Gennie
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This is going to be interesting this evening
Well, maybe in 4 days it will at least be light enough to cover it with makeup?? Maybe—
Posted by GennieThat would piss me off. It's disrespectful. I'd cancel and reschedule for when it will be heeled - out of spite.
So, there is an event that Scorpie and I are going to this Saturday. We're going to meet his parents for lunch. My ascendant has been picking out different outfits in my head for the last few days, I like to make a good impression of my best self for company. I live in Florida and its going to be 80 degrees so my Aqua side has decided on a nicely geek printed tank top, jeans and suede booties.
Last night, we're snuggling like two peas in a pod, and he starts nipping around my neck, and I said "None of that, no marks cause I bruise easy, and hickey necklaces are not jewelry". Scorpie gives me a hard nip just under the collar bone for spoiling his fun and it was only red last night. I get up this morning and it looks fucking maroon. My cover up aint covering up shit, it's too low for a scarf, so the only thing I have to wear is a thick, wooley, turtle neck.....did I mention it's 80 degrees this Saturday?
Forecast tonight, near freezing temperature, getting ready to dip into sub zero depending on his reaction to me chewing his ass out. It takes a week for a mark like this to fade, I have 4 days.
Mars in Cancer Vs Mars in Scorpio.
Collar bone? Well that's not too high up, maybe he will buy you a new shirt that will cover it up.
well, heres the issue.....I have a decent sized rack, which, the lower the neckline, the less like a Uni-Boob I get. So ALL MY SHIRTS, minus the heavy, fluffy wooley turtle neck, is way below collar bone
Perhaps you can take a quick trip to the mall and get a floawy blouse to wear and a nice feminine scarf to wear around your neck? A cute sundress will also look good with a scarf around the neck.
It seems as though he dismissed your feelings, and that was not very nice.
It seems as though he dismissed your feelings, and that was not very nice.
Oh and its RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF MY CHEST. I'm seriously considering just not going and letting him explain the change in plans
Posted by SensitiveBluesI am not one to tell her how to feel, so I did not say she "should be" angry. I, however, interpret his actions as dismissive of her feelings.
You guys are so weird!
Why should she be angry and why is that disrespectful?
Urff water will never understand boring caps or aquas
If it's in the center of your best, perhaps wearing a round-neck tank top underneath your t-shirt will help. Honestly, there are ways of covering it up. Maybe even do some body paint of it suits the event.
Posted by GobshiteI don't know her or her relationship, and I don't know her and his style of conflict resolution, but I don't believe in fighting fire with fire when you truly care about someone and your relationship because the actions may only serve to destroy or dismantle the bond.
Just don't go and make it clear why you're not going. If he starts playing up, tell him to grow up.
If you can't assert yourself in situations like this, the relationship's doomed.
Posted by Gennieyou tell a man he can't do something...he will DO IT. like some kind of temptation.
So, there is an event that Scorpie and I are going to this Saturday. We're going to meet his parents for lunch. My ascendant has been picking out different outfits in my head for the last few days, I like to make a good impression of my best self for company. I live in Florida and its going to be 80 degrees so my Aqua side has decided on a nicely geek printed tank top, jeans and suede booties.
Last night, we're snuggling like two peas in a pod, and he starts nipping around my neck, and I said "None of that, no marks cause I bruise easy, and hickey necklaces are not jewelry". Scorpie gives me a hard nip just under the collar bone for spoiling his fun and it was only red last night. I get up this morning and it looks fucking maroon. My cover up aint covering up shit, it's too low for a scarf, so the only thing I have to wear is a thick, wooley, turtle neck.....did I mention it's 80 degrees this Saturday?
Forecast tonight, near freezing temperature, getting ready to dip into sub zero depending on his reaction to me chewing his ass out. It takes a week for a mark like this to fade, I have 4 days.
Mars in Cancer Vs Mars in Scorpio.
I usually will just get bitchy and get upset. I'll just pinch his ass and maybe go for his flat chested tit, titty twisting it.
but not too hard.
just improvise and wear something else.
lots of gorgeous dresses out there.
or wear a nice light scarf that matches. I kind of think that can look really hot.
i'll look up some nice scarves up for you.
EDIT - it's hard to find anything good out there. Scarves are nice, like this, but imagine a dress.
just improvise and wear something else.
lots of gorgeous dresses out there.
or wear a nice light scarf that matches. I kind of think that can look really hot.
i'll look up some nice scarves up for you.
