Does this aquarius guy seriously like me??

This aquarius guy is my friend but we just knew each other for 5 months.
He, my guyfriend and I are in the same group.

My guyfriend asked him twice if he likes me, and he denied it. He even told my guyfriend to tell me that he's just a normal guy and don't think too much.
So after I heard it from my guyfriend, I started to back-off and be more 'just friend' to him. But he still teases me all the time.

So his reactions toward me are:
- He teases me ALL THE TIME
- He created the nickname to me and always calls me my nickname
- He will spend time with me if I ask him (like go watching movie or going to the mall).
- I spend time at his apt once. We didn't do anything though just playing games and watching sports. He let me sleep on his bed and he slept in the livingroom.
In the morning, I tried to wake him up... he playfully hugged me and played a fight with me.
- That night when I was at his apt, I told him I was hungry at midnight. Suddenly, he drove to get food for me without telling me. BUT he said the girl at the restaurant is cute. He should go back there sometimes later. 😢
- He and my guyfriend are gone for 3 days now for Florida trip, but he always message me everyday. BUT we didn't talk anything seriously... just teasing each other.
- He NEVER talks about his life to me.
- He sometimes talks about other girls in front of me like how cute those girls are and etc.
- Yesterday, I went to watch movie with my friends. He asked me who did I go with. So I playfully told him that I went with guys. He sent me a 'mad' sticker.
When I asked him if he really wanna know, he said, "no I don't wanna know" But I told him that I go with my friends at the end.

- I bought him a christmas gift. I asked him if he likes other gifts that people gave him for christmas. He said my gift is the worse. So I was silence for awhile. Then he said, "Yours is the best. ok?"
- He bought me a christmas gift too... But he bought something that I don't really like. I told him I like penguins. But he bought me a bluetooth keyboard instead. And my gift is cheaper than my guyfriend's gift that my crush bought for him.

- He sometimes made a sexual jokes to me.
- I told him on the chat last night that his reactions are cute... He kept asking me what reactions, but I didn't answer

So does this aquarius guy seriously like me OR just being friendly only?

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He has aquarius sun, pisces moon and pisces venus
I have Libra sun, Leo moon, libra venus.

P.S. He just broke up with his ex 6-7 months ago.

I think it's a good rule of thumb to assume someone doesn't have romantic feelings for you if they mention to you that they are interested in others.
What sun/moon/venus are you?

I'm libra sun, leo moon and libra venus
He's aquarius sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.

Yeah.. he sometimes talks about other girls in front of me like: "These girls are fresh!" or recently that he said there was a cute girl in the restaurant.
Today, we talked on the chat for 4 hours straight already. But it's just for teasing each other while he's watching soccer game.

I'd just take it as it is. "He's not thinking too much". Coming from another Aqua with those placements.

So you said he's just friendly to me not anything thing else? 😭

Posted by aquasnoz
I'd just take it as it is. "He's not thinking too much". Coming from another Aqua with those placements.

If a guy asks you out, he likes you. Otherwise assume its just friendship.

😢 That's the sad truth but it's true...

Ok guys... help me out with this please

He's on vacation for 4 days now. But we talk everyday on the chat.
He keeps asking me if I missed him... I never tell him though that I miss him, but I just ask him back if he missed me.
He always says "NO" "I don't miss you at all"

Last night, he was kinda quiet on the chat. So I told him that he might need to sleep. And he said "ok"
However, he kept sending me stickers on the chat. So I asked him if he still wanna talk to me or not.
He said, "just guess"
I said: "Why guess? Just let me know"
He said: "Damn! Are you going to talk or not"
I said: "Do you wanna talk to me or not"
He said, "DAMN U, BYE!!"

That's all of our conversation! Idk why he didn't tell me if he wanna talk to me or not... And why he kept asking me of I missed him even he told me he doesn't miss me?

I just see a funny guy who enjoys talking with you but you are deadset into reading into this and it ruins his flow.

He was joking around and you're all "I AM SERIOUS HERE, BE SERIOUS AS WELL". Gee dude, lighten up.

I have a Pisces friend..everytime I come back from a trip I call him "Have you mised me baby—"
"With every beating of my heart"

Then we both laugh like maniacs.

Point is, stop pushing. Can't you just talk to someone and see from their reaction if they wanna talk or not? Why interrogate him?

tell him you like him.

Maybe he is oblivious cuase you haven't said anything.

Posted by 1thgirls
Ok guys... help me out with this please

He's on vacation for 4 days now. But we talk everyday on the chat.
He keeps asking me if I missed him... I never tell him though that I miss him, but I just ask him back if he missed me.
He always says "NO" "I don't miss you at all"

Last night, he was kinda quiet on the chat. So I told him that he might need to sleep. And he said "ok"
However, he kept sending me stickers on the chat. So I asked him if he still wanna talk to me or not.
He said, "just guess"
I said: "Why guess? Just let me know"
He said: "Damn! Are you going to talk or not"
I said: "Do you wanna talk to me or not"
He said, "DAMN U, BYE!!"

