Show it damnit! :)

How does an aquarius male show you he still likes/love you after you've been together for a while?

Cause sometimes I read to little in his deeds or "aloofness" and sometimes I think I read to much in them!

Very confusing 🙂

AU SECOURS!

If he's still there, I think he digs you.

Lol!

Actually I think he's just with me because I have a few exams ahead (.....as if 😉 )

Last time I saw him I looked fab, seriously! All of his friends noticed! But he didn't say a word, he just looked/gazed/stared.. and then he got me a chair and planted me next to one of his friends' girlfriend haha.
At least he got me a chair! Now THAT was a very romantic gesture of him, wouldn't you say?

🙂

eh, there just weirdos...but he's interested. lol

Is he sure your interested is the question.

Yep!
And I caught him staring later on too and he had this goofy smile on his face.
I'm always like: WHAT—

We have been together for over 7 months now 😄 haha!!
And it feels like we're both unsure about the situation at times..
But that's just because we don't get to see each other enough!
= Not good!! --> aqua gets bored --> Aqua looooses interest!

Why are you together...yet not together? We like our space, but Im sure he knows what a relationship entails.

You two should make time for one another.

I guess at first I was "afraid" of giving him too much attention and maybe claiming him too much. But instead he started to feel neglected 🙂 in way...
I'm very busy/concentrated at the moment (exams - yikes) and he's busy with a capital B!
He's been working a lot, he's been searching for a house and now he's trying to sell a product his brother created.. So we're walking different roads here!
He's been nagging a lot lately (which is very understandable) but it's just that WHEN we get together things fall into place..
Still, his moodyness concerns me a great deal.

I once did! And he laughed and ........mysteriously...... (what's new :p) looked the other way 😄

After exams you two should get a little mutual TLC going. It will be greatly appreciated on both your parts. Yes, aquas do need attention, jeez...you may have taken the astro science to the extreme cancimini.😛


Good luck with exams.

Thanks!

Who believes all the crap Linda Goodman wrote about anyway, hehe

Only a week and a half and I will hunt him down!
(I'll do it in a dignified way of course).
This weekend he will be spending some time with his best friends, so I "saved" a few days -so to speak- :-p
Ah men... little babies 😉

"That and or they say nothing,nothing and shake their head looking lost..ITs funny.."

YESSS!! Spot on!

I once told him after we had a little discussion:

"Honey... you're a doll.. but you're QUITE a handfull!"

He burst out laughing

Handful*

Yet I think that he's trying to "punish" me in a way for not being there for him these past weeks, since he often does not seek contact unless I don't text him for a whole day. Eventually he will send me a message at 0.00 PM or so. To say that I'm so very quiet and to tell me about what he did that day.
Or when I write him a sweet message he answers friendly but a little neutral/reserved. Not responding to "I miss you - love you - wish you were here".

But my god... this could just be an aqua who's just being.. aqua *sigh* 🙂

Im actually pretty good at trigonometry.

After having been "flirting" (for lack of a better work! LOL!) with this cute aqua guy I have known for over a year now. I feel that he had actually warmed up to me a little bit in his own weird way, mostly per e-mail (we met each other through an investment I was making). We seemed very excited when he found out how many people we knew in common, and he got obviously jealous once when he had seen a guy and boy play basketball outside my house (his best friend lives on the same street as me)--by his reaction to this, I think he thought I had a boyfriend! We had actually gotten to the point where he suggested to stop at my house to pick up some papers he needed, since he was going to be at my street at this and this time, anyway to take out his friend's dog, but since I wasn't going to be home, that never happened. Two weeks ago, I was going to stop by his office with some final paperwork, and he had announced that he would definetely be in all morning. When I got there, he was not there. I e-mailed him just to make sure he got the papers, and I got an e-mail back a little later saying how sorry he was that he missed me, but he had had a crazy day etc. etc.

I was a little confused whether everything was in my head and he had just been nice because we had had a business deal going, that he would actually get a commission on, and I didn't quite know what to think, so I decided to give it a little breathing space and not answer him back right away. I think that was a big mistake, because the following week, I got a call from his assistant (I had only dealt with him directly until then), if I could come in and sign some paperwork that had been left out. I said I could come right in, and he was out for lunch. I then sent him an e-mail saying I was sorry not to see him and I actually asked him a specific question with regards to the paperwork I had been filling out.

