So, how does one tame and keep an Aqua man?

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Okay, I know that sounds rather arrogant. But if you read my post about the Aqua man being fantastic in bed....you would realise that I can't lose this man! He is too amazing for words. And he cracks me up!

I keep thinking "Clark Gable, Clark Gable" when I see him, because he has that debonair attitude, that tough guy air, that smile, that wink....as well as being slightly goofy when he dances 🙂

Do I play hard to get? Does he like surprises? Lingerie? Or just saying crazy out of the blue things? I am capable of all of the above, and willing to relinquish my natural Scorp fixity and stubborness....if only to prolong this love affair.
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Girl, I understand the Aqua Man in bED!!! THey are amazing...truly amazing...and I am in the same boat...or similar one anyways...I recently sent my aqua a bag full of lingerie, toys and a sexy note...I got a call that night, and he's taken me out twice in one week (without the sex part)...they are kinky and love it! It sounds like you guys are having fun, unfortunately, my aqua man is a little more shy and in bed, although willing to experiment, does not have the greatest sense of humor! Or if he does, I just haven't seen it yet, but I will say, from my short experience with this aqua (only 2 mths)...they love to have fun...party and overall like to have a great time...keep things interesting and I have a feeling we'll be able to keep them aroudn...they love learning new thigns..introduce him to anything new that they can learn from...and try the lingerie thing...
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a muse a libra
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whatever you do, don't try to tame him. Hell, I'd even stay away from trying to understand him. From my experience, they HATE to feel they are understood.

But they've got soft hearts, believe me. They feel a lot, but keep it all inside. Just stay comfortable. Things will be great btween you for a little while, and he'll start pushing against the fences, straining the relationship a little here and a little there. Keep your cool if you can, he needs you to be solid so he can be a little crazy.

(ps: it is very difficult to keep your cool, time after time. Don't let him walk all over you, though. They can't stand a woman who'd let them do that.)
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yeah, i agree. aqua men do not like bitchy girls...well, at least my aqua man doesn't!!! they just want a woman that has a backbone, a strong opinion, and independence. they want and need a STRONG woman!!! someone they can admire and respect at the same time.


"I think "sassy" is the idea, not necessarily "mean". It's okay to have a bit of an attitude as long as you don't forget your sense of humor"

-yes...they like when you can take a few and throw some back! they like to joke around and tease, but you have to be able to be witty and comment back. be able to joke around with him and fun with it, and not take it to heart. but, don't ever have an attitude...oh, they hate that!
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I need some guidance. I have been dating a aqua for 3 months now, most things were good except for the calling thing, and he does call atleast once time a day. But, now he is very aloof, me being very leoish I told him if he doesn't have time for me, we can go our seperate ways. Oh no, he 'loves' me, but still what is up with this and its just started this weekend. Past relationships have taught me that he was with someone else. Maybe he does. What is up with these men?? Have dated a leo man before--- whole lot easier than this!