
Nouran20
@Nouran20
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Posted by Galyn
A healthy aqua (I don't know about jerks, and they exist in every sign) does love its independence and freedom but doesn't disappear completely. We like being able to live our own life, see our friends a lot, be busy with our work or an activity or a hobby, etc. And then see the person we love. It doesn't mean we're gonna disappear on them, it just means we want both worlds, and seperately 🙂 We will always come back to the person we love.
Now if that happens to me, well it depends. If a guy tells me "I'm gonna be real busy with this thing" I understand he will disappear for a while and won't bother him with it. If he doesn't tell me anything on the other hand, and doesn't answer my texts or whatever, that's different, and I won't like it. But as long as you have a logical explanation, we're forgiving people. If it's a mind game or just because you're not interested anymore, however... well then we might just disappear too and for good this time 🙂


Posted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by Galyn
A healthy aqua (I don't know about jerks, and they exist in every sign) does love its independence and freedom but doesn't disappear completely. We like being able to live our own life, see our friends a lot, be busy with our work or an activity or a hobby, etc. And then see the person we love. It doesn't mean we're gonna disappear on them, it just means we want both worlds, and seperately 🙂 We will always come back to the person we love.
Now if that happens to me, well it depends. If a guy tells me "I'm gonna be real busy with this thing" I understand he will disappear for a while and won't bother him with it. If he doesn't tell me anything on the other hand, and doesn't answer my texts or whatever, that's different, and I won't like it. But as long as you have a logical explanation, we're forgiving people. If it's a mind game or just because you're not interested anymore, however... well then we might just disappear too and for good this time 🙂
What's annoying is the spend a lot of time with people who don't matter than those who doclick to expand


Posted by GalynPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by Galyn
A healthy aqua (I don't know about jerks, and they exist in every sign) does love its independence and freedom but doesn't disappear completely. We like being able to live our own life, see our friends a lot, be busy with our work or an activity or a hobby, etc. And then see the person we love. It doesn't mean we're gonna disappear on them, it just means we want both worlds, and seperately 🙂 We will always come back to the person we love.
Now if that happens to me, well it depends. If a guy tells me "I'm gonna be real busy with this thing" I understand he will disappear for a while and won't bother him with it. If he doesn't tell me anything on the other hand, and doesn't answer my texts or whatever, that's different, and I won't like it. But as long as you have a logical explanation, we're forgiving people. If it's a mind game or just because you're not interested anymore, however... well then we might just disappear too and for good this time 🙂
What's annoying is the spend a lot of time with people who don't matter than those who do
I totally disagree. My friends matter just as much as my boyfriend when I have one, even if I love him. If a guy tells me to chose between him and them, he can get lost.click to expand


Posted by GalynPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by Galyn
A healthy aqua (I don't know about jerks, and they exist in every sign) does love its independence and freedom but doesn't disappear completely. We like being able to live our own life, see our friends a lot, be busy with our work or an activity or a hobby, etc. And then see the person we love. It doesn't mean we're gonna disappear on them, it just means we want both worlds, and seperately 🙂 We will always come back to the person we love.
Now if that happens to me, well it depends. If a guy tells me "I'm gonna be real busy with this thing" I understand he will disappear for a while and won't bother him with it. If he doesn't tell me anything on the other hand, and doesn't answer my texts or whatever, that's different, and I won't like it. But as long as you have a logical explanation, we're forgiving people. If it's a mind game or just because you're not interested anymore, however... well then we might just disappear too and for good this time 🙂
What's annoying is the spend a lot of time with people who don't matter than those who do
I totally disagree. My friends matter just as much as my boyfriend when I have one, even if I love him. If a guy tells me to chose between him and them, he can get lost.click to expand

Posted by aquansidenoutPosted by Nouran20
Hi aquas
since aquas are famous for the disappearing act and the whole being aloof thing. Needing time and space and hate partners that suffocate them and limit their options.
What would happen if we flip the whole thing and instead of u disappearing, u suddenly discover that ur partner is going missing
busy with a million things other than u
not talking that much to u
not giving u the enough care/time u want
disappearing for couple of days then re apearing outa no wer
asking u to give them space
spending too much time on their own or with their friends but NOT with u for like weeks!!
being told by ur partner that he/she loves u so much but their actions show the opposite
getting confused of whether they wana marry u or just wana stay friends (this has been a major complain from everyone towards aquas especially aqua guys)
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY if your partner suddenly shows signs that they r scared of commitment even though they have asked u to move in or proposed or anything like that earlier?
Would u understand? would u move on? or would u wait or go ANGRY NUTS on them—??
just say how u would feel if all that has been done to u
I would marry him. I love my space. Lol I'm dating a fire sign exclusively and he's perfect for me. All the space yet attention I need. 🙂click to expand

Posted by WaterCup
I think I love Galyn. My type of girl lol. *give Galyn a high-five*

Posted by Nouran20Posted by GalynPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by Galyn
A healthy aqua (I don't know about jerks, and they exist in every sign) does love its independence and freedom but doesn't disappear completely. We like being able to live our own life, see our friends a lot, be busy with our work or an activity or a hobby, etc. And then see the person we love. It doesn't mean we're gonna disappear on them, it just means we want both worlds, and seperately 🙂 We will always come back to the person we love.
Now if that happens to me, well it depends. If a guy tells me "I'm gonna be real busy with this thing" I understand he will disappear for a while and won't bother him with it. If he doesn't tell me anything on the other hand, and doesn't answer my texts or whatever, that's different, and I won't like it. But as long as you have a logical explanation, we're forgiving people. If it's a mind game or just because you're not interested anymore, however... well then we might just disappear too and for good this time 🙂
What's annoying is the spend a lot of time with people who don't matter than those who do
I totally disagree. My friends matter just as much as my boyfriend when I have one, even if I love him. If a guy tells me to chose between him and them, he can get lost.
well what if u had a friend that has bothered/hurt or annoyed ur partner and ur partner is tellin u that u shouldnt talk to ur friend again. what would u do?click to expand



