What does this means ?

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LittleRainbow
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Hi,this is something about relationship/friendship...I'm a Leo,Moon(Scorpio),Mercury(Leo) and Venus(Cancer) while he is an Aquarius,Moon Mercury and Venus in Capricorn.
Well,I've confessed to him =.=
And he said sorry I ran away...(okay I've no idea what to do that time so yeah...)
I used to help him in some projects and we are also counted as close friend,he help me with my studies and sometimes he said something about himself or his house...but well,I thought those are some signal he's interested with me ?Wasn't it ?
And when I confess,his face expression just changed (It's like what ?And kinda shock and somehow like OMG)But he just said sorry..
Do we still get to become friends at least ?And should I call him later to apologise for what I've did that make him uncomfortable or shock ?
Oh !At first he was concerned about me when I said I've something to said...he thought I get bully by someone he knows or I can't choose my further studies stuff...so wasn't that another sign showing he might be loving me ?
I thought he loved me,I've been waiting for yesterday(but he was absent so became today) to confess cause in previous days and months we was having some trials and exams,when it officially ends I thought I picked yesterday(today) to confess,and as far as I read it's a good romantic day(I read from Susan Miller) but why did it fail ?Do he really just think me as a friend or I thought too much ?
I used to get stalked by two guys and he was like maybe I thought too much for that cause those two was abit younger....so I thought he's concerned about me ?And he used to teach me alot from studies of his own methods,he never tell anyone else about it.He thought I can't nderstand his method and then he knew I understood....
But at least can we remain friends ?
I thought to apologize when I reach home,so I called him,he didn't answer.So,I used another number that he doesn't have to call him after an hour but still he did not answer.And I message him and he did not reply after a day.I feel sorry making him so shock >
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LittleRainbow
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Posted by mindofaquarius
well I can only talk about myself as aqua lady: his "sorry" tells it all... because that's what I USED to say when I turned down a guy.... sorry because we know it's hard for you to confess, because we know how much rejection hurts.... u get me? that's why we often say sorry, because we appreciate your gut etc but knowing we don't see you that way makes us feel sorry, because we know how it feels to be rejected.

that's MY point of view. 😢


So the sorry was a rejection ?
Sorry I'm new to this web so I'm not really good in replying
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LittleRainbow
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Ahh....I used to ask an Aquarius, she said I should give some toe for him and he might paralyzed on the moment ...is it true?
I actually thought he might have a high chance loving me
His concern to me is alot diff than to other...oh well...he used to scold me for something...I never see him scolding anyone (sorry if I crapped).He ask me to help him in his projects (he's not good in photoshoping) so he trust me.I remember him listing out the person who can help and I'm the only girl inside.
so I misunderstood everything.
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Well, a lot of aquarius have the problem of being misunderstood in that they are being friends and friendly with someone and it gets misinterpretted as they like them. I think that's what has happened here.

He might need a little bit of space to think about what you said. It might be that those thoughts never crossed his mind until now. So you need to back off and give him the space to analyze his thoughts and see what he thinks about them. If he decides he likes you back, he will let you know. If he just wants to be friends he will let you know. This is a time for patience.

He and I share a capricon mercury and moon and I promise you, his moon will analyze it in his head. His mercury will let you know honestly, even if he knows it is the answer you don't want to hear. He might be uncomfortable for a while, but give him space and DON"T PUSH.

Worse case scenario, he sees you as a friend now and he will again, unless you do something that continues to make things awkward. So relax and get into the mindset you are friends and that's all until you hear differently from him.

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LittleRainbow
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@ceu : nooo,i dont mean like i will have a second confess,i mean if we remain friends,we can still be like last time so i could still have a good friend.It's not easy to get a good friend like him so yeah...but i dont think it's anyone mistake that he dont like me...i thought to confess but i dont mean that he will 100% like back me but i dont expect a sorry which i dont get what the meaning is it...i just want to tell him that i like him...ok,i have no idea how to say =.=
but do u think we can still be friends?
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A applaud your bravity! It was a very hard thing to do to let yourself be vulnerable and stick your neck out on a limb like that.

At least now, you won't be sitting there wondering and hoping and having feelings for a long time waiting on him to make a move.

However it turns out, you did yourself a favor! Nothing wrong with addressing the elephant in the room and taking a chance. You either move things along or you know to start moving to the next one, saving yourself a lot of wasted time.

Just make sure you give the guy some time to develop feelings before you jump in there with it.
(not saying you didn't do that, just had to throw in that mom lesson. lol!)
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Posted by LittleRainbow
@ceu : nooo,i dont mean like i will have a second confess,i mean if we remain friends,we can still be like last time so i could still have a good friend.It's not easy to get a good friend like him so yeah...but i dont think it's anyone mistake that he dont like me...i thought to confess but i dont mean that he will 100% like back me but i dont expect a sorry which i dont get what the meaning is it...i just want to tell him that i like him...ok,i have no idea how to say =.=
but do u think we can still be friends?



I think the sorry has to do with "sorry, I just don't like you back and I'm flattered, but I wish I felt different because I don't want to hurt your feelings". Aquas don't like to hurt or disppoint people.
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LittleRainbow
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@Truecap : I'm giving him time(of course i didnt tell him that i give him time[it will seems weird if i tell lol])coz since i called him to apologize on the first day he didnt pick up my call and didnt reply my message,so i wont be doing the same thing to the next day..ok i'll wait for his call(although he dont really use his handphone) and thanks for what you have said,i feel abit better now 🙂
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Posted by LittleRainbow
@truecap : there's really one thing he really made me misunderstood from the starting.like he trust me and i'm the only one he trust in the girl list.he told me about his family and his works...he ask me to help him finish up his project(i mean his printer is broken so he ask me to help) and he also call me to double check his works and he is also very protective to me >

Well, wouldn't you confide in and do that kind of stuff for ANY of your friends?
Just saying.
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Alright sorry but I always need some details to fill in the blanks. I'm a big fan of the fact I don't think Aquas would detach so suddenly unless it was so ridiculously bad.

2 days is a rather short time to be able to sort out what's happened. Granted I still think not picking up the phone or answering is a bit mean but it might just be his cap heavy chart suggesting he really has no idea how to approach it yet.

What ceu touched up on rings true for me. I'd first apologise first and foremost because I didn't want you to think I was leading you on. Then comes the awkwardness of processing what exactly I've done that's lead to this point.

It might just be a time factor for now but as others have said. Being yourself and just switching back to friend mode would be for the best for now. There's absolutely nothing wrong with what you've done so I don't think there's anything to worry about. I actually think it's commendable you spoke out since not many people do.