What inspires you?

Im seeing an aqua, and I'm capaqua (19 jan), with pisces moon. This guy is great, he's caring, very open and funny...but, I feel like there's nothing more to him... 😢
We'll be talking and I'll want to truly get something deep from him...not romantic, but something with a little more meaning than "yeah its cool". Like there's nothing inside the soul.lol ma bad, I know thats not funny. But serioulsy...I feel hopleless because before we dated, we would talk about the most meaningful things in life...like finding one's sole purpose. But now all he wants to talk about is twitter and how many people are following him. I mean really. His convos have no substance, and he talks. I mean talks alot, but he is saying nothing important or meaningful. I mean I care about him, we have this great energy together, but i want more than just a light convo about the game we watched. 😢(((
I've tried bringing up meaningful topics...but he'll say something like 'thats great...' and change the subject.
So, to all aquas...
Please share your views on what I just said...I need some input...some serious input. And

1. Are you a deep thinker...?
2. Am I asking something from this man that just isn't possible? 😢
3. What inspires you to think beyond your realm?

How long have you 2 been together?

If you haven't been together long, the lack in intellectual conversation is def. a problem & there IS a reason behind it. May not be a bad 1, but something is def. up

If you've been together for a long time, it's to be expected that sometimes couple communication goes dry for awhile. The key though is that even seasoned couples should only go through this temporarily

Sometimes couples literally talk about everything in the beginning, almost to the point where there's kinda nothing else to talk about later on.

You should talk to him about this & let him know that it's really bothering you

If he's truly into you, this will bother him alot, especially since Aquas are known for & take pride in being known for their intellectual/intriging conversations. And if you mean much to him, he'll listen & work on this

Before you freak out, atleast talk to him about your feelings & see if he's willing to fix or address the problem. If he doesn't, THEN that's another story & you'd have to go from there

It's probably nothing (him being so comfortable with you that he no longer feels the need to charm you intellectually, but instead in other ways) OR it's def. something (him disconnecting & detaching from you & the relationship as a whole)

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Put a stripper pole in the bedroom. Tell him every time he says something the least bit interesting, you spin. They just need some positive reinforcement.

1. Are you a deep thinker...? Powerful metaphors make me cry
2. Am I asking something from this man that just isn't possible? You shouldn't have to ask. It should just happen. Maybe he's not inspired?
3. What inspires you to think beyond your realm? I don't have a realm.

LMAO

It depends on what the topic of conversation is about.

If it's an interesting one I'll talk for ages., If it's boring me, or the person asking the questions is asking them to boost their ego - I'll switch off.
Sometimes i just can't be bothered talking - I'm in my calm and quiet space. I won't talk at all if I feel I'm being forced to.

If he's talking about how many people are following him on Twitter then perhaps he's just stroking his ego for a while because he's dealing with some personal stuff.

im like tht when im bored. its like...im so comfortable i dont even try. but if it is brought up to my attention i could possibly based on my level of interest in the person would attempt to be moe aware of it. usually i will. and if i fail its really cause i haven't realized how disinterested i've become with the person. that or its a dry spell. im hurt and frustrated with the person. or preoccupied with my own distant world.

what inspires me? novelty.