what turns you OFF....

...when dating?

I don't date atleast not enough to answer your question ):

and I'm cute so no kidding about my looks LOL!

I don't like it when a man wants me to always make the plans/choices.

DUDE, grab me by my hair and go!!

(lol j/k, but you know what I mean, right?)

"Grab you by the hair and go? What do you do when he planned on going for a LONG walk on the beach? I hope you have strong roots..."

LoL. Hi, you.

I hate how women always try to tie you down soo fast...soo what if I was looking at her! LOL!

Yeah, top 3 turn offs: talking about your ex, your money (imaginery or not), and eyeing up other women. Instead, endeavour to be funny, polite and interesting = S-C-O-R-E!!!

When I was dating, I totally hated..

1.) Ladies w/ bad body odor...especially sourly funky B-ginas. (Ladies, when a DUDE tell you that your "lady business" is ripe, it's serious, okay?) But, no offence to the delibrate sour pussy-smelling ladies.🙂

2.) Ladies w/ Edward's scissor-hands for lips. (Chapstick & Vasoline isn't expensive.) But, no offence to the delibrate crispy-lip ladies.🙂

3.) Ladies that..how can I put this?...BITCH alot & lay down some depression psychogenic suicidal B.S. ( Psychiatrists aren't for nothing). Much offence to the delibrate bitching ladies.🙂

Lol, Prime, she sounds HOT!!

I also hate people who finish my sentences, change the topic of conversation too much as if im in an interview or who talk about themselves all night...yawwwwwwwn.

Also, dont talk like your Tarzan...women really arent interested if your shagged half the town/city, it doesnt pay to big yourself up...those are the ones wih more to prove, heehee!!

Turn off..

You feel the need to discuss your finances with me....I SWEAR MEN BEG FOR GOLDDIGGERS.....

A man who won't express himself ..

The man who keeps saying....so tell me a little more about yourself—?....or who keeps ringing and texting or is too available to me....the man who calls me babe or honey the first nite I meet him....uugh.....the man with the "cheesy" chat-up lines....the man who won't take my no as my no!!!!!the man who oogles me and makes me a sex oject from the start......rather than the look from top to toe of admiration that quite few men can achieve which says your a winner - body, mind and soul:-)...the man who can't dance well but thinks he's John Travolta.....men who talk about their exes....the "all about me" man who never stops talking about himself....oh I could go on and on.....but I choose to stop now:-) Boys learn your lessons well from us girls on the DX Board....we are giving you the secrets of our "sisterhood" - use them wisely with the women in your lives and see the miraculous results - and remember every woman secretly desires to be a "goddess" if even only for one night in their lives:-) so heavy on the gloss and admiration and forget the reality:-)......see I am already contradicting myself again......flamin' aquarian me!! but you know what I mean.......

Alana x

Oh and PS....did I happen to mention that there's not one guy on the DX Board who has any of the above bad turn off habits that I mentioned....so that means that each and every guy on this board has a "chance" with me:-) I am not a tease....I'm just a reminder to some people of what they can never have:-)

A x

"I'm just a reminder to some people of what they can never have:-)"

-NICE!!! i like that, Alana...

Yes moonchild8...I can't say it's my very own...I read something similar somewhere very recently and I decided to "adapt and adopt" it as an Alana-ism.......you are very welcome to use it as a Moon-childism any time any place any where my lovely:-)

a x

cute, alana...thanks!

i will feel free to go ahead and use that one...

I NEVER ask nor come close to grazing the subject....and somehow it ALWAYS comes up. Just the other day a guy told me he would 'get me' once he won the lottery....WTF, do you think thats the main/only reason why you dont have me....

So, I asked him does he think im a hooker or something.

Haha lol at the fart remark!

What turns me off is whiney men and even worse the ones who try to do it in an underhanded way. So they won't be upfront and declare that you are hurting them or breaking their heart but they will give you these annoying little hints by text or whatever.

Which leads me to my turn off numero uno.....

I fucking hate games. Like saying a load of shit to a woman to get her to fall for you and then backing off like she's doing a Kathy Bates in Misery or something. Listen up guys if you don't want agro and wanna be footloose and fancy free then don't screw with ladies' heads. Keep away from women who take you in on good faith and actually believe what you profess so passionately. Leave them be.

Alana,

"PS....did I happen to mention that there's not one guy on the DX Board who has any of the above bad turn off habits that I mentioned....so that means that each and every guy on this board has a "chance" with me:-) I am not a tease....I'm just a reminder to some people of what they can never have:-) "

You crack me up!! Haha. So is a reminder needed after is effective? How long does that type of a reminder for an aqua last? 🙂

I think that men have more issues than women when it comes to getting involved in emotionally fucked up relationships. They'll say all the "right" shit and then end up in a mess with neurotic women calling them up and throwing water over their heads etc. Why bother?

Why don't these players stick with sluts who don't want more emotional interplay other than getting shagged? That is fucked up.

I am becoming almost puritanical in my anti-game-playing stance. I yearn to have a straight forward romance with a man where there's no hidden agenda. And that doesn't equate with being boring by any means. Being upfront about basics like that you're both seeing eachother out of a genuine mutual respect leaves it more open for each person to really be themselves and let their fun side come out. I don't want to express the real me why I feel that a man is trying to hoodwink me. This makes me become wooden and unspontaneous and hesitant about how I should behave. Fuck that. Fuck these sorts that make me feel like that.