EDIT - it's hard to find anything good out there. Scarves are nice, like this, but imagine a dress.
Posted by GobshiteYou have made so many assumptions in your response and you're being very aggressive towards me. This is the exact overreaction that can destroy all communication as even I no longer wish to discuss this with you further.Posted by LillyPetalPosted by GobshiteI don't know her or her relationship, and I don't know her and his style of conflict resolution, but I don't believe in fighting fire with fire when you truly care about someone and your relationship because the actions may only serve to destroy or dismantle the bond.
Just don't go and make it clear why you're not going. If he starts playing up, tell him to grow up.
If you can't assert yourself in situations like this, the relationship's doomed.
Well, you're wrong. This is about re-asserting boundaries.
Your perspective is one of the many reasons why so many relationships fail in the long-term. The 'softly-softly approach' has proven to be futile and a complete waste of everyone's time (or, in your case, the 'sweeping the issue under the rug approach').
There's no game playing, as she will be honest with him as to her reasons why. He has to learn that his selfish and inconsiderate behaviour will bare consequences (cause and effect). If she doesn't do this, he will continue to disregard her feelings on the matter. And, if he makes a mountain out of a molehill, the general health of the relationship should be seriously questioned.
Bad behaviour should always be punished, regardless of the person's age.click to expand
Posted by GobshiteSpoken like a true cap.Posted by LillyPetalPosted by GobshiteI don't know her or her relationship, and I don't know her and his style of conflict resolution, but I don't believe in fighting fire with fire when you truly care about someone and your relationship because the actions may only serve to destroy or dismantle the bond.
Just don't go and make it clear why you're not going. If he starts playing up, tell him to grow up.
If you can't assert yourself in situations like this, the relationship's doomed.
Well, you're wrong. This is about re-asserting boundaries.
Your perspective is one of the many reasons why so many relationships fail in the long-term. The 'softly-softly approach' has proven to be futile and a complete waste of everyone's time (or, in your case, the 'sweeping the issue under the rug approach').
There's no game playing, as she will be honest with him as to her reasons why. He has to learn that his selfish and inconsiderate behaviour will bare consequences (cause and effect). If she doesn't do this, he will continue to disregard her feelings on the matter. And, if he makes a mountain out of a molehill, the general health of the relationship should be seriously questioned.
Bad behaviour should always be punished, regardless of the person's age.click to expand
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Hehe, I would go, not worry about hiding it, and if they asked, tell them how I got it.
But that's me. 🙂
But that's me. 🙂
Posted by GobshiteYes, okay, Gobbuttere. Obviously, there is only one way to live a life and you have figured out the code. You must have such the perfect existence and the rest of us are just screwing up the view for you. Congrats and condolences.Posted by LillyPetalPosted by GobshiteYou have made so many assumptions in your response and you're being very aggressive towards me. This is the exact overreaction that can destroy all communication as even I no longer wish to discuss this with you further.Posted by LillyPetalPosted by GobshiteI don't know her or her relationship, and I don't know her and his style of conflict resolution, but I don't believe in fighting fire with fire when you truly care about someone and your relationship because the actions may only serve to destroy or dismantle the bond.
Just don't go and make it clear why you're not going. If he starts playing up, tell him to grow up.
If you can't assert yourself in situations like this, the relationship's doomed.
Well, you're wrong. This is about re-asserting boundaries.
Your perspective is one of the many reasons why so many relationships fail in the long-term. The 'softly-softly approach' has proven to be futile and a complete waste of everyone's time (or, in your case, the 'sweeping the issue under the rug approach').
There's no game playing, as she will be honest with him as to her reasons why. He has to learn that his selfish and inconsiderate behaviour will bare consequences (cause and effect). If she doesn't do this, he will continue to disregard her feelings on the matter. And, if he makes a mountain out of a molehill, the general health of the relationship should be seriously questioned.
Bad behaviour should always be punished, regardless of the person's age.
Please cut the 'I'm shocked and hurt' bullshit. You just can't handle the truth.
It's PC attitudes like yours why the world is in such a terrible mess.click to expand
I love the naughtiness.. How is it disrespectful i don't get.. I'd just beat him up after that and we would have hot sex. And then i'll just pretend it was a bruise or some bite and carry on with the plan with a straight face.. After all, who is to blame? Their own son. Lol
Posted by sultrykittyoohhh daring aren't you?? lol
Hehe, I would go, not worry about hiding it, and if they asked, tell them how I got it.
