Scorpio woman lend me your intuition

Okay so this topic is sorta embarrassing but here goes.....

So, I met this scorpio girl in class last semester. She definitely was the first one casting signs of interest (for those of you who already know sorry just bring others up to speed). I wasn't really wanting or looking for that at the time, nor expecting from such a pretty girl. I was mainly trying to stay focused on school and this girl just looked like trouble to me ^.^ but she kept on showing interest in me: stopping me before I leave class to ask a question about the teacher, interrupting my conversations with others to put in her two cents, etc.

So...... I decided what the hell I'll sit next to her and see what she's all about I mean if a pretty girl wants to give me attention who am I to stop her? Well she turned out to be a whole hell of a lot more interesting then I thought she would.... What I don't get is how she acted and what she told me at the end of the semester. By the time finals came around I had grown strong feelings for this girl but I was unsure of what she really thought of me. Despite how she may have acted at first she became more vague as time progressed... Normally her being sweet to me everyday was fine so no need to explicitly explain BUT during finals I hadn't heard from her or seen her for about a week in a half and it was driving me crazy and making it difficult to study! So I did what in hindsight I see as being a poor choice at least my timing was poor I should say. I decided to text the her (because she was horrible with talking on the phone) how I felt and pester her till she gave me an answer! Well she did FINALLY answer me but not until after quite a few texts (no I don't go around texting girls tons of message like a freak this was a one time deal thing). Her response was puzzling... Like a polite sorry but I do not feel that way and I told her I don't believe you btw and left it at that and walked away from my phone.

Low and behold when I go back to my phone 3 or more hours later she has messages me all this so sorry for making you think this crap and I don't feel this way w/e.....but what got me is 'if she really didn't then why the hell does she care so much about it' with all this apologizing and such? So I just kept calling her out on so much stuff like ... If you really don't shy the fuck did you give me your number? Yeah I never asked for her number she volunteered it to me!! I know right wtf is with that!?

Maybe shes lonely. As a Scorpio like her I crave bonding with other people and friendships. If I can't i feel out of place. I'm sure she truly does feel bad like I said maybe she wanted to at least bond with someone in class

We even scheduled classes so we would take them together this semester!! Anyhow she eventually claimed she had a boyfriend WHAT!? She did get some dude to call me on her phone who said basically "amber says your texts are bothering her and if they bother her they bother me" LOL! I was like oh right okay.... You really sound upset that I've been flirting with your so called girlfriend all semester! I was like what? That's it you got nothing else to tell me ^.^? He just shut up and hung the phone up.

Last two days of classes well finals.... She acted all distant and mad..... Made it a point to sit on the opposite side of the room from me and act mad?? First time she avoided me all semester.

Needless to say the whole situation made me feel like some weird stalker guy.... :/

This semester I totally expected her to switch the classes we scheduled together to avoid me.... At first I thought she had I hadn't noticed her in this big one we were in together ..... To tell you the truth the first time I saw her this semester it was like she purposefully walked right in front of me so I would notice her...

I didn't contact her for the first three weeks of school but I wanted my books that J let her borrow back... So texted her politely asking for and she immediately replied.... First time I contacted her in like a month in a half. Next class she had some sitting next to her she was talking to so I just sat in the back I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable lord knows I do... 😢 What I found weird was she has been staring at me in class now and that day she seemed in the best mood I'd seen her all semester when I tried to catch her after class she disappeared? I asked her where she went and said she had to run an errand but she would be back later! Im like 'I want my books!' LoL. What I notice is she is responding to my texts promptly now were as last semester she would like make me wait like she is playing hard to get... And what gives is she holding on to my books as an excuse to keep in contact with me? My brain comes up with 4 possible scenarios

1)she always had a bf and Im just clueless lol
2)she is two timing her bf
3)she was originally single but either an ex or some other guy beat me to the punch
4)she is Lying about having one because either she's mad about when I brought this up or how I brought this up. She's still unsure of me.... Or a combination of the two.

We had made plans to go out on a date or two.... Never quite worked

Shes a game player. Once you get your books don't talk to her anymore

Not sure what is her deal but that's so not like me. Tho if I feel smothered I will pull away from someone even if I was around them alot previous times

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
Maybe shes lonely. As a Scorpio like her I crave bonding with other people and friendships. If I can't i feel out of place. I'm sure she truly does feel bad like I said maybe she wanted to at least bond with someone in class

Hey if she just wants to be friends Im cool with that.... But I had been laying it on thick before I finally spilled the beans and she never made it seem like it was inappropriate or that she was taken. God the whole situation makes me feel like one them weirdo older creepy stalker guys.

