Questions on Aquas

In my experience
1. You'll know he's interested because he's a big flirt. But these contradictory creatures can treat you with utter disdain when they are interested in more than just a casual fling.
2. When they trust you with them. It may take a while.
3. Suppose it depends...if he's a shy Aqua he'd probably appreciate you asking him but if he's a little more confident he'll ask you. Mine waited exactly 6 hours after our initial meeting to ask me out and insisted we meet in about an hours time.

"I knew my Aqua was interested in me is he was very,very weird around me and doing alot of staring..Staring is a for sure sign.."

Starfish striked again :p I'd say extensive staring to a point you may feel awkward. Also clumsily trying to hide it, it's a part of our weird-acting around our person of reference.

The above reminded me one time half way through my relationship with my ex-cancer I've asked her "why me?" meaning that our relationship was too good to be true that I felt I was too weird so why did she chose me. She confessed she was totally confused cause she liked me too but hesitating to approach my weird aqua behaviour. She said that she had asked about me before we make up from a couple of people that knew me.

My Aqua has never stopped the staring....when we're in a crowd and I'm talking I'll notice him from the corner of my eye starring, but I think it's analyzing. When somebody says something sensitive to me I'll also catch him staring - watching for my reaction.

I think we all pretty much summed up your questions here. Everyone had a good bit to add and it's all very true. I could relate to just about every post on the subject. Strange how the Aqua has this very distinct personality. Hotloving did hit the nail there in saying that only a patient and strong woman will eventually win an Aqua over - I've come close to pulling my teeth out in the past. It does pay off eventually.

Hey Tas, so how are things at the office lately 😉

lol thanks for asking Galileia still quite shy, talks to others but not me, dunno what to do you see regardless of signs I can't push things, even shy she has to come out somehow to some extend or anyone would give up, will see, btw hope you got my last messages and were helpful

Usually I just go up to a girl and ask. All this flirting bull makes me mad because it takes too long.

Any of you aquas', like myself, have photographic memory? I'm so bad with names, but I can remember someone, just by looking at them who I met once ten years ago, and know who they are, but not their names. Anyone similar to me?

hi i have know my aqua man friend for 4 years but i have never been to his place or him to mine. we were talking today and he said when i was in his part of town to come over to his place for drinks. is this a good signs he wants more or is he just being friendly?

UC, he told me what days he was working this week and said to text him before i come over any day.
i forgot to add i had some bad news and told him and he said he felt sorry for me and im worried he only ask me round to his place cause of that? what do you think

any advice please i have just been to my aqua mans place 1st time and i thought things would change cause he invited me to his place.i thought he might make a move he didnt so it feels like im going to be stuck in the friends zone forever and i dont know what to do. hes going away in 4 weeks traveling and he said he might not come back should i make a move?

Oct would be two years i have seen this aqua male on and off, more on than off. It has been a roller coaster, and he has been the one to pursue me.

We met over the phone, i was calling leaving a change of number for a friend where he worked and we spoke and he asked could he use it too? LOL, explained he was new in the area and didnt know anyone, friendly me, sure. LOL

He kept being convieniently in the area i lived in, but i was always too busy and didnt let folks i dint know come to my spot.
So finally i agreed to meet him in person after he showed me a soft side in a text that surprised me. anyway, i was only meeting him to be friends. Had a drink and appetizer, convo and he showed interest in me, younger than myself, i had not gone there before, so i was quick to dismiss him at age value, age aint nothin but a number.

after that, man, he was NOT my man, NOT my b/f, etc...etc...etc....
let me tell ya what he wasnt, cause what he was, IDK

I have been "stalked" by him for sometime, funny, he says i stalk him, PLEASE!

anyway, after a break for about oh, three, four months, he calls and speaks, wants to see me.
I agreed to go see him at his spot, visited, declined his invite for intimacy and home i go. he keeps callin, we speak, he wants to be friends, we are friends as he declares, i always told him prior, "you dont even like me, so why not move on and leave me alone, i will get over you and you can make me hate you"
anyway, we are growing into who knows what, it is what it is, and i love him, been in love with him for sometime, prior to this, he was not healthy for me or where i was in life, i spunn outta control, but it was not all just him, but alot of it was.

He told me in the past, "you are not the one" and so, for now, i am just doing what we do best "enjoying each other and our time together"

no commitment between us, although, he knows already i am not a easy lay, nor a fast one.
must say, he has been beating around the bush and curious about it, i think he still torn on his own emotions and thanks to this board, i now understand a little more about how much he really conceals them and his actions say he loves me, his touch now says it too.

That sounds familiar or they whisper or talk very low when they have something intimate to say.. - - - >

That's the Aqua I'm ga-ga for right there!! Drives me half crazy sometimes. We will go to hang up, and he FREQUENTLY mumbles something that I can't make out, I ask him "What?" and he then says something that I am SURE is NOT what he was really just saying. . . Part of me wants to just laugh and say "Out with it already Mister!!" BUUUUUUT - - the other part of me is more than happy to wait until he feels he can speak clearly!! 🙂

"If he's going to leave town, then why do you want to make any moves? Unless you just want a fling, it will not help to develop anything. You are better off just keeping in touch with him on a friendly basis. In fact, you might even use him being away to your advantage by developing a long-distance situation where you will be forced to get to know eachother through email, chatting, etc., without feeling like you have to get physical right away."

i am just worried he go away and forget about me. I want to be his girlfriend not just a fling but i cant tell him how i feel so i just got to stop worrying and go with the flow i guess.

Unusual cancer
we mostly text but i have just started going round to his place(cause he only just invited me) i find its good how hes making time for me where as before he always said he was too busy etc but now we just talk for hours and have a few drinks. he is really is going away start of september for a few months but says if he finds work out there he stay there. he is shy just like me and we dont talk about how we feelings. so im just going to see what happens.