
KingOfAries
@KingOfAries
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Posted by blueribbons
Every girl you go after has a boyfriend, and you wonder why it doesn't work out :/








Posted by KingOfAries
articlel are you even an aquarius? what are you doing here -.-




Posted by blueribbonsPosted by KingOfAries
i guess ill just let it flow its way ill leave her alone will ignore her then will let her come onto me, thats how its been before lol.click to expand
yeah but that's part of the problem. you know your own goal, but you don't make progress because you accept whatever you can get from the situation. what you don't realize is that you're deviating from the proven steps to getting what you want, and I say this because "whatever you can get" usually isn't that much at all. you are not building a boyfriend & girlfriend type relationship with her because 1-she's already committed to someone else and 2-you take whatever you can get (which is being her sounding board, being her therapist in the past- she throws the scraps at you and her boyfriend gets all the goods). If you payed attention to "the plan of how to get what you want" then you would stick to a set of rules that YOU DEFINE. IE:
1- decide what you want (the perfect girlfriend)
2- decide what qualities the perfect girlfriend posesses
3- find out where these SINGLE ladies hang out
4- make yourself available to them wherever ^ number 3 leads you
5- flirt and talk with them, smile, make them feel good, vibe it out
6- hang out with them (BUT ... BUT!! Do something OTHER than studying, walking them home from school, or spending time in class. Something OTHER than that, that is CLEARLY defined as time spent under the premise of getting to know each other for the purpose of dating / becoming bf and gf. This way, there's limited future recourse on her saying you two were always just friends and that the encounters were purely innocent... when you in fact WANT them to be far less than innocent - lets be honest. 😉 )
7- go on 3 dates with this girl (get rid of ALL OTHERS during this time, all of em) during a 2-3 week period, and talk to her on the phone during this period as well.
8- after the 3 week period, evaluate whether you want to continue seeing her and make her your girlfriend, or cut your losses so you can either try this process again or move back to an ex.
9- ask her to be your girlfriend, use your set (ya you know what I'm talkin bout) and man up. ask her to be your woman
10- live happily ever after / or try steps 1-9 again.
🙂
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Posted by blueribbons
100 percent tired of seeing Aries all over the Aqua board.
And you guys call yourselves Aqua Magnets. Psshhhh ya right.
GO HOME ARIES!

Posted by 0987654321234567890
awww Red has been posting on the aqua board for about five years. He's not going anywhere!

Posted by 0987654321234567890
On a scale of 1-10, how good do you think you are at picking-up other's social cues?

Posted by blueribbons
And the response we get if we call it like it is (in this thread) is "you're stupid, don't put me down". It's too defensive, I mean take some constructive criticsm and make progress or keep banging your head against a wall.
Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. - Coco Chanel

Posted by blueribbons
ya or get into a fight :/ my boyfriend is a Libra (as you know Ali) and he'd be PISSED if something like this was happening to me.
Granted, it's the girls fault too. I wonder how much of it is her fault considering she entertains KOA's advances to a certain degree. She COULD ignore him altogether ?

Posted by blueribbons
All the while, we've been looking at his point of view. The fact that he goes after a girl with a boyfriend is highlighted and underscored, overshadowing the fact that she puts herself in questionable situations. I think that's just as guilty. I wouldn't want my s/o putting himself in situations like that, or continuing communication. So I wonder, what she's really up to.







Posted by KingOfAries
lol do you think she is still mad at me?


Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by blueribbons
SHE FUKCING FLIRTED WITH ME AND DOES FLIRT ALL THE TIME THATS THE FUKCING THING ITS NOT LIKE I FORCE IT, IF SOMEONE CUTE FLIRTS TO YOU AND YOURE SINGLE YOU MOST LIKELY WILL FLIRT BACK TO WHAT SHE GETS DEFENSIVE. Yesterday i called her and woke her up and she said later oh i texted everyone not to call me and didnt text you, and i said "i must be on the exclulive list hahaha" and instead of laughing with me and taking it as a joke it told me "think whatever you want, whatever helps you sleep at night" is that a normal response? im so fukcing done with this...
She greets people by kissing them on the cheek, and says bye by kissing on the cheek, i was gonna go for that today shes like no dont kiss me you know i dont like that, like WTF? doneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeclick to expand
perfect example of that Aries wrath and how quickly they get over themselves LOL

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Few days while we were studying together for an exam, we were sitting together she was flirting i was flirting, i poked her, she started hitting me, she let me touch her hair (she has amazing hair), and i teased her that her eye lashes (gorgeous eyelashes) were fake, she let me touch them, then she mentioned how gorgeous my eyes were, so she wanted to look closer and she was staring into my eyes face to face like 3 inches away from my face. Then we kept studying then we started talking about how smart SHE is lol.. Well she was all cocky im smart blah blah blah, it was funny to me so i was laughing and verifying that she is smart then i said yes you are very smart but.. and she says but what, and i said ur very very smart but youre a little immature.
She asked how am I immature, and im like its nothing big its nothing, then she says well im gonna go study on my own (already pissed and hurt), im like "noo," then she says well tell me, and im like okay, and she says again is it because i flirt? and she interrupted me, so im said "that too" and she says well i dont try to flirt im sorry if you feel that way, and she started jumping to crazy conclusions, then i said well actually someone told me something about you
(she already got up and started moving her things away from me), (some girl told me that she saw this aqua girl making out with different guys in our college library, that hurt me badly and i wanted to talk to her about it so this is how we talked about it),
I told her what the girl said but she didnt believe me she thought i made it all up to doubt her and that i basically assumed all those things on the fact that she flirts a lot, so we had an argument, she was pissed and hurt by me, she basically called me a liar and i told her, "[name] one thing you need to learn about me is that i do not lie" that didnt help anything she was pissed, i told her id get a recording of that girl saying stuff about the aqua girl so that she doesnt call me a liar, so next day she ignored me, basically told me to fuk off when i came to see her, i got the recording