So confusing, yet so intriguing.

So me and my aqua buddy have come a long way from where it began. Friends on the verge of being lovers. However, quite annoyingly he is now not responding to my text and calls, but is all over me when he sees me. He says he ignores many people not just me and it's not personal. I said cool, but I don't respond well to being ignored, especially since I don't constantly contact him, I added he would need to think about that now he knows how I feel. He said he would as I am the best woman he knows......SMH, yes I'm a Libra and I do need attention and I am afraid I'll get bored of his hot, cold ways. I know loving someone doesn't mean having to be with them. As such I don't put up and settle and would hate to feel anyone settled for me. A friend of his said my name doesn't leave his lips, but may be I need to hear how he feels for myself too sometimes!

Posted by flowingwater
Wow, you're clingy but like I said you're pretty immature as well.

I knew you were going to come back lol he's hot and cold with you.... That's not good. I'm NEVER hot and cold with my Virgo, I know what I want and we text all day so if this is happening to you he's not that into you. When an Aqua truly likes you "action speak louder than words". Hes probably telling you what you to hear but doesn't care to back up it with action. If your the type that needs a lot of attention? The Aqua man is not for you. You're going to feel more and more dissatisfied.

Well, if that be the case, I'll live on. I should also add I'm not deeply into your tone. I don't care what you think about me cos you don't know me. However you are with your virgo you are not ALL Aquas. Ease up on judging me...

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Posted by Aqu@Libra
So me and my aqua buddy have come a long way from where it began. Friends on the verge of being lovers. However, quite annoyingly he is now not responding to my text and calls, but is all over me when he sees me. He says he ignores many people not just me and it's not personal. I said cool, but I don't respond well to being ignored, especially since I don't constantly contact him, I added he would need to think about that now he knows how I feel. He said he would as I am the best woman he knows......SMH, yes I'm a Libra and I do need attention and I am afraid I'll get bored of his hot, cold ways. I know loving someone doesn't mean having to be with them. As such I don't put up and settle and would hate to feel anyone settled for me. A friend of his said my name doesn't leave his lips, but may be I need to hear how he feels for myself too sometimes!

He probably likes you but he's not committed to you or the idea of you. I think if you have to maneuver round them as opposed to them also satisfying your needs, sun sign or not, then you should either cut your losses or keep your options open.

I'm not to keen on saying he doesn't want you, but you may need to ease up and show you're not waiting around for him and live your own life. Let him come for you.

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I hear that. Thanks. I have options, so perhaps I should just open up to them... Glad you are not keen to say he's not into me, because the truth is, I'm not sure if he is. I just know that I am into him and if that makes me immature so be it. I'm not clingy however. If I come across as so it's because I am all or nothing. If I let go I LET GO!!! I hurt people that way...not a nice feeling!

Posted by flowingwater

Posted by virgoyum

Posted by Aqu@Libra
So me and my aqua buddy have come a long way from where it began. Friends on the verge of being lovers. However, quite annoyingly he is now not responding to my text and calls, but is all over me when he sees me. He says he ignores many people not just me and it's not personal. I said cool, but I don't respond well to being ignored, especially since I don't constantly contact him, I added he would need to think about that now he knows how I feel. He said he would as I am the best woman he knows......SMH, yes I'm a Libra and I do need attention and I am afraid I'll get bored of his hot, cold ways. I know loving someone doesn't mean having to be with them. As such I don't put up and settle and would hate to feel anyone settled for me. A friend of his said my name doesn't leave his lips, but may be I need to hear how he feels for myself too sometimes!

He probably likes you but he's not committed to you or the idea of you. I think if you have to maneuver round them as opposed to them also satisfying your needs, sun sign or not, then you should either cut your losses or keep your options open.

I'm not to keen on saying he doesn't want you, but you may need to ease up and show you're not waiting around for him and live your own life. Let him come for you.

This.

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-50 Flowingwater. Nobody needs sugar coating or unnecessary extra salt! I appreciate you want to help in your own way, but considering the feelings of others is NOT a weakness.

Posted by flowingwater
I'm so done lol that's why other aquas aren't answering.. Have you noticed?

No, but you clearly have... Won't argue with you. Strange but true, I come here for insight, not fights. If it makes you feel better to act mean and believe it's for the benefit of the receiver, have a ball. No skin off my back. I value ALL opinions, surprisingly even your's!!! 😉

start opening your other options

dont wait on this aqua to finally decide to commit to u

all or nothing deserves all or nothing

i dont believe you are being needy

he might know he has you in his pocket now and threw u on the back burner .

"work is done"

As an aqua if you hate that I ignore everyone because I do do that often such as not answer text, messages on any social media just because I Dont want to then I'll keep doing it til it drives you nuts and then I can see your true colors and lose even more interest in you. Not sure he's doing the same thing as me but if I was him I'd be able to walk away from you and never speak to you again and be fine.

Posted by heartofsag
i dont believe you are being needy

he might know he has you in his pocket now and threw u on the back burner .

"work is done"



I agree with a lot of what you have said. I don't particularly like being harsh that's why I take my time to walk away, but generally when I do it's for good.

It's like I have this Leo coming on strong now, though he missed his chance! I can NEVER let him back in! My feelings have been neutralised. I want nothing from him, not even friendship quite frankly!

My aqua has noticed and will look so angry when he sees him talking to me. We live the same neighbourhood. He will even join us and make a point of hugging me in front of the Leo. He never does that when other guys talk to me...like I said I have options and he knows it. So I guess it's time to go and explore them. Whatever happens, happens.