typical aqua behaviour? no, its not what you think

firstly, this isnt a whingey 'why hasnt he called' me query.

I find it sort of amusing to be honest, and I thought I'd share. I started hanging out with an aqua last january ish. He's a few years older than me, but so immature. It's ridiculous. I was quite interested in him - he was funny, charming and we seemed to get on & have fun conversations. Yet something about him was so vague and robotic. I'm familiar with astrologyyy, so I put it down to detached Aqua behaviour, though the Aquas I tend to be friends with have been slightly more personal than him! He didn't open up one single bit. In fact he avoided personal discussion like the plague.
Which didn't bother me, I can do that at times.
He started to warm up to me a bit more, sending 'cute' texts. Turning on the charm. Still a little odd though. But I went along with it anyway. He was very very beautiful. I'm a sucker for cuties.
So he invited me to his house one night.

We had * NO * sexual compatibility at all. He was so robotic, so dispassionate that I wanted to puke. I've been with one aquarian before and it was extremely sexy (he was a bit dirrrrty) but this guy.. jeeeesus! It was so bad I couldn't even feign interest in him. But I think, which offended me so much at the time.. he only invited me there because he thought I was easy and would willingly have sleep with him. Complete user. After it was apparent that there would be no sexy times, he went on his computer and started talking to friends on MSN. A porn website flashed on his screen and he got very embarrassed. I giggled 😉

Anyway.. it was quite obvious that night was awful. I left the next day without saying goodbye, and had a good laugh about it. Thought it was a shame, but I don't like to dwell on stuff.


Now.. He keeps contacting me at random times, asking me what I'm doing.. sometimes at 6am..but when I reply he sends some bizarre message that makes no sense. Last week, he invited me to stay at his house?

What the hell? Who does he think I am? It happens every few weeks or so, these messages. I've stopped replying now, but I don't get his logic behind them. It's quite obvious there is zilch compatibility between us, so what's his motive?

I assume he thinks I'll have sex with him. He must be very desperate to contact a girl he saw last January, who was obviously offended by his rude, impersonal behaviour.


I'm not remotely interested.
I find it amusingly strange..

But yes. Rant over..for now.

Perhaps that should be know .Heh.

But why does he even bother? that's what baffles me. he must have some seriously distorted image of me. and I haven't seen him in almost a year.
I never even reply to his messages. Did he really think that I'd jump on the sudden invitation to his house?

I never mentioned that during the summer he 'apologised' for being weird and that I was 'quite a lovely girl'.

Strange, strange creature.

I'm not worried. Just amused? I'm curious about everything dear. It's not like the thought of what could have been keeps me awake at night 😉

Maybe I should send him some really intense personal message about something I've done recently.

The messages are always directed at me, accompanied by some pretentious song lyric or abstract thought.

He did text me once saying 'Do you miss me? I miss you?'.. and then apologised the next day when I didn't reply.

Oh lordy.

I'm suprised at this b/c normally when Aquas are not interested in someone they can actually mind going without that person for long periods of time or forever! But this Aqua guy seems to be more mysterious than usual. I think the only way you'll know what his true intentions are is to plain out ask him! Tell him exactly how you feel. After all, I'm assuming you've emotionally detached from any possible thought of a future relationship with him so not wanting to hurt his feelings shouldn't even be an issue. I think you should just plain out ask. He might not tell you the complete truth, b/c after all, he may be like someone else said, just texting a whole bunch of people to see if he'll atleast get ONE response (out of boredom). Even if his excuses or his answers are lame, don't make sense & seem insincere, AT LEAST it'll alert him to the fact that you are on to him. And normally when this happens, an Aqua's behavior changes dramatically.

The 2nd option is like someone else said too, just respond to one of his random texts. It sounds like you're not completely done b/c a part of you wants answers when in reality, since there is no future or compatibility, it shouldn't really matter. On the other hand, if you're not really interested in him & wish he'd just move on then it's your job to communicate that to him. How you view the situation from your eyes might not be at all how he views the situation. TRUST me, if you tell this guy (b/c you really mean it) that you are no longer interested & that you want him to leave you alone, he'll show his true colors. Unless he's a stalker, he won't text you anymore OR he'll finally reveal why he's kept you around for so long. If you respond to one of his texts or ask him what his real reasons for still contacting you are, you'd be suprised. If you listen & pay close enough attention, you'll be able to read between the lines & figure out the answer to your own question