so strange?! aqua men are weirdos!

so the aqua guy i was seeing for a year but was never committed to told me to get out of his life. and now he is in a relationship with someone else. he never wanted to commit to me but was very warm and affectionate with me and would call me often when we were involved. we lived an hour and a half apart. so anyway a month ago he told me to get out of his life and a week ago he started a relationship with someone new. his last relationship before that was 7 years ago. how bizzarreee! insight, anyone?

so the aqua guy i was seeing for a year but was never committed to told me to get out of his life. and now he is in a relationship with someone else. he never wanted to commit to me but was very warm and affectionate with me and would call me often when we were involved. we lived an hour and a half apart. so anyway a month ago he told me to get out of his life and a week ago he started a relationship with someone new. his last relationship before that was 7 years ago. how bizzarreee! insight, anyone?
and are aqua men not into physical appearances as much as other qualities?

Krispy Kreme - especially the bavarian cream...mmmmmmmmm

and the apple fritters rock my world.

just kidding actually. i'm not much of a sweets eater. i just got a kick out of your response to asa's predicament and had to go with it.

asa011 - Its not just Aqua's - Its about the guy not the sign - The guy u were seeing for a year is an asshole - Just thank ur lucky stars it ended now instead of later when you were even more involved 🙂
Try & think about the lessons he taught you & what good you took out of that experience Oh & get laid 🙂 Time cures all ill heart. No one can feel what you are going thru but I bet its painful - good luck to u.
If you do get into a relationship with someone else next time be sure u know what you want & be sure they do to. Take this time to get to know yourself better.

I wouldn't be all-broken up over Mr. Aqua guy....anyone lady or guy for that matter who speaks in that rude way..."get out of my life" ain't exactly a gentleman by any stretch of the imagination......so he's in a new relationship......let's see how long that will last:-)!!!and when and if he does renew contact with you.....all you gotta say...."Eh weren't you the guy who told me to get out and stay out of your life!!!".....well consider it done Mister...ciao and you hang up:-)

Alana x


P.S. I am being slightly flippant here but I know you must be hurting at his behaviour and I'm sorry for that.

Take care.

i think people need to just stop analyzing/obssessing over their aquarius issues and just go with the flow. yes, we all agree, aquarians can be rather baffling but they're human beings - just let them be themselves and enjoy the time you spend together. no relationship is going to be easy, or self explanitory. i admit to being just as confussed by my aquarian friend but i have come to the realization that sometimes you just have to let go and stop trying so hard to figure every little glance, gesture, behavior, word, etc. and the meaning behind it.(part of the reason i started lurking on here several months ago - and everything that i have read thus far has been very insightful.) i have found that since i stopped trying to figure him out and just enjoyed spending time with him, i am much more at ease with things. we're just friends and have been for close to four years now. we fall off the face of the earth, so to speak, for weeks sometimes months at a time but still keep in touch. it is what it is, no use in trying to lable it, because i couldn't even if i wanted to. and if it gets more serious say over the next, i don't know ten years or so, so be it. i value him emensely as well as his frinedship. sorry for ruining a good 'doughnut" thread...you have my vote for krispy kreme, apple filled. i honestly hate red jelly-filled from any establishment, as i ate too many as a child and it all tastes too artificial for me.

'no use in trying to lable it'

GOOD! I am assume you meant label. Thanks for getting it. Whats your sign.

Krispy Kreme is better than any dry donut Dunkin Donuts tries to sell.

i am a virgo, so for me not over-analyzing something (kinda like beating a dead horse into chop-meat....) is a difficult thing to do. instead i've just decided to take a more zen approach and just enjoy being pals.

amen, sista!

I have encountered some weirdo ones, too...but quite a few wonderful ones as well...so it all balances out.