You might have a point though she is younger than me but still older than most the kids I out class by probably 5 or 6 years. She's 25 and Im about to kiss good bye to my 30's.... So maybe she saw me as a mature person more her age who was serious about school like herself. After all in class last semester I would be the nerd who answered half the questions in class lol! This semester I dunno Im a little more timid just keep to myself and don't speak up much in our class together. I usually keep to myself anyways lol Im the old fart there anyways. And hey being friends is fine I suppose I stopped being friends with women cause unless they are taken they always get the wrong idea BUT I suppose if she really is taken then I guess she qualifies as a opposite sex plutonic friendship prospect or however you would say such a thing.

Whoops I meant my 20s lol Im 29 w/e

Who knows. Maybe she liked the friendship and thought your hints was just your personality. Either way that scorp girl is just avoiding confrontation like we do. Do your thing awwwwwway from her

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
Shes a game player. Once you get your books don't talk to her anymore

Not sure what is her deal but that's so not like me. Tho if I feel smothered I will pull away from someone even if I was around them alot previous times

Well like I said I doubt anyone can explain her to me.... If you saw her on a normal day I guess she could come across as a player which is what I initially thought of her.... But the person I got to know over last semester does not seem like a player type girl at all but what do I know.

Anyone who isn't being direct by choice is playing games intentional or not

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
ooo. secretive stuff like not mentioning a boyfriend. follow scorpiofemale's advice and don't talk to her once you get your books. all the mixed signal crap really doesn't seem worth it, does it?

Use your aqua ability to pretend she doesnt exist. My experiance with scorp gals is mixed at best.

Yeah...... I guess I wanna keep denying the truth cause until she did what she did she really was consistently very sweet to me. I mean I myself I'm sure can give off mixed signals no matter how obvious I am making myself sound on this messaging board. I think what really makes it a let down for me is she is like pretty much everything I could want honestly... Outside of w/e it is she is up to which is likely games like ya'll have said. She very well too like myself really would rather focus on school and doesn't want a relationship to get in the way of that I guess.

I used to really love Adam sandler I guess his newer stuff either is just not as funny to me or I just haven't watched enough of it lately but billy Madison was a funny movie back in the day 🙂

I hate games. I like directness but never am unless asked

Yeah be used to be my comic relief hero ohh the memories

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
I hate games. I like directness but never am unless asked

Yes a very typical scorpion trait one for which once I was familiar with I was very direct with her and she did not seem to be bothered by it like I said until the end of the semester so.... I dunno maybe I did smother her. Her being a player while it fits her by what I've said it definitely does not fit her personality at all... not saying that she isn't just, it vexes me! She is like one of those type of girls who is lol unapproachable. You rarely see anyone talking to her I think she intimidates men haha. She isn't antisocial but she don't got loads of dudes hanging off her I was about the only guy I ever saw talking to her. She is very confident usually, very methodical, and organized. Does not seem to open up to just anyone..... Ehhhh man I think if I keep analyzing this Imma go mad

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
well, i'm glad i'm not the only one that gets all tripped up over scorpio energy lol.

Eh everyone gets confused by Aquarians and Scorpios..... That's kinda why I almost feel like this thread is a cliche' so to speak

On another note my stupid self just now realized that the tattoo on your back is obviously fake haha

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
I hate games. I like directness but never am unless asked

Yes a very typical scorpion trait one for which once I was familiar with I was very direct with her and she did not seem to be bothered by it like I said until the end of the semester so.... I dunno maybe I did smother her. Her being a player while it fits her by what I've said it definitely does not fit her personality at all... not saying that she isn't just, it vexes me! She is like one of those type of girls who is lol unapproachable. You rarely see anyone talking to her I think she intimidates men haha. She isn't antisocial but she don't got loads of dudes hanging off her I was about the only guy I ever saw talking to her. She is very confident usually, very methodical, and organized. Does not seem to open up to just anyone..... Ehhhh man I think if I keep analyzing this Imma go mad

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She sounds like me. I am confident, organized, methodical, and always mulling over something. I'm not always around someone because we are inward people. We are always reflecting but ppl mistake it as being antisocial.

NotYourAverageAquarius,
Damm I really was hoping it would work. Like everyone else mentioned she is playing mind games.. seeking that attention and maybe enjoying the drama. If you ignore it and change your behaviour how you were around her, she will question herself. Get all confused.

OR...

She's lied about the BF, has the same true feelings for you but is afraid of being hurt.

Inclined to say ignore her right back but in the friendliest way possible.

Both my mum's are scorpios and they hate when I don't react to their stupid little mind games 😛 Well it's not that I don't react it's just I really don't care. Stay cool, be nice around her just be that 'you' when she first started talking and if she's lying about anything she'll probably crack because you're not biting at whatever she's throwing at you.

and I DO feel for you, I hate girls who seemingly want something then you cave in to give it a go and they say it was nothing. Drives me crazy and I get pushy for answers like you as well.

smh

Posted by Angeleyes17
NotYourAverageAquarius,
Damm I really was hoping it would work. Like everyone else mentioned she is playing mind games.. seeking that attention and maybe enjoying the drama. If you ignore it and change your behaviour how you were around her, she will question herself. Get all confused.

