aquarius guy told my friend he does't like me

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by 1thgirls on Tuesday, December 16, 2014 and has 10 replies.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

This aquarius guy (my crush), my best guyfriend and I are in the same group.
Last night, my crush and my best guyfriend went to the bar together without me. My best guyfriend asked my crush about me when they both were drunk.
Best guyfriend: "How about if Christi (me) likes you?"
My crush: "I never think about it at all. I'm just like this. I can't command how christi think"
Best guyfriend: "You can control yourself, dude."
My crush: "Yes"
Best guyfriend: "But what you have done to Christi so far might lead her on"
My crush: "It's non of my business. She thinks too much. Tell her that I'm just a normal guy. Don't think about me."

😭 I was like wanna cry after hearing this story.

So I don't have a chance with him anymore right? Should I give up now?

Today, we 3 are all going to Indianapolis to watch sport together. He still teasing me like he always does. But I already tried to back off a little bit.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

hahaha thanks guys... I don't know why you guys are so sure that he likes me. Anyway.. I tried to back off at first bc I think he doesn't like me like what my guyfriend said.
Today, i don't know if he tried to make me jealous or not. There is one of my female friends, of course she's cute. And my crush saw her picture on my facebook and told me she's so cute. And he started talking about my female friend again last night in the group chat.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

To clear the point: I didn't ask my friend to ask him!
My guyfriend did on his own. I didn't even wanna know if he likes me or not for now bc I don't know if I like like him or not. I don't want to hurt him later on.
My crush is my friend too, and I know he got hurt real bad from the previous relationship. So I don't want to hurt him like that.

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@IAmMystified
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that wasn't the point.

The point is your dwelling on the conversation you weren't even there for. You can't read too much into anything you weren't a part of. If you want to know ask the crush directly or stop caring.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

You're right... I was worried bc he told me he doesn't like liars and he won't lie. So I thought to myself that his answer to my guyfriend was the truth... So it hurts my feeling. Thanks dear

Posted by IAmMystified
that wasn't the point.

The point is your dwelling on the conversation you weren't even there for. You can't read too much into anything you weren't a part of. If you want to know ask the crush directly or stop caring.

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@febaqua
12 YearsAquarius

Posted by 1thgirls
This aquarius guy (my crush), my best guyfriend and I are in the same group.
Last night, my crush and my best guyfriend went to the bar together without me. My best guyfriend asked my crush about me when they both were drunk.
Best guyfriend: "How about if Christi (me) likes you?"
My crush: "I never think about it at all. I'm just like this. I can't command how christi think"
Best guyfriend: "You can control yourself, dude."
My crush: "Yes"
Best guyfriend: "But what you have done to Christi so far might lead her on"
My crush: "It's non of my business. She thinks too much. Tell her that I'm just a normal guy. Don't think about me."

😭 I was like wanna cry after hearing this story.

So I don't have a chance with him anymore right? Should I give up now?

Today, we 3 are all going to Indianapolis to watch sport together. He still teasing me like he always does. But I already tried to back off a little bit.

Apart from the topic, did your best guyfriend relive even the exact dialogues? Interesting.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

My guyfriend typed all these to me. He told me both of them were drunk but my guyfriend wasn't drunk that bad. So he still remembered what my crush said.