Shit exploded lol

Ok I will explain the whole situation and this could just be his Pisces moon(sensitive) Sag Mars(flighty when mad) but if someone flipped you the bird (I was drunk ok and I was laughing when I did it) would you storm out of a party and then delete that person from social media? Also if you are that done with someone why send a text the next day trying to continue the argument/further explain?

Ok so here is the story. I asked him Friday if he was going to the Halloween party on Saturday and he said no I am not feeling social. I was cool with that and then Saturday our mutual friend saw me at the party and I told him that he wasn't coming he said he wasn't feeling social. I get a text from him asking if I was at the party then a couple of people told me he was there. This made me happy because I thought oh he came just for me yay. No. He came in and I walked up to him and said I thought you weren't feeling social and then he says that our mutual friend said he would blow up his phone all night if he did get his butt here (his friend really wants to see us together smh) I was so embarrassed. He seemed annoyed so I asked him if he was mad and he said no He looked to be having a good time and I was pretty drunk most of the night. Every time I would go speak to him within 5 minutes he would get up and move. This pissed me off and I kept feeling like he kept finding ways to be around a girl who he said he didn't like and that we got into an argument before about. So I ignored him most of the night after that and just went to go dance. So when I am in dance mode I go all out and it is heightened when I am drunk. I will diva strut from one room to another that's just how I am it doesn't mean I am trying to be hostile. Well he took it that way. Once after I was dancing I went outside to cool off because I felt sick the girl he kept flirting with said that he stormed off in a tizzy and left. I called him and left a voice mail after I couldn't see him anywhere and said I was calling because the girl said he was upset and he didn't say goodbye and I think that I was just going to leave him alone because he seems annoyed by me and that I want to be his friend but I don't think he is interested in any part of me. He popped back up and it surprised and embarrassed me because I had just left a voice mail. Well towards the end of the night I looked at him and flipped him off laughing. I turned around and he was gone.

He sent me a text saying Sorry, but I cant be friends with one who flicks me off and then storms off for no reason (I laughed at this part because I was honestly just dancing) I don't care if you are drunk or not take care.
So I called him back and said you know what I feel like you are always trying to argue with me or find something to get offended about and if you are willing to end a friendship over something so simple I don't want your friendship anyway because you just seem to find excuses for everything. Then I texted him and said Oh and word of advice next time you are just not into someone just tell them and stop being so damn indirect and inconsistent. and this way you wont have to make up excuses not to talk to them anymore. Also maybe when someone is trying to talk to you maybe not get up and go flirt with a girl you swore you didn't like and couldn't stand but best of luck to you. He deleted me off social media that night.

But, he texted me in the morning which I thought was weird because if you are done why even talk to me?

loool whyd you flip him off n laugh

Posted by WaterBearerer
loool whyd you flip him off n laugh

Yes It was very childish the whole situation, but he frustrates the shit out of me! How are you saying you just want to be friends but then skittishly asking me to dance on the Sunday before inviting me to your house later cuddling with me holding hands with me hinting around that you want to spend Columbus day off with me, then ignoring me all week until I message you on Thursday? He said he wanted to be friends first for now to see how things go but how are we supposed to get to know each other if we barely talk and that next morning he was like you had no idea what was going on last night so you should have waited until you were sober and could have a peaceful conversation. I told him that he shouldn't assume that I was being hostile at him. Was I annoyed yes, but if he wouldn't keep me in the dark all the time I wouldn't assume shit and I told him that. He told me that our mutual friend's girlfriend kept hitting on him and it pissed him off and he said he kept getting up to leave because when I sat down she sat down and he is mostly stand offish at parties because he plays trumpet professionally and is going deaf so he cant hear over loud music at parties, but then he started talking to me like everything was normally it threw me off. So I don't know what to think. My friend who is gay thinks he is just gay.

Posted by killerwhalemoon
You sound like an air mars.

Yes I am passive aggressive I hate it but I am. Libra Mars

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by killerwhalemoon
You sound like an air mars.

Yes I am passive aggressive I hate it but I am. Libra Mars

I dated a Libra mars before I got Fed up with his neediness and assumption making and fell out of love with him. Hed get upset if I didn't text him within two days. No one was dying if we didn't talk for that long. Either way he will get Fed up with you and maybe spend months trying to figure out why he doesn't feel the same.

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I am not a needy person I just like to know where I stand and then I can deal with the rest. How long do you feel is proper to go without talking with someone after you told them you would really like to get to know them?

My Aqua and me; once a week for 10 years...then he moved in.

Posted by sultrykitty
My Aqua and me; once a week for 10 years...then he moved in.

Lol are you guys still together?

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Posted by sultrykitty
My Aqua and me; once a week for 10 years...then he moved in.

Lol are you guys still together?

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Yep, we've been living together for about 13 years now.