This was a week ago, and I have not heard back, and now I don't know if I have actually managed to turn him totally cold towards me. I felt that we had such a nice rapor going, where our communication was getting more and more away from just business and getting more personal. Howewver, I did also want to give him breathing room.

Unusualcancer, I have read in one of your responses that you feel with aquas that they need someone who will remain a constant factor no matter how their complex natures make them react. I think that is so true. I think my aqua guy had started to open up, and when I didn't respond right back, he withdrew. Either that or he is just waiting even longer than it took for me to respond to him, before he will respond to me? If I contact him again before he contacts me, I guess it may seem like I am smothering him.

No matter what I do, it seems like it will be a loosing proposition. Should I wait for him to get back to me, which may be never? Or should I show constancy by trying to contact him again (which could seem like I am smothering him?)

He is soooo cute!!!!

That is cos you Cancers read too much.

Thank you bijou2u--

I will take you advice to heart. I would love to stop by his office just to say hi--I really like his assistant, but the office has this mean receptionist, who seems very nosy, remembers my name by now (my aqua guy used to think that every little detail was worth another meeting (LOL)), and acts like I hounding him.

You are right, I need to come up with some more inventive ideas. Let you know how it progresses.

"that you feel with aquas that they need someone who will remain a constant factor no matter how their complex natures make them react"

I find that true also!

I've noticed that when you keep things on a neutral base aquas will greatly appreciate just that! "Mine"'s a drama queen sometimes really! But when he stops doing all weard and I just keep it ..neutral, fun and lighthearted he gets right into it, feeling relieved and ready to move on.

"No need to say anything about how you feel, just start working your magic and keep showing up/bumping into him."

"Emailing is probably not going to get you much of a response. You have to go the visual route."

--> Also true! "My" aqua once told me he'd rather I SHOW him love than text/e-mail/.. about it. Which is actually.... pretty logical!!! 🙂

"If you're shy, don't hide it right away, give yourself that extra second or two to be uncomfortable with him before you clam up or hide that reaction. That is intriguing and charming, and honest."

--> True! Aquas may be known to be coldhearted lil' bastards at times, but when you're honest and open about your feelings in an "obvious" way (not too obvious in a clingy demanding needy way of course) they WILL appreciate that "behaviour". And you really need just 2 or 3 seconds to do that. As long as they get the message! They will not act as if you made a fool of yourself afterwards, on the contrary, their curiosity is often "tickled" and you might find yourself to be his new interesting project he's working on 🙂

- love poems: not in a million years I'm afraid 😢, but he did give me a card when we were together for 6 months!!! 🙂
- nuzzles: he's a nuzzler for sure! But only on h?s terms 🙂
- weekend getaways and sappy stuff like that: he so wants me to join him this weekend with his friends (they're all fond of me, he likes that I think), but I've got an exam 😢
- inviting you into his family circle: he invited me to have dinner (lobster.. mmmcanibalismmmm) with his mum and dad, we did a gastronomic weekend with them, he took me to his brother's place, ..

we did --GO ON--* a gastronomic weekend

So yesterday, I was posting how this cute aqua who after a year seemed to be opening up to me, and I ruined it all by not responding to an e-mail until after a week, partly since I didn't really know whether it was business related or not!!!!

Well, today I was in a parking garage in town, and who was parked there but him!! I was at the automated parking machine, and I didn't really notice him until he was in his car, straight across from where I was. I think he saw me, but decided to ignore me. I was walking to my car while he was pulling out of his space and he obviously did everything to ignore me. I looked straight at him while he was driving by me, and he then finally looked at me without even a smile and lifted his hand slightly in a greeting. I just stood there looking at the car while it left.

I don't understand how this guy can act so coldly based on me ignoring him for a week, not to mention that he managed to ignore me for many, many months. Even he has turned totally cold towards me, this is just plain rude behavior (especially since I was also his client!)

Admittedly, had I not been so surprised myself by seeing him there, I could probably have smiled and waved at him.

It certainly confirmed that he is purposely trying to ignore me. Any good aqua responses to this one?