Should I let go of my Aquarius?

Hey guys, I'm a Sagittarius woman with my Venus in Scorpio, and moon in Virgo and my man is an Aquarius with his Venus in Sagittarius and moon in Libra. We dated briefly in high school until I let him go due to the fact that we had moved very far away from each (I didn't have any contact with him for 2 years) magically, through a series of funny events we ended up moving in with each other with 2 other roommates through a mutual friend ever since then we've been all over each other. In the beginning he was very attentive and charming but as we're going on almost a year, that has drastically changed...he's come to be distant, really nonchalant, unemotional and blames his attitude and lack of affection on his work when in reality he doesn't even work 40 hours a week, so he has plenty of time to spare. Mixed signals everywhere! He bought me a new phone and cooks for me almost every morning, his actions show he at least cares for me but his drastic change in showing affection throws me off! Is it time to leave and let go or overlook this change and carry on with him? If it gives insight, I'm 19 and he's 21.

Posted by aquanib
No, but you could tell your friend in the background of the pic to join this site if she wants one too. 🙂

But I am the one in the back

Posted by sagiluv
I don't know your story so I can't advise!

Just updated it, sorry! Didn't realize I accidentally skipped that portion :/

Back up; it sounds like you became too available. When a man pulls back, that's the time to step back to allow him to step up.

Posted by SinounSupreme
Hey guys, I'm a Sagittarius woman with my Venus in Scorpio, and moon in Virgo and my man is an Aquarius with his Venus in Sagittarius and moon in Libra. We dated briefly in high school until I let him go due to the fact that we had moved very far away from each (I didn't have any contact with him for 2 years) magically, through a series of funny events we ended up moving in with each other with 2 other roommates through a mutual friend ever since then we've been all over each other. In the beginning he was very attentive and charming but as we're going on almost a year, that has drastically changed...he's come to be distant, really nonchalant, unemotional and blames his attitude and lack of affection on his work when in reality he doesn't even work 40 hours a week, so he has plenty of time to spare. Mixed signals everywhere! He bought me a new phone and cooks for me almost every morning, his actions show he at least cares for me but his drastic change in showing affection throws me off! Is it time to leave and let go or overlook this change and carry on with him? If it gives insight, I'm 19 and he's 21.

WHAT ARE YOU ME ?

You've just explained my situation. I'm sag sun, scorpio venus and he's aqua sun and sag venus (libra moon)

We had this whole FWB thing going on 2/3 years ago and then he went travelling around the world. We somehow managed to stay in contact during this and he's just moved into my town. He was living with me briefly until he found a place to stay. Months prior i confessed my feelings for him and he said the same thing back, so I thought we might be on track until last week he told me he didn't want to ruin our friendship and that we would be better off as friends. he also said he wasn't good with speaking about his emotions, so i didn't press anything.

but since then he's been so lovely, taking me to dinner, movies etc. his words and actions don't match up. He has no idea how hard it would be for me to just be his friend, so right now i'm doing the whole time and space thing. just sucks that he's move down the road from me ;(

we've become a lot closer over the past week. I'm honestly so lost and confused. I think it's time for me to leave him and let go

Posted by Sagg101

Posted by SinounSupreme
Hey guys, I'm a Sagittarius woman with my Venus in Scorpio, and moon in Virgo and my man is an Aquarius with his Venus in Sagittarius and moon in Libra. We dated briefly in high school until I let him go due to the fact that we had moved very far away from each (I didn't have any contact with him for 2 years) magically, through a series of funny events we ended up moving in with each other with 2 other roommates through a mutual friend ever since then we've been all over each other. In the beginning he was very attentive and charming but as we're going on almost a year, that has drastically changed...he's come to be distant, really nonchalant, unemotional and blames his attitude and lack of affection on his work when in reality he doesn't even work 40 hours a week, so he has plenty of time to spare. Mixed signals everywhere! He bought me a new phone and cooks for me almost every morning, his actions show he at least cares for me but his drastic change in showing affection throws me off! Is it time to leave and let go or overlook this change and carry on with him? If it gives insight, I'm 19 and he's 21.

WHAT ARE YOU ME ?

You've just explained my situation. I'm sag sun, scorpio venus and he's aqua sun and sag venus (libra moon)

We had this whole FWB thing going on 2/3 years ago and then he went travelling around the world. We somehow managed to stay in contact during this and he's just moved into my town. He was living with me briefly until he found a place to stay. Months prior i confessed my feelings for him and he said the same thing back, so I thought we might be on track until last week he told me he didn't want to ruin our friendship and that we would be better off as friends. he also said he wasn't good with speaking about his emotions, so i didn't press anything.

but since then he's been so lovely, taking me to dinner, movies etc. his words and actions don't match up. He has no idea how hard it would be for me to just be his friend, so right now i'm doing the whole time and space thing. just sucks that he's move down the road from me ;(

we've become a lot closer over the past week. I'm honestly so lost and confused. I think it's time for me to leave him and let go

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Give it some time. It not easy for them to express how they feel. If his action showing he cares & always want to be around u. Than that's a good sign. Maybe u should let him know u can't be friends because u have deeper feeling fit him. That it's not always to be friends with someone that u truly like.

Btw I'm sag in a relationship with a Aquarius man. Just going off on my experience. Wish u best of luck. Don't give up so easily. Let it play out for a bit.

Posted by SinounSupreme
Hey guys, I'm a Sagittarius woman with my Venus in Scorpio, and moon in Virgo and my man is an Aquarius with his Venus in Sagittarius and moon in Libra. We dated briefly in high school until I let him go due to the fact that we had moved very far away from each (I didn't have any contact with him for 2 years) magically, through a series of funny events we ended up moving in with each other with 2 other roommates through a mutual friend ever since then we've been all over each other. In the beginning he was very attentive and charming but as we're going on almost a year, that has drastically changed...he's come to be distant, really nonchalant, unemotional and blames his attitude and lack of affection on his work when in reality he doesn't even work 40 hours a week, so he has plenty of time to spare. Mixed signals everywhere! He bought me a new phone and cooks for me almost every morning, his actions show he at least cares for me but his drastic change in showing affection throws me off! Is it time to leave and let go or overlook this change and carry on with him? If it gives insight, I'm 19 and he's 21.

Aquarius man are not good with emotion. They a are better at showing you how they feel rather than expressing it in words. I don't think u should leave. Maybe u should down and talk to him. Let him know how u feel. Have a open & honest conversation. They appreciate honesty & straight forward people. Wish u the best!

Aquas can't keep up with cuddly and attentive. Especially with a Libra Moon. People keep expecting the love to be like The Notebook and Aquas are like....no. Cancers and Leos are particularly attentive.

Heres another question, it sounds like he's there for you, what are you bringing to the table? Are you there for him? Maybe he hates where he works and he's focusing on solutions to change that, all I hear is me, me, me. Where is the WE?