the aqua man -the rules

ok so we have enough info on this site-rules and so on-but what will really make them commit to something serious-even if u do the rules to perfection-i was really understanding them, now i feel like im back to square one-they come so close-then run away again-maybe ill run to a fire sign, need some warmth-

elly...

everything you say is true. they run away when things get too close for comfort every time. and there is nothing you can do about it. you just have to wait until the day they are ready to commit, if you are willing to wait! it must be on their own terms...

Nem era Diputs - 2006

try that on for size.

oh and elly...i have run into a fire sign since my aqua broke up with me, and it has been very fun!!!

remind me of fire signs...i hung out with an aries and he and i butted heads...could be the bull in me.

LMAO Primegen!!!

However, it could work...really.

oh no, this guy is not an aries. i have dated a couple of aries men, one of whom i love and he is a great guy and a great friend to this day...and the other one was a nightmare, so into himself...he was a joke. anyway, this guy is a sag and he actually has the same birthday as my father which is kinda scary, but oh well.

remind me which signs are Fire Signs. Which signs "go" with Taurus?

HEY now.. watch them Gemini comments!!! LMAO i understood what she sayin' hahahaha

thanks sag...but if you read elly's first post she said something about running to a fire sign for warmth...did you not get that?

AquaBoys are non-committal. Don't even bother.

that is why i commented on a sag...and then houstonpeach said something about an aries, so therefore i commented on aries. sorry, it's just that i have dated a lot of guys in my past (pretty much every sign), so i can comment on them.

LMAO yeah I know.. I'm guilty.. can't help it, brain thinks faster than i type...

Boys are Stoopid.

I need to find a bumper sticker.

you didn't understand it? well, then what school did you go to?

i have never dated a taurus before...prob one of the only signs i never dated besides virgo

yup, that's us Bulls. impatient and assuming...don't forget about our nagging and nitpicky attitudes...🙂 but we're super lovable.

i don't think i mix well with earthy signs...i have too much fire in my chart, i guess

virgos are BORING....and aren't Tauruses suppose to be compatible with them?

houston...have you still not heard from the aqua?

oh god, yes. i have...it's a drama mess!

he has called you— what happened?

the guy , i swear, has a screw loose.

i actually have told him to go away because he's still doing the "let's be friends" and "we can't be friends" speeches with me.

the boy is FUDGED up.

so why do you continue contact with him?

he calls me and i'm just a pushover i suppose

Wow, if as much energy was spent on other things as is spent trying to figure out agua men, we would have cures for all major diseasing plaguing humans and a new gravity and oxygen regulated society built on the moon. Maybe the answer is that, of many other signs, they, in particular, don't know what they want, or that the things that they do want are at total odds with one another so they are very imbalanced as a result.

i think i have some fire elements in me, but i'm a bull baby!

hey, in particular, don't know what they want, or that the things that they do want are at total odds with one another so they are very imbalanced as a result.

that's what i've been conveying for the last month!

i know what thats like...my aqua had no clue what he wanted and still doesn't. and he is constantly weighing out his decisions

'OOH let's all listen to galileia428. she's got her head on straight.'

Ha! I wish...almost

well i let him whine last night and i told him a few things that were on my mind and my own observations about him...he also mentioned how this one person whom he's been friends with for about 3 years lied to him and she apparently has a history of doing underhanded things. well when i told him that he was wishy washy, he said "I think it's best that we not be friends"...I asked "Do you THINK or do you know that we should not be friends? because if you think, then that's just being wishy washy again"...he said "I think"...I asked him why and he said it's because we're two different people. well that set me off...I told him "So let me get this straight. you and i are two different people and we're not meant to be friends, yet you are perfectly OK with other friends lying and doing underhanded and shady things that affect you?" I told him he needed to re-evaluate what he thought was the definition of friendship.

sagi...you are right. i said something wrong to him and he did get hurt and question it...but he was also already interested in another girl at that point.

houston...oh that is so aqua of him. "we are too different" is the typical aqua response, which is a load of bs, but they all seem to use that line.
he sounds like my aqua...likes to be treated like sh*t be people.

oh i didn't treat him like Sh*T, rather i felt he treated me that way...it was a low blow for him to say we were too different when i'd just listened to him complain about this other chica who lied and deceived him and yet he will likely remains friends with her. I told him that if he's going to remain friends with her after her having a history of doing stuff like this, then that must mean that the two of them are alike therefore he has qualities that I do NOT look for in a friend...blah blah blah..

JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

can i get an "amen, sister!"

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i know you didn't treat him that way, but you said that a girl friend of his from 3 years ago did, right?

ok prime, well you are an exception. but, look at how many girls (jus on dxp alone) have said the same thing.

Prime, i could deal with dating you if you sincerely mean it when you say you will voice your complaints.

this guy last night and other nights for that matter NEVER gave me reasons; only conclusions...

i think that says something... it's actually quite funny that they all use that same line.

i told him that it sounded like he would be happiest with a doormat than with a friend or girlfriend who had a mind of her own.

I was pushing buttons last night to get him to quantify why we were two different people, but he wouldn't say. I told him that he continues to prove my point that he's wishy washy...

Let me ask you this Prime...when you don't want to be friends with someone, do you take their calls? He calls me, we talk, then get the conversation going on "we can't be friends" BS, then I call him and he picks up. Last night, i called him back and he said he was surprised I did....

...when i wonder the same about him....he's the one saying "we can't be friends"...well then why does he take my calls?

we've established that it's not that he's a nice guy, because he can be rather jerky.

i can accept that, but it's not really spit and vinegar if he throws a dart at me telling me that we're two diffent kinds of people but refuses to back it up. IMHO, that's wimpy.

what a chickenshit

I was pushing buttons last night to get him to quantify why we were two different people, but he wouldn't say.

-of course he wouldn't say b/c it is all bs. there is no explanation. he has no reason b/c he doesn't know why himself...

It's actually almost looked down upon to be honest and express what you really think

this must be what's wrong with me....

basically he is trying to keep you on his good side be doing what he is doing.

no houston...don't change being honest. being honest = being strong. people like him are weak individuals...

no good side about it...he's already opened the can of worms. by him saying we're 2 different people, that just leaves confusion and frustration

who cares what people say though...idk, i don't care what people think of me. if you don't want to take the time to get to know me, oh well..sorry. but i will always be honest and voice my opinion when asked. if someone wants to criticize me for that, then let them.