But that's me. 🙂
I can imagine it.
Guests at the party staring at bruise OR they will say something, "Did you fall or did something happen?"
Giving them a knowing wicked smile, "what do you all think??"
uh...
naw. I don't like that.
Posted by GobshiteI agree. If he disrespects her wishes on something like this, then he'll disrespect her wishes on something even more serious down the road. It's a precedence and I'd nip that shit in the bud right now.Posted by LillyPetal
Yes, okay, Gobbuttere. Obviously, there is only one way to live a life and you have figured out the code. You must have such the perfect existence and the rest of us are just screwing up the view for you. Congrats and condolences.
No, dummy. It's a simple situation and not a complex relationship story. Grow up!
The Scorpio was asked to refrain from giving her love bites for a few days (less than a week). He failed to honour her wishes and knew full well why she asked him to refrain (remember, the meeting with the parents is for him). Now, she feels inconvenienced and somewhat distressed because she fears that his parents will notice. She doesn't feel good about that and he obviously doesn't care, because he's a selfish, inconsiderate fuck.
Is that the kind of shit a SO should be inflicting on their partner? Life's tough enough as it is, without further complications borne out of self-centred situations like this one.
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Posted by sultrykittyPaint a big heart around it and display it for all to see? 😉
Hehe, I would go, not worry about hiding it, and if they asked, tell them how I got it.
But that's me. 🙂
Hee! Hee!
Seriously though, that's one way to make him pay the consequences for his actions.
Then again, who knows, his parents might think it's funny and not think twice about it.
Posted by truecapTrue. But I don't know how common a reaction that would be. I still think it would be slightly embarrassing to him even if no one else cared, and the point isn't really about what others might think but about how he acted and how I felt about it. Doing it in a public way without making a scene over it.Posted by sultrykittyPaint a big heart around it and display it for all to see? 😉
Hehe, I would go, not worry about hiding it, and if they asked, tell them how I got it.
But that's me. 🙂
Hee! Hee!
Seriously though, that's one way to make him pay the consequences for his actions.
Then again, who knows, his parents might think it's funny and not think twice about it.
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Posted by divinesurrenderIt paints her in a bad light to parents. Displaying a hickey is tacky and in bad taste. It represents blatant evidence of sexual activity. You want to make a good impression on parents the first time you meet them. You don't want them to focus on the sexual aspect of your relationship, you want them to focus on your good qualities.
I love the naughtiness.. How is it disrespectful i don't get.. I'd just beat him up after that and we would have hot sex. And then i'll just pretend it was a bruise or some bite and carry on with the plan with a straight face.. After all, who is to blame? Their own son. Lol
It's disrespectful because she specifically asked him not to do it and he did it anyway. He could care less about her wishes and preferences.
Posted by lisabethur8Curling iron burn. That's what we said in high school. lol!Posted by sultrykittyoohhh daring aren't you?? lol
Hehe, I would go, not worry about hiding it, and if they asked, tell them how I got it.
But that's me. 🙂
I can imagine it.
Guests at the party staring at bruise OR they will say something, "Did you fall or did something happen?"
Giving them a knowing wicked smile, "what do you all think??"
uh...
naw. I don't like that.click to expand
Posted by truecaplmaoPosted by lisabethur8Curling iron burn. That's what we said in high school. lol!Posted by sultrykittyoohhh daring aren't you?? lol
Hehe, I would go, not worry about hiding it, and if they asked, tell them how I got it.
But that's me. 🙂
I can imagine it.
Guests at the party staring at bruise OR they will say something, "Did you fall or did something happen?"
Giving them a knowing wicked smile, "what do you all think??"
uh...
naw. I don't like that.click to expand
I don't really like my man sucking down my neck though.
that's one area i'm not really too keen on with pain. I like it pain-free. thanks. lol
Posted by Gobshite*hugs*Posted by LillyPetal
Yes, okay, Gobbuttere. Obviously, there is only one way to live a life and you have figured out the code. You must have such the perfect existence and the rest of us are just screwing up the view for you. Congrats and condolences.
No, dummy. It's a simple situation and not a complex relationship story. Grow up!
The Scorpio was asked to refrain from giving her love bites for a few days (less than a week). He failed to honour her wishes and knew full well why she asked him to refrain (remember, the meeting with the parents is for him). Now, she feels inconvenienced and somewhat distressed because she fears that his parents will notice. She doesn't feel good about that and he obviously doesn't care, because he's a selfish, inconsiderate fuck.
