Small question aout Aqua

So recently my Aqua's mother looked at the phone bill and saw that my Aqua talks to me 60 hours per month. That's about 2 hours per day. She started screaming at him and told him that he's wasting my time with me and that I must be a possessive gf. But that's not true. I only call him maybe two times a week and he calls me every night so we talk for an hour or two before we go to bed. We both love talking at night, but now I'm scared that he's going to listen to his mother. I mean he's 20 years old and shouldn't be listening to everything she says, but I don't know about this. Should I be worried? It's not like I call him all the time and distract him from his school work and life, we just talk when we're free. And plus, if he wasn't talking to me, he's prob be talking to his other friends. How can he be constantly productive 24/7?? I don't think that I'm a waste of time.

So do u guys think I have anything to be worried about? Do u think that my aqua will start talking to me a lot less after this? I'm hoping that Aqua instincts will kick in with this and he'll rebel against his mom. We've grown so much because we talked on the phone a lot because I lived 8 hours away for about 8 months and our only contact was the phone. Now that I'm permanently back he still always wants to talk to me on the phone even though we get a chance to see each other whenever we want. Any input?

I mean "his time with me"

Hey jen, I'm an Aqua female, and although I do love to talk, I'm most definitely going to spend that time talking in person rather than on the phone if I have that as an option. I mean there is more to communicating with your significant other than just the words that are being spoken such as: the way one uses their facial expressions or hands and body to get their point across, and isn't it just the best when your in the middle of a very deep discussion and you can just stare into that other persons eyes and you can almost see their thoughts just as clearly as they surely do in their mind? And if I can be right there and I'd have the opportunity to laugh WITH that person or perhaps give or receive a touch on the arm or hand and have that physical connection as well as the mental, it shows each other that you are both right there and very much into what each other are saying that moment which in no way can be done verbally via the world of the wireless. I believe that there's nothing else that can compare to the human touch. Perhaps the two of you could try spending quality time together talking at least a few nights a week, and limit your phone chats that way you would have the advantage of getting the best of both worlds. Besides you DO want to be able to see the smile that appears on his face every time he sees you don't you? I saw put on that cute little sundress, or those shorts and a tank top and go out and have some fun together! Memories are built on moments we share together, NOT moments we spend alone taking pics of oneself and sending them via a cell phone!!! Go make some REAL memories gf! PEACE & LOVE

I think u misunderstood me lunarbaby. We of course do go out and see each other a few times a week. It's not like we limit our contact to the phone only. It's just that we still like to talk when we're not together. Especially now that he's going to have summer school and I'm going to get a summer job, we're probably only going to get to see each other during the weekends and maybe once during the week. Therefore it would be nice if we still got the chance to talk on the phone for a while when we don't see each other. I just want to keep our strong bond with constant communication like we've always done when not together.

What Im really asking is from ur Aqua's points of view, do u think that my Aqua is going to start talking less to me over the phone when we're not together because he keeps on upsetting his mother?

Does his mother pay his bill or did she just spy hi statement??
Im guessing if you two talk at night its not during peak hours, therefore free??

I don't think it should matter to him...I would be more annoyed by my mother moreso than anything else and my lack of privacy seeing she has access to my phone records. If I were to get around the situation I would probably use my phone less altogether and make more effort to talk in person.

Just wait and see how he handles it. If he really enjoys talking to you, it shouldn't be a problem.

Well he gonna have to start using his cell...when its free minutes more often now. I think thats what you should encourage. Add in a few more casual texts, if he's got it unlimited.

Hopefully his mother doesn't see his cellphone bill.

His mother pushing him to more casual dating won't really work on him...we're pretty stubborn lol