I don't date. I don't try and see people to see if they would be a good partner.

I find that the best partners I have found, are people who were first close friends. A relationship is more than just being "turned on", it's about understanding, committment, fellowship and more.

With someone who is a great friend as well as a girlfriend, I know I have the best of both worlds and that she is someone I will never get tired of.


So, what turns me off in terms of dating, or whatever I will call this that I do? Someone who wants to become my lover, before they've become my friend.

Skinny people who act like they have a right to lecture everyone else about eating. Look, you don't eat except birdseed. If I want to eat a burger, shut the fuck up and leave me alone or I'm buying you one and forcing it down your throat.

LMAO....i cant stand that either :-P

Hi Eliza!

"Guys see the futility of dating early on, since they'll notice that dating frequently lands you with little money and an incurrable hard-on."

You want a home run for buying dinner and a movie, branh? No way...! Second base.

LOL!! Oh!

So, branh, prime...what do you suggest instead?

"Would be nice if there was no game play, just a nice straight forward conversation. Come to my place, lets make dinner together, chat, see if we like the same foods and topics to actually keep it interesting for a nice and if we are able to click."

— Prime, isn't that a date?

Women have a harder time explaining that then you(men) do, branh.

Maybe also because women like to nest. *shrug*

"It is apparent you aren't paying attention, so why should anyone spend anymore time responding to you?"

You shouldn't, branh. Fuck you.

"For starters, she's going Dutch on this, she better realize it's a mutal and I'm not pay for stuff to show off. She's also doing her share of the dishes. And second, there are no games played on my part. Dating is all game play so in that respect is not a date at all.

Frankly I have yet to meet a woman who didn't do game play or say she would follow agreed ground rules. When I do meet one, she's a serious contender, all the rest can go on DXP and complain about men."

I think this is great, prime...a wonderful date.

Goodnight. *smile*

More than you can afford, branh. Duh.

Bye!

blah blah blah...play the game...or stay off the fucking field.

Branh, stop fucking justifying paying for sex...its still pitiful.

"I think it is more like, "more than I am willing to pay""


LoL, branh...Then, you're stupid.

Shooo!

"No woman I've met considers it a great date"


You want to know why I think it is great? I'll tell you. lol.

It's because I get to know more about the man I'm going to sleep with. It's as simple as that.

Sleep with = fuck

soooo, why, men (brah & Prime), use it to your advantage....all the 'flaws' of women?

Lazy...tsk tsk.

I read that part. But you pay attention. I was asking about those men.

"I rarely invite people over to my place"


There it is, Prime.

That is a big deal for me too which is why I value it in another.

And, btw, if his place is too cleaned up, I'll know there is an attempt to play me. There are signs for that as well...

...I was invited to a guy's house, and the first thing I noticed was the lace curtains hanging over the windows. A woman's touch.

"his Mother—"


LoLOL. Oh, hush, you!

Your Mothers could get you men bedding and towels and food, but you would never allow her to put in girly furnishings. And, she would know better than to try.

But your women?...Piss on you/mark their territory with all kinds of stuff. lol.

"sex in the city"

Ooo!

I just bought the whole series on DVD yesterday!!!

The special edition set within the pink fuzzy case!!!!!

!!!!!!!

"Ocean....they can try and fail"

But you may not notice the signs we leave for other women.




"Or were you saying women are bitches,in that sentence"

hahaha...Carmen Electra used to have Dave Navarro wear a "C" pendant around his neck. Yeah? 🙂

"lace, that's just gay."

LoL!

"Yeah, I don't clean to impress, come on, I live here, it's going to have some mess somewhere. Plus if she's a neat freak, that's a sign we won't get a long because when I get into a project, I just don't see the pile of papers, it doesn't exist if it isn't helping me solve the project solution. Anyone who lives with me has to get used to that. Plus with two cats, there is going to be cat hair around the sofa and stuff."


The real you. Yes.


"I don't do anything to impress, she has to like me for who I am not who I pretend to be and that's the main problem with game players and posers in dating, you never know what the final product is. If a woman is trying to impress me that's actually costing her points, I'd rather see who she normally is and understand that, if we fit, great, if not, no hard feelings and move on. Although that last part seems to be hard for most people."

I agree.

"Mind you,maybe it's a rebellion against the repressed women of yore........."

No. Laziness. And, that's gross!!

"sex in the city"

Ooo!

I just bought the whole series on DVD yesterday!!!

The special edition set within the pink fuzzy case!!!!!






"My Condolences....."

Why?? I thought everyone loved that show!?! And, that I'm the only person on the planet who hasn't watched it!

"When you do that...you are still doing what is always done, but the only difference is that it is on your terms. The game within your rules."


I think they know that, aqi. lol. And, I like it. 🙂

"evidence would've ben put in the rubbish bin"

ha...and when your girl comes back and asks where her stuff is what are you gonna tell her??

"just say 'yeah,I like to exfoliate!!!' or similar"

You're funny!

So, what about the box of Tampax under the sink?? Huh—

"I watched three shows and realized I'm not the demographics they are after. Actually anyone with a penis is not in the demographics they are after."


What? I thought all they fuss about is about men...

...—

What are you gonna do with the perfume, Bling? Remembering that it LOOKS used...

Nevermind...I know...

You're going to give it back...awww.

"Yeah, so why would a straight guy want to watch? I can understand a gay guy maybe, but a straight guy would just change the channel."


I would love to watch a show with you guys talking about me(women). Getting real. 🙂