Saddie
@Saddie
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I'm wondering why he didn't take you with him to run his errands.
He went to play golf with the guys from our work.
Well, he asked you to stay until he got back and you said you would, but you didn't. That might have something to do with it. Not sure.
I never said if stay until he got back. I told him I had stuff to do. I am asking about what to do about the "love" thing he brought up.
If I'm in your shoes I'd be the one getting upset because I hate people forcing their feelings on to me like they know me for my entire life. Honestly though love is a word that has different meaning to people.
Advice on the situation? Be in his face and tell him exactly how you feel. If you want to dance around the subject and think about his feelings then go right on ahead because then we'll probably see you more often here on DXP trying to justify his stupid actions.
It's a fair call to say Aquas appreciate honesty no matter how blunt it is.
Advice on the situation? Be in his face and tell him exactly how you feel. If you want to dance around the subject and think about his feelings then go right on ahead because then we'll probably see you more often here on DXP trying to justify his stupid actions.
It's a fair call to say Aquas appreciate honesty no matter how blunt it is.
That is a good point!
Posted by Saddie
I never said if stay until he got back. I told him I had stuff to do. I am asking about what to do about the "love" thing he brought up.
I think I misunderstood. Sorry.
Oh that's annoying. He thought you were thinking you loved him but that wasn't what you were thinking? (or was it and you just didn't want to tell him?) If he just assumed that, I would be so turned off by him. A little arrogant? I had a guy tell me that once, "you're thinking how much you love me", and I wasn't, not even close. My take is he was thinking that about you but is too much of a coward to say it, so he turned the tables on you.
Posted by truecapPosted by Saddie
I never said if stay until he got back. I told him I had stuff to do. I am asking about what to do about the "love" thing he brought up.
I think I misunderstood. Sorry.click to expand
It's perfectly fine, it happens.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Oh that's annoying. He thought you were thinking you loved him but that wasn't what you were thinking? (or was it and you just didn't want to tell him?) If he just assumed that, I would be so turned off by him. A little arrogant? I had a guy tell me that once, "you're thinking how much you love me", and I wasn't, not even close. My take is he was thinking that about you but is too much of a coward to say it, so he turned the tables on you.
I was thinking of how content I was in that moment! Like I said we always have a great time together and he does make me happy, it's not that I couldn't love him but I don't pass it around like candy. I kinda was thinking along the same lines as you were. I just do not know how I should approach this if at all because now it's kinda left undone and unspoken of.
Take it slow. Do not say "I love you" until you mean it. 🙂
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Oh that's annoying. He thought you were thinking you loved him but that wasn't what you were thinking? (or was it and you just didn't want to tell him?) If he just assumed that, I would be so turned off by him. A little arrogant? I had a guy tell me that once, "you're thinking how much you love me", and I wasn't, not even close. My take is he was thinking that about you but is too much of a coward to say it, so he turned the tables on you.
I agree very arrogant. Still was he right? I bet he was. Sorry lol i am arrogant sometimes myself. I am so sure of myself that i can read folks, i can make huge mistakes. Like this one time at a bar i met this gal and......
Posted by SaddiePosted by aquapiscescusp
Oh that's annoying. He thought you were thinking you loved him but that wasn't what you were thinking? (or was it and you just didn't want to tell him?) If he just assumed that, I would be so turned off by him. A little arrogant? I had a guy tell me that once, "you're thinking how much you love me", and I wasn't, not even close. My take is he was thinking that about you but is too much of a coward to say it, so he turned the tables on you.
I was thinking of how content I was in that moment! Like I said we always have a great time together and he does make me happy, it's not that I couldn't love him but I don't pass it around like candy. I kinda was thinking along the same lines as you were. I just do not know how I should approach this if at all because now it's kinda left undone and unspoken of.click to expand
Just don't say anything. Pretend it didn't even happen. Why make a big deal, so he figured you out, that you have "feelings" for him. Wow, what a surprise!! Why do people do that, they sleep together, share the most intimate part of themselves and then pretend there are no feelings. The feelings are there but he's pushing it by making you express yourself first. Turn off.
Posted by EvilTurtlePosted by aquapiscescusp
Oh that's annoying. He thought you were thinking you loved him but that wasn't what you were thinking? (or was it and you just didn't want to tell him?) If he just assumed that, I would be so turned off by him. A little arrogant? I had a guy tell me that once, "you're thinking how much you love me", and I wasn't, not even close. My take is he was thinking that about you but is too much of a coward to say it, so he turned the tables on you.
I agree very arrogant. Still was he right? I bet he was. Sorry lol i am arrogant sometimes myself. I am so sure of myself that i can read folks, i can make huge mistakes. Like this one time at a bar i met this gal and......click to expand
It's easy to read folks when you are sharing yourself with them... but it's best to let them express what they are wanting to express at their own pace. I don't like being told or asked, "you like me right? I can tell" or "I think you love me!". Please spare me, instead of discussing my feelings they should be discussing theirs. Again, arrogance with some degree of immaturity.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by EvilTurtlePosted by aquapiscescusp
Oh that's annoying. He thought you were thinking you loved him but that wasn't what you were thinking? (or was it and you just didn't want to tell him?) If he just assumed that, I would be so turned off by him. A little arrogant? I had a guy tell me that once, "you're thinking how much you love me", and I wasn't, not even close. My take is he was thinking that about you but is too much of a coward to say it, so he turned the tables on you.
I agree very arrogant. Still was he right? I bet he was. Sorry lol i am arrogant sometimes myself. I am so sure of myself that i can read folks, i can make huge mistakes. Like this one time at a bar i met this gal and......
It's easy to read folks when you are sharing yourself with them... but it's best to let them express what they are wanting to express at their own pace. I don't like being told or asked, "you like me right? I can tell" or "I think you love me!". Please spare me, instead of discussing my feelings they should be discussing theirs. Again, arrogance with some degree of immaturity.click to expand
lol arrogance with immaturity or large amounts of jager!
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