Lost Aquarius

I have recently called it off with am Aqua man..basicaly our individual circumstances were all wrong. I havent heard from him since, so can anyone give me an idea of how he'll handle it? I tried to make it easy for him, it wasnt that i dont like him anymore, just that there was no future in it and the longer it went on, someone was going to get hurt. Help!

geez...it's always the same story with these aqua men.

it's like aqua men have this special power where they invade your thoughts over and over...i am not saying they are bad guys, my aqua treated me like a princess when we were together and fully respected me in every way possible. i just find it amusing that ever woman on here that has dated an aqua has a similar story. maybe they are all signs that don't work well with aqua...who knows.

"You dump him, don't want a future with him, yet you want to keep tab on him?"

yeah, i totally agree. i don't understand that. when i break up with someone i am done for good...

i just find it amusing that ever woman on here that has dated an aqua has a similar story

Aqua guys arent as complicated as i always hear on DXP boards....they are easy to keep, u just have to be interesting and be a friend.. dont get over emotional and clingy and trust them...( but ya dont expect alot from an aqua guy in his 20s coz u'll be hurt.. wait till hesin his 30s... they are beter than 🙂

I had a Libra, would email all the time with some BS excuse to contact me....'

enough is enough, she's on my block list now.....'

Libras have the same effect on other Aquas too—.. i thought it was only me who find them irritating 🙂

but they make it hard because they really don't pay attention to what he says

i agree with you...

Aqua guys arent as complicated as i always hear on DXP boards....they are easy to keep, u just have to be interesting and be a friend.. dont get over emotional and clingy and trust them...( but ya dont expect alot from an aqua guy in his 20s coz u'll be hurt.. wait till hesin his 30s... they are beter than

Yes Eliza, you are right. My first love (well, deep infatuation) was with a Aqua man. For two years we were friends and I developed feelings for him. After I confessed them, he seemed receptive BUT his best friend liked me at the time .... 😢

YES, that was quite a mess ... I didn't what to do. At the time I confussed, I thought his friend was with someone else 😢 That was a sticky situation.

In the end, I got hurt but I definately deserved it. I should have left well enough lone after I found out that Aqua's best friend liked me too .....

Yep, I take ownership of my own pain because it was very much my OWN fault.

they get all bent out of shape....'

They have very little personal accountability and their word is often as valuable as used toilet paper....'

hahahah.... ROFL... primegen ur hilarious.....thanx for making me laugh soo hard this morning....

but ya dont expect alot from an aqua guy in his 20s coz u'll be hurt.. wait till hesin his 30s... they are beter than

-so true, eliza 🙂

"They want their cake and to eat it too."

prime, is that how libra's are. well, that explains why my aqua is doing what he is doing b/c he has a libra moon!

Never experienced a libra man, but I've been friends with one 🙂 They are awesome buddies

Oh I have a libra rising and a Aqua moon .... HAHAHA, and I a cappy on a sagitt. cusp

LOL!!!! That an *evil* combination 😉

*** cappy imitates Dr. Evil ***

aquaaqi...maybe it is different for a guy, idk. i never gave him any reason to not trust me.

But come on don't tell me she forgot what happened 5 minutes ago.

LMAO... honestly.. i dont trust libra guyz.. they are very shaky....you dont know where u stand with them....

Im not keeping tabs on him..i just hope that he'll be ok. Branh, of course i still have feelings for him, i cant just switch them off!! I have not and will not contact him again..come on guys, give me abreak..cant people be concerned about their ex's??

Im so mad at the responses on this board..i really am. All i have asked is for an aqua to give me some clue about the aquarius approach to break-ups and y'all are going on like im a she-devil!! I left because he 'accidentally forgot to tell me he was married'. But it still isnt easy to say goodbye. You people should be a bit more sensitive..the person who walks away from these situations is the only one in the partnership who even cared.

..and primegem, what is selfish about asking? Im only posting for advice because i know i'll never hear from him again and vice-versa so i'll never know..its not that i cant get over it or suddenly am unconcerned for him..he'll be on my mind for the rest of my life because i wanted him to be the 'one'. Just wondered....now i wish i was selfish.

Well sorry to hear that, maybe u should've stated that in the beginning; but in your case you shouldn't even care since he accidentally forgot to tell you he was married.

it seems that when you are keeping a tab on him, or however you want to put it, that you are leaving the door open, or want to open the door to him because you still have strong feelings for him. It seems like things were ended on a rather bad note with him. I have done that keeping tabs thing, even if i had been the one to leave, and it leads to nowhere but pain and more questions. I would deal with your pain and leave that situation in the past. I also dont think that you are really concerned about him being "okay" and that is just an excuse for you to make contact with him. LEave it alone!

i dont know anymore-mine thinks its ok that he didn't call me in 7 days-4 days i could understand but a week?-cant decide wether to sit this one out or give him the boot tonight.I just want to understand him alittle-if thats his behaviour-or he wants to slip away-but hes soo closed, and grumpy if i say anything

hey elly...how are you doing? long time, no talk.
are you getting frustrated with your aqua?... sounds that way. i am sorry to hear that.