That's all of our conversation! Idk why he didn't tell me if he wanna talk to me or not... And why he kept asking me of I missed him even he told me he doesn't miss me?

Be more direct and truthful.

Obviously he missed you.
Obviously he kept wanting to talk to you.
Those ACTIONS should tell you. He's not going to say it, but once he hears it from you, perhaps he'll feel more comfortable expressing himself.

Posted by Damnata
I just see a funny guy who enjoys talking with you but you are deadset into reading into this and it ruins his flow.

He was joking around and you're all "I AM SERIOUS HERE, BE SERIOUS AS WELL". Gee dude, lighten up.

I have a Pisces friend..everytime I come back from a trip I call him "Have you mised me baby—"
"With every beating of my heart"

Then we both laugh like maniacs.

Point is, stop pushing. Can't you just talk to someone and see from their reaction if they wanna talk or not? Why interrogate him?

Yep, that kind of insecurity is irritating.

ll ask him out to the movie this weekend.
Hopefully it will give a hint to him.

Posted by truecap

Posted by 1thgirls
Ok guys... help me out with this please

He's on vacation for 4 days now. But we talk everyday on the chat.
He keeps asking me if I missed him... I never tell him though that I miss him, but I just ask him back if he missed me.
He always says "NO" "I don't miss you at all"

Last night, he was kinda quiet on the chat. So I told him that he might need to sleep. And he said "ok"
However, he kept sending me stickers on the chat. So I asked him if he still wanna talk to me or not.
He said, "just guess"
I said: "Why guess? Just let me know"
He said: "Damn! Are you going to talk or not"
I said: "Do you wanna talk to me or not"
He said, "DAMN U, BYE!!"

That's all of our conversation! Idk why he didn't tell me if he wanna talk to me or not... And why he kept asking me of I missed him even he told me he doesn't miss me?

Be more direct and truthful.

Obviously he missed you.
Obviously he kept wanting to talk to you.
Those ACTIONS should tell you. He's not going to say it, but once he hears it from you, perhaps he'll feel more comfortable expressing himself.

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Update:

I planned to ask him to watch movie with me after he got back to campus from vacation (which is Thursday).
So today I texted him, asking when you will be back to campus.
He said, "no idea"
I said, "i thought if you guys can get back to campus before Sunday.. then we can go watch TAKEN 3 together!"
He said, "We might watch together... Without you. hahaha"
He continually said, "We, all guys, might go watch it together 🙂"
I said, "Ok... that's fine. I will go with others then 🙂"
He said, "Ok, I might go watch with others"
So I really wanna know if he wanted to watch with me or not, therefore I asked "Do you wanna watch it with me OR not?"
He said, "No bc, you're going with others"
I was like WTF!!! So confused!
Then I told him that, "I wanna watch it with you, ok?"
And he sent me a smile sticker.
So I told him: "let me know when you're on campus, ok?"
He only sent me the sticker with "NO" word

Idk why he did this... could you guy tell me what might be the reason why he did this to me? Maybe he doesn't wanna watch movie with me or something else?

I think he doesn't like you the same way you like him. His response was pretty blatant. Kuddos for you for taking a chance, though. That took a lot of guts.

Sorry. 😢

I think so... 😭 I think I'm going to take a step back after this then. Thanks hun

Posted by truecap
I think he doesn't like you the same way you like him. His response was pretty blatant. Kuddos for you for taking a chance, though. That took a lot of guts.

Sorry. 😢

If aquarius is giving you (one person) LOTS (keyword) of his/her time, they are interested. Otherwise we don't care to spend A LOT or excessive time with one person.

He doesn't like you in a romantic way. He sees you as a friend that's a woman. End of story.

Update:

Today, he sent me the picture of movie ticket that I wanna watch with him and said "as you wish"
So I replied him "enjoy the movie 🙂"

He went with his guy friends.

I read but didn't say anything.

I'M DONE! I think you guys were right. He's not interested in me. If he is, he won't show this to me, right?

To clarify: He sent to a picture of movie ticket (the movie I planned to watch with him)... but he went to watch with his guyfriends instead.

He texted after watching the movie:

Him: I can go with you for the same movie
Me: Why would you like to go again when you have already seen it?
Him: Cause you wanna see it.
Me: Is it worth for you seeing again?
Him: No but you said that you wanna watch
Me: Then why you went to watch it today instead of waiting to watch it with me? So you don't have to see it again.
Him: cause guyfriedns wanna watch it.
Me: Do you wanna see it with me again OR we can watch other movie?
Him: as you wish though

Then I told him about ther movie that I wanna watch... he read the message but didn't reply.

