@jerseycapricorn
11 Years
Rejection & Aquarius
How Aquarians Handle Rejection and Moving On
Aquarians often experience rejection as a challenge but may prefer to detach emotionally rather than self-destruct. They value independence and tend to process past relationships by seeking personal growth rather than dramatic actions. Each individual is different, but generally Aquarians focus on future possibilities rather than dwelling on past hurts.
Posted by Nightcap
Maybe at first because when an Aqua is committed they are fully (even though it takes a lot time to get to that point)..but after that, it's a slow fade into oblivion. Caring less than you do is an aqua specialty 🙂
this kind of is more truer than anything.
it's INVESTMENT, (also i'm dominant earth) so i won't go all in unless i know for sure he's FULLY committed.
and same i notice with those i've committed to.
Posted by jerseycapricorn
To fellow Aquarius, do you take rejection well especially when it comes to someone you used to be with in the past that you still love but don't feel the same in return? Do some or most Aquas tend to self-destruct and do wild stuff in order to move on?
oh never mind.
i gotta read the OP first. lol
i dont give a shit about the past, ex's remain the the past.
so honestly this is just kind of pointless.
Posted by flowingwater
Maybe it's time for me to move to the Pisces board lol I'm just too emotional for the water bearers. All my aqua friends in real life think so too.😢
lol
ive only have one aquarius girlfriend and she's airy dominant.
which is why i never see her.
and to be very very honest, she's married to a Scorpio sun male, so what does that mean?? i doubt that he's super emotional. (he's got aquarius moon)
Posted by flowingwater
It's too late... I already packed my things and moved over but they don't seem welcoming lol
aw. (((FW)))
remember, you're single.....
so in a messageboard with alot of single individuals, there's bound to be competition going on. 😄
Posted by flowingwater
It's too late... I already packed my things and moved over but they don't seem welcoming lolaw. (((FW)))
remember, you're single.....
so in a messageboard with alot of single individuals, there's bound to be competition going on. 😄
Wtf Lisa lol That's making me feel worse.
Well I have a date today with the Virgo. He's taking me out, I'm so nervous!!!!! I could die right now.
😭
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😢 Oops!!
Have fun with the guy. You're gonna be fine!! enjoy yourself.
and feeeel better!!!!
@flowingwater, @AquaMermaid: Same here. I am one of those dark Aquarians out there.
I am a third decan Aquarius as well and wondering if that is the reason for this.
Rejection is part of life and its something ive learn to deal with appropriately with grear understanding and the right frame of mind.
It hurts I'll tell you that. Especially when they say they are in love with you once upon a time. It took me almost two years and almost a grand in alcohol to push me in the right direction. Aqua sun and Pisces moon here
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To fellow Aquarius, do you take rejection well especially when it comes to someone you used to be with in the past that you still love but don't feel the same in return? Do some or most Aquas tend to self-destruct and do wild stuff in order to move on?