Space off or blow off...

Ugh. Two years in the making with this aquarius and this weekend we made it all real. Afterwards, we talked about the future and he asked my views on things. Then...gone. I've heard nothing. Is he spacing off in the traditional aquarius way needing his time to think? Or is he blowing me off? I'm okay if he just needs time to think, like it all became real and now he's a little spooked. But knowing would be nice... Any words of encouragement?

all men need a certain amount of space, I wouldn't assume he's blowing you off, his process is to distance, think and come back with a renewed interest but I can say if he's gone longer than 3 days with no contact of any kind IMO he's blowing you off.

Well if he was "blowing" you off then he wouldn't have allowed himself to go "there" with you. I think he's just taking his space. I agree with what Tikki said. Men in GENERAL do this the moment they can feel themselves gravitating closer to the one they like and maybe even love. Space is their comfort zone & it often has nothing to do with the woman..no, it's THEIR way of leaving & coming back b/c of inner fears, insecurities or whatever going on inside of THEM. Your best bet would just be to do your own thing. If he doesn't initiate communication for longer than 1-2 weeks then you'll know something is up & if that happens, go from there. But don't over-analyze or read too far into the "Aquarian behavior" stuff b/c there are plenty of reasons, outside of astrology that could be causing this distance. He could be going through something that he's not ready yet to share with you. Or it could be just like Tikki said, & if that's true then that's a GOOD thing for you. Plus, it all depends on how often you talk with him. If you 2 talk so much to the point that not talking for more than 1 day is unusal, then I'd say wait about 1 week. But the less communication you two have on a regular, the longer the distance thing might happen. Just calm down. It's probably nothing to be worried about

Thanks. It was a little weird last night. Most of my experience comes from Aries, Libra's, and, well, that's it. I'm just not used to this. We have been talking and missing dates for the past two years. Finally, this weekend, we went on a real date and talked about all the serious stuff. Kids, family, relationships. And then...nothing. Yes, maybe I'm a little insecure. This is the pattern of past men with big talk and then I never hear from them again. I was hoping that it was just his aquarius ways. We went from talking and texting every day for a month to nothing. But I'm still doing my own thing. Got to big of a life not to, and going to sit back and wait. Both of us are too busy for the next month anyway to commit to seeing each other. You're were very helpful in understanding that maybe he's not just blowing me off.