😢

you are just coming off as dramatic.

I thought you "moved on" already.

Posted by 1thgirls
To clarify: He sent to a picture of movie ticket (the movie I planned to watch with him)... but he went to watch with his guyfriends instead.

He texted after watching the movie:

Him: I can go with you for the same movie
Me: Why would you like to go again when you have already seen it?
Him: Cause you wanna see it.
Me: Is it worth for you seeing again?
Him: No but you said that you wanna watch
Me: Then why you went to watch it today instead of waiting to watch it with me? So you don't have to see it again.
Him: cause guyfriedns wanna watch it.
Me: Do you wanna see it with me again OR we can watch other movie?
Him: as you wish though

Then I told him about ther movie that I wanna watch... he read the message but didn't reply.

😢

Uhhh. No. Either don't respond or say you've already made plans with someone else.

Posted by 1thgirls
Me: Then why you went to watch it today instead of waiting to watch it with me? So you don't have to see it again.
Him: cause guyfriedns wanna watch it.
Me: Do you wanna see it with me again OR we can watch other movie?
Him: as you wish though

Then I told him about ther movie that I wanna watch... he read the message but didn't reply.

😢

OMG!!! You sound so needy. THAT is why he didn't respond.

!! I didn't mean it... 😢 My friend told me to ask him these. I was shocked at that time 😭 I knowwwww

Posted by truecap

Posted by 1thgirls
Me: Then why you went to watch it today instead of waiting to watch it with me? So you don't have to see it again.
Him: cause guyfriedns wanna watch it.
Me: Do you wanna see it with me again OR we can watch other movie?
Him: as you wish though

Then I told him about ther movie that I wanna watch... he read the message but didn't reply.

😢

OMG!!! You sound so needy. THAT is why he didn't respond.

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Update again:

I spend time with him for 2 nights at his apt.
He always liked to cuddling with me. He let me lay my head on his arm for a whole night and he also hugged me.

But last night was different. It looked like he tried to make love with me by licking and rubbing my earlobe, grabbed my butt and felt my bad under my shirt.
I was scared (i'm virgin)... so I started to sob. He looked at me and ask "what's wrong?" and hugged me so tightly.
I told him "I'm sorry.. I can't give it to you. I save it for marriage"
He laugh (in a nice way), smiled, and hugged me: "It's okay"
I kept crying bc I felt like I disappointed and upset him. He said "No not at all"

So after that he still grabbed my butt, lick my ear, and feel my back under the cloth. He asked me if I like it... I said, "yeah"
So he kept doing it until I got orgasm (I never had it before though)...

And he made fun of me bc I didn't know about this orgasm thing... hahaha

So... Do you think we both are good? I mean.. idk why he did all these to me though.

Honestly, if you want to maintain your virginity until marriage, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation.

I like to cuddle without sex though 😢

Posted by truecap
Honestly, if you want to maintain your virginity until marriage, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation.

I was in his apt before... but nothing happened. I slept in the bedroom and he slept in the living room..
but this time was diff bc he decided to slept next to me in the living room. 😢

Thank you for your concern.

Posted by 1thgirls
I like to cuddle without sex though 😢

Posted by truecap
Honestly, if you want to maintain your virginity until marriage, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation.

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Men expect more and will try. It's in their nature.

Posted by truecap

Posted by 1thgirls
I like to cuddle without sex though 😢

Posted by truecap
Honestly, if you want to maintain your virginity until marriage, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation.

Men expect more and will try. It's in their nature.

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You're too naive for your own good.

I agree with the ladies.

Don't put yourself into that situation. Find someone else who's willing to wait for marriage too cause it sounds like he doesn't.

it sounds like he's going to try and convince you lol.

Thank you, guys for all your concern...
I will take care of myself..

Thank you very much!!!

Updated:

I finally date with this aquarius guy. I didn't ask him if we're dating. But he refers me as 'his gf'
And he mentioned about dating with me 2 days ago.

We went on a trip together for 3 days. Everything was fine, and we were having a good time.
He didn't force to have sex with me. But he always makes me orgasm. Last night, I finally helped him too by using hands.
That's all we did.

Today, I told him that I will move back to my house next week bc my apt on campus is out of contract.
P.S. At that time, he's kinda mad at me with a stupid reason in the car.

He said, "ok"
Then I told him, "so do you like long distance relationship"
he said, "no"
So told him, "You can visit me sometime. My house is only 2 hr away"
He made a funny face but said nothing.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wanna punch myself in the face after reading that.

Posted by augustmoon
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wanna punch myself in the face after reading that.

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