Is that the kind of shit a SO should be inflicting on their partner? Life's tough enough as it is, without further complications borne out of self-centred situations like this one.
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Posted by truecap"Nip"...heh.Posted by GobshiteI agree. If he disrespects her wishes on something like this, then he'll disrespect her wishes on something even more serious down the road. It's a precedence and I'd nip that shit in the bud right now.Posted by LillyPetal
Yes, okay, Gobbuttere. Obviously, there is only one way to live a life and you have figured out the code. You must have such the perfect existence and the rest of us are just screwing up the view for you. Congrats and condolences.
No, dummy. It's a simple situation and not a complex relationship story. Grow up!
The Scorpio was asked to refrain from giving her love bites for a few days (less than a week). He failed to honour her wishes and knew full well why she asked him to refrain (remember, the meeting with the parents is for him). Now, she feels inconvenienced and somewhat distressed because she fears that his parents will notice. She doesn't feel good about that and he obviously doesn't care, because he's a selfish, inconsiderate fuck.
Is that the kind of shit a SO should be inflicting on their partner? Life's tough enough as it is, without further complications borne out of self-centred situations like this one.
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So.........
I'm not a game player, he texted me to ask me how my day was, and I told him I was pissed because I spent a couple of hours trying make up and clothes to hide the maroon mark on my chest. Instead of waiting to blast him as soon as he walked in the door all oblivious and shit.
So he gets home and wants to look at it, and I show him and he says "It's not that bad, it'll fade", which makes my blood boil. "Oh so you see into the future now then? I specifically said NOT to mark my neck because of the lunch with your parents and you fucking did it anyways."
I get as an excuse "I'm sorry, I didn't do it on purpose!"
"Really?! Your lips accidentally landed on my neck and by some miracle you didn't notice gnawing on me like a chicken leg?"
"It's a crime of passion!"
"Oh hell no, I'll show you a crime of passion!" Cue the death glares, and the pushing him out of my space because he's trying to hug me to make it
better. "You all pissed off is so hot".
Unfortunately he twisted at the last moment before my foot connected with his balls. What follows is a lot of yelling, running, chasing through the apartment, dog barking his head off at his crazy humans, until I end up pinned and him crooning how sorry he is into my ear at an angle I can't bite him at.
So I tell him "If the mark isn't coverable by Saturday, you owe me a shopping trip for a new shirt because I'm not wearing a wooley sweater in 80 degree weather."
"So...if I am buying you a shirt anyways, I can mark the other side?"
"No."
We talk for a little bit more and settle down to watch this:
A new shirt that covers takes care of it, it may not be the shirt I wanted, but I'll deal because...we didn't set a limit on the dollar amount, when he accepted the condition.
I'm not a game player, he texted me to ask me how my day was, and I told him I was pissed because I spent a couple of hours trying make up and clothes to hide the maroon mark on my chest. Instead of waiting to blast him as soon as he walked in the door all oblivious and shit.
So he gets home and wants to look at it, and I show him and he says "It's not that bad, it'll fade", which makes my blood boil. "Oh so you see into the future now then? I specifically said NOT to mark my neck because of the lunch with your parents and you fucking did it anyways."
I get as an excuse "I'm sorry, I didn't do it on purpose!"
"Really?! Your lips accidentally landed on my neck and by some miracle you didn't notice gnawing on me like a chicken leg?"
"It's a crime of passion!"
"Oh hell no, I'll show you a crime of passion!" Cue the death glares, and the pushing him out of my space because he's trying to hug me to make it
better. "You all pissed off is so hot".
Unfortunately he twisted at the last moment before my foot connected with his balls. What follows is a lot of yelling, running, chasing through the apartment, dog barking his head off at his crazy humans, until I end up pinned and him crooning how sorry he is into my ear at an angle I can't bite him at.
So I tell him "If the mark isn't coverable by Saturday, you owe me a shopping trip for a new shirt because I'm not wearing a wooley sweater in 80 degree weather."
"So...if I am buying you a shirt anyways, I can mark the other side?"
"No."
We talk for a little bit more and settle down to watch this:
A new shirt that covers takes care of it, it may not be the shirt I wanted, but I'll deal because...we didn't set a limit on the dollar amount, when he accepted the condition.
You go girl!
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