What's up with my Scorpio Ex? (aqua lady)

Posted by brandyp
im scorpio (female, sry) and I find the exact opposite!! if anything aquas are very smart and if he is playing mind games and trying to emotionally extort you, then it shouldn't work! being so intelligent, aquas can ALWAYS outsmart scorpios. (trust me, I hate to admit it, but its true) seeing as your known as the heartless sign, him emotionally manipulating you should not be as effective on you and im sure you can dish it right back, so don't act so innocent!!

Posted by kmurphy30
Well, I hear you guys, and I've ALWAYS been the one with the power, and I think he hates that because he's not used to it and can't do anything about it but it makes him feel inferior. He's HIGHLY intelligent but not very emotional, and even as good as I am at picking brains, I think I see what he's thinking but then he'll say or do something as if to say he doesn't care. But then he'll turn right around and tell me that other people don't measure up to me. Sometimes I think I've been so good at putting him off that he thinks I really could take or leave him, and that makes him want to give the same feeling back out of spite. He's just so confusing.

I've always been 5 steps ahead, but I'm tired of these mind games, its been 2 years of em. Now, I just want to hear the words come out of his mouth. He's just SOOOO afraid to be vulnerable, I can at least tell that. I once told him he broke my heart and he replied "that's the first time I even knew you had a heart, let alone one I could touch." Most of this IS my fault for being so guarded with him, and in return I've led him to believe he means nothing, but he means just the opposite. I just don't know how to go about changing the foundation of shadiness weve created as a means of self up reservation and turn ilthis into open, honest, vulnerable, verbal passion. Ugh.

Posted by kmurphy30
I will try to keep this short, but its a Scorpio matter...

I'm an Aquarius woman and I've been back and forth for 2 years with my Scorpio. We dated 2x, had periods of fwb, had a period of 7 mths with no contact at all and reconnected...but since then we've been a part of each others lives. I don't see him much since the 3 months has passed since we last dated, but I do most of the pursuing via text. When I get fed up of being ignored, he starts to come toward me. Sometimes we hook up, and they are incredible to say the least. He is all mine; he is fascinated by me, always claims his sexual obsession and passion for us, and after hours of love making we talk until the sun comes up. While he is somewhat distant any other time, he is just the opposite during these times and I feel I am the center of his world. While I do most of the pursuing, I've also been famous for pushing him away, and I feel like he could be in love with me but afraid to get hurt. The reason I'm like this is because I AM in love and I can't risk getting hurt if he doesn't feel the same; only up until recently has he ever made it known that he was ever at fault for anything and showed some quiet irritability when he sees how full my life is and all the characters in it. I think he thinks, that if that "one thing" was different about her, I'd make her mine, but until then he stays in his safe zone. He plays a lot of mind games with me, shows me texts from other girls, tells me he's not attracted to them the way he is to me, and we talk about everything; one could say we are the same kind of weird. He often says there's this weirdness or magic around us because of little things that happen that connect us somehow when we aren't together; we also have a lot in common that makes for a great friendship, but everything about him told me he was the one the day we met. I'm not a loose girl by any means and after our first date ,(dating site hook up) I went back to his house and stayed the night. MY VERY FIRST TIME MEETING HIM! Now, he knows I'm not that kind of girl, but it goes to show the magnetism we had after one lunch.

I don't even know if I want to take this mess on, I just can't help the wondering of where his head is. Only honest answers please, preferably from Scorpio males.

Posted by kmurphy30
Good points, guys. I DO think I read too much into it sometimes, and I think I have it figured out, but then I think what if he really just doesn't feel the way I do? Am I making more of it than what it is? But, if you'd see him with me, you can see why I think he's in love. Just 2 different guys.

I don't know his time of birth, but he's a Scorpio ALL DAY. The secretiveness, mind games, testing, everything. We have a very intelligent, witty, intellectual relatiomship. Here's the thing you guys may find interesting... The sex by general consensus is...not good. Were both so afraid to be vulnerable that we look like a couple of 15 yr olds, lol. But the thing that makes it magic is its the only time when the mind games have no position and were able to show each other what we feel, and its soooooo passionate. Its perfection, and its such a release of built up love, its definitely something extraordinary. That's another reason I think he's in love because if it was just a booty call (he says he has a low sex drive) then he could surely get a better lay, lol. I'm normally a tiger in bed, but with him I'm so shy...and its also tough to do it because sex and emotion go hand in hand for me, I can't just screw someone I don't care for. It sucks. So, I have to be careful to keep my emotions in check while were intimate so that I'm not too caught up when I have to part from him. God, listen to me...I got it bad, don't I? Ha. But one of you guys said he prolly feels the same and is just dying to hear it back. Let's face it, he's a scorpio- of course he want admiration and reassurance of his ego...but does he want to hear it from ME?

Posted by kmurphy30
Yeah! Its weird, I know! I was expecting a sex god, lol. I guess I can make things kinda awkward, he said he noticed I was SUPER guarded recently and asked me if I felt it, too and why. But I've always told him to embrace his sexuality, I can see the beast in him, he's just got to learn how to express himself which he can't do. He's much much better at it, tho. He's actually the leader now in the bedroom, the one with the passion, and I'm loving this look on him. I just think were both so scared to be that vulnerable because of the tough asses we are any other time.

Posted by kmurphy30
We cuddle the fuck out of each other after and talk all night, my favorite times w him
oh uh..
well time to cuddle with my man 😄

good luck with your guy!!

Posted by Aquarcorn
As a aquarius female who was married to an ex scorpio I have to say this 2 signs are just not compatible good luck with him lol because you'll probably join the cue nearly every aquarius female on here has had a scorpio partner mad how there attracted to us when there totally opposite to what we want in a long loving co existence lol 😄