OR...

She's lied about the BF, has the same true feelings for you but is afraid of being hurt.

Well first off my little reconciling plan has not failed yet lol.... Everything you read is what happened last semester....

I tend to think it could be she is afraid of getting hurt I really dunno for sure

Man if anything I want my damn friend back she was really cool... Awesome actually

Posted by aquasnoz
Inclined to say ignore her right back but in the friendliest way possible.

Both my mum's are scorpios and they hate when I don't react to their stupid little mind games 😛 Well it's not that I don't react it's just I really don't care. Stay cool, be nice around her just be that 'you' when she first started talking and if she's lying about anything she'll probably crack because you're not biting at whatever she's throwing at you.

and I DO feel for you, I hate girls who seemingly want something then you cave in to give it a go and they say it was nothing. Drives me crazy and I get pushy for answers like you as well.

smh

My mom is a scorpio too!! She's got a twin brother too!! Im familiar with the real side of one but this other side I doubt my mom would ever own up too haha... I swear I probably will never know everything about her... I tried to ask her why this guy basically left her when they were about to get married and she told me her friend at the time convinced him somehow that she didn't love him I tried to ask her how that was possible ..... And she suddenly can't remember details like she shut it all out of memory or w/e. Makes me wonder if she didn't do funny things like this girl at school.

^ That I find so weird. Must be this ability to block things out like they don't exist! That plus the ability to play victim at times makes it frustrating lol.

I must say water signs make a messy family! Biological mum never telling me how she met my pisces dad much like you said she just forgot all of it conveniently! My dad double pisces, never talks about anything. Now my step mum is a piece of work I'll tell you that she has the lovely ability to make me look like the culprit in anything!

Though on the bright side if you do win this girl over and keep her she's probably yours forever 😛 And if you want button-pushing tips I know all the tricks to get a scorp going haha.

Posted by aquasnoz
^ That I find so weird. Must be this ability to block things out like they don't exist! That plus the ability to play victim at times makes it frustrating lol.

I must say water signs make a messy family! Biological mum never telling me how she met my pisces dad much like you said she just forgot all of it conveniently! My dad double pisces, never talks about anything. Now my step mum is a piece of work I'll tell you that she has the lovely ability to make me look like the culprit in anything!

Though on the bright side if you do win this girl over and keep her she's probably yours forever 😛 And if you want button-pushing tips I know all the tricks to get a scorp going haha.

Im open to any tips you have to offer why else am I on this site lol.

Well it's like an eye for an eye. Yep it's my way of getting even! Gets my mum going every single time.

Start ignoring them but make sure to stay in their peripheral view if you know what I mean. A bit like what she's doing to you. Pretend that you didn't see them and say things like "Oh didn't see you there, was just thinking of you". If you're wondering I don't see my parents often. The kicker is saying something that'll get their head going like "I've got an important thing to tell you, but you won't understand" then walk away.

I mean I'm sure it works on everyone, works on me too lol. I mainly do it to get a rise out of my parents though but I think it only works if they care about you. I don't think I do it on purpose sometimes, it's more if I feel like they're treating my unfairly I employ whatever tactics I think they're using against me. If they think it'll work on me I'm sure it'll work back on them.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by aquasnoz
^ That I find so weird. Must be this ability to block things out like they don't exist! That plus the ability to play victim at times makes it frustrating lol.

I must say water signs make a messy family! Biological mum never telling me how she met my pisces dad much like you said she just forgot all of it conveniently! My dad double pisces, never talks about anything. Now my step mum is a piece of work I'll tell you that she has the lovely ability to make me look like the culprit in anything!

Though on the bright side if you do win this girl over and keep her she's probably yours forever 😛 And if you want button-pushing tips I know all the tricks to get a scorp going haha.

Im open to any tips you have to offer why else am I on this site lol.

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My only tip is to ignore the shit out of her. We hate that.

HEHEHEHEHEH

Well I stopped contact for practically a mont in a half and on e she responds to a text I never respond back lol..... I haven't sat next to her in class all semester so far ..... I was wondering though with valentines day coming up..... I figure something face to face might be to much ..... And who knows she may very well have a boyfriend BUT I really don't think she does. Would a flower or a couple with an anonymous letter like "In case anyone forget to wish you a happy valentines day" or w/e ..... That too much?? I feel like Im damned if I do and damned if I don't!

Posted by IntriguedScorp

Posted by ScorpioFemale79

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by aquasnoz
^ That I find so weird. Must be this ability to block things out like they don't exist! That plus the ability to play victim at times makes it frustrating lol.

