What the hell is going on with this aquarius

Hi everyone.

I've just got a quick question about an aquarius male I work with

We have worked together for years and have been good friends, he always calls me weird but says he likes that about me

The other day I was annoyed at him for one reason the poor guy and was talking at him about how mad I was about everything and he just turns around out of no where and she's he fancies me and thinks I'm amazing. He later came up and told me to forget about it, it came out wrong.

He is a great friend and I don't want to lose his friendship and I do like him to but he has got a partner and that's not my kind of thing

Any ideas how I should take it from here and if he even meant it. What are some good signs that I might have missed or signs that I've given him that I haven't meant to?

Thanks people

just keep it light and easy and enjoy his company because thats all you're gonna get from the sounds of it.

He's madly in love with you. Just say the word and he's going to get rid of his girlfriend/wife.

You will live happily ever after.

Posted by flowingwater
Hahahahaha!!!!

Why the fuck does everyone think that once an aqua is polite and talks with you, he/she instantly likes you?? NO.
I'm friendly and come off as flirty but nothing more. When an aqua REALLY likes you, they're shy tries to avoid you or becomes quiet. The way we look at you with a dreamy state in our eyes. You will know. No wonder guys come after me when I immediately say hi.

Define what that specifically means because I think otherwise. I mean the aqua in my life he's friendly and flirty and charismatic with everyone and with me he's as you describe shy, avoids me, shuts off, quiet. To me it comes across as "hates my guts". All it does is make me feel bad...so I honestly don't think its an I like you thing.

Even if you were right, nothing I'm doing is getting him to do something about it.

then what can water signs like myself do, when they are acting "opposite".

I don't like this opposite crap. It makes me feel unwanted 😢.

I'm literally sitting here right now trying to wrack my brain trying to find something witty to say to get him to be more expressive like I usually see him with friends instead of this "quietness" I seem to keep getting from him.

All I wanna do is interact with him and make him laugh and its so fucking hard cause he gets all quiet and shuts off.

Waaaah!

@flow

Ack so I'm screwed then eh? What yer saying is nothing I do will get him to not be so quiet.

Posted by flowingwater
Well it's the same thing your telling me about my super jealous scorp... He needs to work on it himself BUT you can try to support him in that direction. Try verbal communication because aquas don't do body language.

uh yes, we do it's not just for other signs. it's a human being interaction thing.

if someone is giving me signals, signs, looks, ect, that's using body language. this has nothing to do with signs or bdays or whatever.

Posted by gemini88june
Hi everyone.

I've just got a quick question about an aquarius male I work with

We have worked together for years and have been good friends, he always calls me weird but says he likes that about me

The other day I was annoyed at him for one reason the poor guy and was talking at him about how mad I was about everything and he just turns around out of no where and she's he fancies me and thinks I'm amazing. He later came up and told me to forget about it, it came out wrong.

He is a great friend and I don't want to lose his friendship and I do like him to but he has got a partner and that's not my kind of thing

Any ideas how I should take it from here and if he even meant it. What are some good signs that I might have missed or signs that I've given him that I haven't meant to?

Thanks people

look.

he has got a partner ok??

are you NOT ashamed of yourself?? going after a man who has a woman.

who cares if he's flirting. it's your responsibility as an individual to tell him to go fuck himself.

or you're gonna go tell his girlfriend if he keeps this up.

Posted by flowingwater
Well it's the same thing your telling me about my super jealous scorp... He needs to work on it himself BUT you can try to support him in that direction. Try verbal communication because aquas don't do body language.

That's what I've been doing is to try and get him to not be so shut off by trying to talk to him about things of interest to him (he's very intellectual) and he just "answers". If you know what I mean.

Then I get bummed. And then boom later on he'll try and talk and by that point i'm already mopey its like TOO LITTLE TOO LATE! x(

Endless cycle!

@lisa

Agreeed. He's taken. End of story.