, dated for 5 years, later married for 5 years, then ending in divorce back in 2010. This was with a Sag. Back to the whole Pisces moon thing and the emotion factor. I really had no problem displaying emotions and such around her, it took many years for me to be able to develop the communication to go with them but it was eventually brought entirely to maturity. However, after going through a long relationship with having the trust in someone that you are willing to make yourself vulnerable in such ways ending it with them completely destroying everything... I've been told on more than one occasion with people that I date that it bothers the person I'm with that I don't display affection at all, nor open up to them, even been told that I don't try to do such. I have a feeling that it's going to take a great deal of time for me to ever build up the necessary trust again to unleash the Pisces in me, only to then worry if that person would be accepting of that oddity coming out after they think they already know me in my entirety. 0_o

My boyfriend's story is actually similar to your own. He was hurt and betrayed, badly, repeatedly, by a Leo he dated for 4+ years in high school. It was an ugly volatile relationship full of highs and lows. They broke up and got back together all the time. He loved her, she cheated on him in public and private, he cheated back, they burned eachother, etc etc, then he left for the Navy to get away from it. After he came back, he went right back to chasing her (she was a stipper at this point) and tried for years to get back with her. The end of that came about a year before we started dating.

From the time they officially "broke up" before he left for the Navy through the moment he met me, he hadn't had a real relationship with anyone. He dated and had been with women, but I doubt he has ever really gotten over her- or over all the hurt the relationship caused him.

It took years of our relationship for him to open up and become sensitive with me. I'm pretty outgoing and open about what I want- but he has layers, and it's been hard word to peel back his layers to get to the true him. But I've always seen the goodness in his heart and am still dedicated to the task. It seems like you Aquas carry past hurts around with you like battle scars- especially the ones with Pisces influences.

I meant similar circumstances, i.e. the length of time you dated the Sag and the time in your life that you dated her. I didn't mean to insinuate that the dynamics of your past relationship were similar to that of my Boyfriend's.

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And...before I hide my posts here... my favorite:

Aries! You're so beautiful! 😄

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+1 looking good girl 🙂 representi

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Your eyes are beautiful! What a handsome man you are. 🙂 So you're an army man? My boyfriend was Navy- so were his father and grandfather.

Here's a good shot of his eyes-



^ Goofy photo from when we were only together for a month or two?

And six years later...

Thank you 😄 I feel like I can relate to the color of the gentleman in the first photo more often than not, wonder if it's any kind of trait to aqua males in relation to the blue hue. I am in the Air Force myself. 🙂

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my aqua ex eyes changed colors...from gray,green, and blue. they were gray when he was relaxed, green when he was happy and blue when he wanted some loving.

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Posted by aliaries
And...before I hide my posts here... my favorite:

Aries! You're so beautiful! 😄

+1 looking good girl 🙂 representi

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Thanks Lady! You're pretty good looking yourself 🙂 That Libra is a lucky man!

Posted by aliaries
I meant similar circumstances, i.e. the length of time you dated the Sag and the time in your life that you dated her. I didn't mean to insinuate that the dynamics of your past relationship were similar to that of my Boyfriend's.

Don't worry, I didn't think that at all. However, I am grateful that you shared your mans past situation, it provides a great view of hope that even after being destroyed he still was able to find that person that is able to still accept him without judging. 🙂