I must say water signs make a messy family! Biological mum never telling me how she met my pisces dad much like you said she just forgot all of it conveniently! My dad double pisces, never talks about anything. Now my step mum is a piece of work I'll tell you that she has the lovely ability to make me look like the culprit in anything!

Though on the bright side if you do win this girl over and keep her she's probably yours forever 😛 And if you want button-pushing tips I know all the tricks to get a scorp going haha.

Im open to any tips you have to offer why else am I on this site lol.

My only tip is to ignore the shit out of her. We hate that.

HEHEHEHEHEH

We do hate that, but you know as well as I do that if the ignoring goes on too long we might just put that person on "ignore" ourselves forever. Ignoring is a mind-game. Never wise to use mind-games with Scorps it can quickly descend into utter chaos. 🙂

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So what I should walk right up to her then.... Sit next to her when you feel like the weirdo gosh I dunno what to think..... I tried being direct and she did the unexpected?? Honestly I'm not a wussy guy but this whole situation is weird for me.... Cuase I don't know if she is being straight up with me or not lol GOD w/e this chick was so fun to talk to but I could tell from the beginning she was doing subtle stuff to see how I would react.... And I never did till the end really seemed like the less I reacted the more intrigued she became -_-

Intrigued you always been helpful even in the past thnx I may try this I dunno feels so rude of me to do though ^.^

Umm what about the valentines thing nix it or what ..... Nay or ya?

well if she gives up who cares.

I hate game playing which is what she is doing.

Lack of directness = game playing.

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
Nay.

Alright you win.... I dunno why Im letting this chick get to me she just ugh..... I dunno why I let her bother me lol .... It's like I know what she's doing(at least I think) I just not sure what her motives are?

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
Nay.

Alright you win.... I dunno why Im letting this chick get to me she just ugh..... I dunno why I let her bother me lol .... It's like I know what she's doing(at least I think) I just not sure what her motives are?

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Id stop caring what her motives are

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Just a suggestion: Out of nowhere, one day sit next to her. Find out what opinion she has on the subject at hand. Take the opposite opinion. Challenge her. In a friendly way. Don't make it lovey dovey heavy vibe. The challenge will be like an aphrodisiac and she may walk away from your discussion spinning. It might kick start her into thinking about you.

See once you ignore, you have to switch it up. If you become too predictable in the beginning she may become bored. Loyal and devoted does necessarily mean predictable.

You have an advantage: Aquas are great at shocking Scorps and we DO NOT shock easily.

I don't know--it might work. 🙂

Ooooooo that's good advice^^ go with that. We love a good challenge via mind. She's been having a good time with you as friends. She must miss that by now. It depends on her experience with men, but to her you might be to too good to be true if you really get on so well.

Scorpions are nutsy ppl

Yeah I think Im attracted to nutters...... Only girl who peeked my interest slightly before her turned out to be bi-polar!!! Gosh she was so smart though (bi-polar chick) heh I guess you gotta be odd for me to like you haha..... Even though I could be picky about looks.... You could be drop dead gorgeous but if your an airhead or just boring to talk to in general it's a big turn off.

NotYourAverageAquarius, ahhh attracted to the unusual? So to you, its not all about looks.. she has to spark your mind?

I mean I try to be picky about looks but yes honestly if your an airhead and totally selfish Imma run for the hills.... I dated a pretty Spanish girl for awhile but her selfishness was just to much for me. She was clever she was an Aries born on April fools lol but yeah I had to end it eventually I felt really bad too 😢

Yeah Im definitely most attracted to someone who has the x-factor as was mentioned in one thread on this board.... The more unique you are (and intelligent of course) the more attracted I will be

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I mean I try to be picky about looks but yes honestly if your an airhead and totally selfish Imma run for the hills.... I dated a pretty Spanish girl for awhile but her selfishness was just to much for me. She was clever she was an Aries born on April fools lol but yeah I had to end it eventually I felt really bad too 😢

Yeah Im definitely most attracted to someone who has the x-factor as was mentioned in one thread on this board.... The more unique you are (and intelligent of course) the more attracted I will be

Ahh ok so its the uniqness, that special something in her. I think you have actually found it in this scorpion chick but its just taken a lil wrong turn. its turned into a challenge now. I'm sure it will work out. Aquas do have that natural charm.. use that 😉

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I mean I try to be picky about looks but yes honestly if your an airhead and totally selfish Imma run for the hills.... I dated a pretty Spanish girl for awhile but her selfishness was just to much for me. She was clever she was an Aries born on April fools lol but yeah I had to end it eventually I felt really bad too 😢

Yeah Im definitely most attracted to someone who has the x-factor as was mentioned in one thread on this board.... The more unique you are (and intelligent of course) the more attracted I will be

Hehe as a fellow venus piscean even if we appreciate a good looking gal there's gotta be some substance behind it!