Posted by Angeleyes17
Relating myself to this topic, I've decided to take a step back and move on from the Aqua guy in my life. He doesn't seem to show any interest in me. Since the Valentines day thing I did for him (and for me that was the first time ever to do something special for someone), I have had no contact with him. I messaged him once and he chose not to respond. I realised the only time he wants to talk to me is when he's horny. lol.. But if I want to chat to him he's got no time to chat to me.
Its about him someone made effort with me for a change.



Posted by Angeleyes17
Relating myself to this topic, I've decided to take a step back and move on from the Aqua guy in my life. He doesn't seem to show any interest in me. Since the Valentines day thing I did for him (and for me that was the first time ever to do something special for someone), I have had no contact with him. I messaged him once and he chose not to respond. I realised the only time he wants to talk to me is when he's horny. lol.. But if I want to chat to him he's got no time to chat to me.
Its about him someone made effort with me for a change.

Posted by GalynPosted by Nouran20Posted by GalynPosted by ScorpioFemale79Posted by Galyn
A healthy aqua (I don't know about jerks, and they exist in every sign) does love its independence and freedom but doesn't disappear completely. We like being able to live our own life, see our friends a lot, be busy with our work or an activity or a hobby, etc. And then see the person we love. It doesn't mean we're gonna disappear on them, it just means we want both worlds, and seperately 🙂 We will always come back to the person we love.
Now if that happens to me, well it depends. If a guy tells me "I'm gonna be real busy with this thing" I understand he will disappear for a while and won't bother him with it. If he doesn't tell me anything on the other hand, and doesn't answer my texts or whatever, that's different, and I won't like it. But as long as you have a logical explanation, we're forgiving people. If it's a mind game or just because you're not interested anymore, however... well then we might just disappear too and for good this time 🙂
What's annoying is the spend a lot of time with people who don't matter than those who do
I totally disagree. My friends matter just as much as my boyfriend when I have one, even if I love him. If a guy tells me to chose between him and them, he can get lost.
well what if u had a friend that has bothered/hurt or annoyed ur partner and ur partner is tellin u that u shouldnt talk to ur friend again. what would u do?
I see it like that: chicks befor dicks.
Haha but to be more serious: I would talk about it, try to understand the problem, etc etc. I don't believe there's only one side to every story. My ex understood that, because even though he got jealous of a guy-friend I had, he knew better than to make me chose. My friends are VERY important to me, and making me chose would only make me run away. You have to trust me. If you don't, it's just an unhealthy relationship. And obviously, I'd try my best to reassure you as well.click to expand




Posted by truecapPosted by Angeleyes17
Relating myself to this topic, I've decided to take a step back and move on from the Aqua guy in my life. He doesn't seem to show any interest in me. Since the Valentines day thing I did for him (and for me that was the first time ever to do something special for someone), I have had no contact with him. I messaged him once and he chose not to respond. I realised the only time he wants to talk to me is when he's horny. lol.. But if I want to chat to him he's got no time to chat to me.
Its about him someone made effort with me for a change.
I'm so sorry. Hate to hear that.click to expand

Posted by WaterCup
^^^prophecy. & hey, chin up scorp. At least you tried. Love is waiting for you elsewhere.


Posted by Angeleyes17
Relating myself to this topic, I've decided to take a step back and move on from the Aqua guy in my life. He doesn't seem to show any interest in me. Since the Valentines day thing I did for him (and for me that was the first time ever to do something special for someone), I have had no contact with him. I messaged him once and he chose not to respond. I realised the only time he wants to talk to me is when he's horny. lol.. But if I want to chat to him he's got no time to chat to me.
Its about him someone made effort with me for a change.


Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Angeleyes17
Relating myself to this topic, I've decided to take a step back and move on from the Aqua guy in my life. He doesn't seem to show any interest in me. Since the Valentines day thing I did for him (and for me that was the first time ever to do something special for someone), I have had no contact with him. I messaged him once and he chose not to respond. I realised the only time he wants to talk to me is when he's horny. lol.. But if I want to chat to him he's got no time to chat to me.
Its about him someone made effort with me for a change.
what the?? only when he's....?
(shakes head) your guy sounds horrible! (no not trying to be mean, but jesus, only contacts when he's feeling like he needs to watch porn?)
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since aquas are famous for the disappearing act and the whole being aloof thing. Needing time and space and hate partners that suffocate them and limit their options.
What would happen if we flip the whole thing and instead of u disappearing, u suddenly discover that ur partner is going missing
busy with a million things other than u
not talking that much to u
not giving u the enough care/time u want
disappearing for couple of days then re apearing outa no wer
asking u to give them space
spending too much time on their own or with their friends but NOT with u for like weeks!!
being told by ur partner that he/she loves u so much but their actions show the opposite
getting confused of whether they wana marry u or just wana stay friends (this has been a major complain from everyone towards aquas especially aqua guys)
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY if your partner suddenly shows signs that they r scared of commitment even though they have asked u to move in or proposed or anything like that earlier?
Would u understand? would u move on? or would u wait or go ANGRY NUTS on them—??
just say how u would feel if all that has been done to u