would u consider being with a taurus?

Hey aquas out there
I have posted a thread to see taureans opinions on whether being with an aqua (relationship wise) is a good combination or whether to completely take it off my mind.
So Ive decided to also view the other side of the story.
If any auqas here have been in a relationship with a taurus person or seen a relationship with that unique mix then Share your experience and state the goods and bads, whether ur for it or against this union.
If you havent been in one or never seen such a mix then u r still welcome to have a say on this topic.

Thank u

Hi Nouran 🙂

well i've only studied a little on the western couples, like Uma Thurman and her husband Arpad Busson:



and there's astrologers who have already studied their charts to a degree:

http://www.ganeshaspeaks.com/blog_My_Super_exgirlfriend_Uma_Thurman_is_engaged_to_Arpad_Busson_1259.action<BR> Opposites attract — Uma and Arpad
"It is a universal rule and truth that opposite poles attract each other.Ganesha observes that the significator of love,Venus,is placed in the Midheaven in Uma??s horoscope which makes her a very good actress.Mars Venus conjunction in Taurus makes her a sexually passionate person. Arpad Busson has Venus in Scorpio.Taurus is exactly 180 apart from Scorpio hence Uma and Busson are attracted to each other.

Other planetary combinations between Uma Thurman and Arpad Busson??s chart
Uma has Rahu in Aquarius in the 7th house which always gives her instability on the personal partnership front.Arpad has Jupiter and Moon in Aquarius.Uma??s Rahu falling over Arpad??s Jupiter is not a very good sign but as they have Venus to Venus opposition and Uma??s Mars also forms opposition with Arpad??s Venus they may remain in love with each other.

Ganesha notes that 30th June 2010 to 12th December 2010 is the period when she will be under the influence of Saturn major period,sub period of Saturn and sub sub period of Rahu.This period can be quite disturbing for her as far as her relationship with Arpad Busson is concerned.As Arki??s Saturn,Sun and Ketu are falling on her Natal Moon in Capricorn,she may feel quite pressurised to remain disciplined and might have to live life in a more scheduled or organized manner.Arpad may make her feel depressed,worried or tensed- knowingly or unknowingly.The only good factor which may help this relationship survive is Venus to Venus opposition,says Ganesha.

Good luck to the newly engaged couple and may Lord Ganesha bless Arki and Uma Thurman with stable and satisfactory love relationship."
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although from the astrologer's chart analysis, she/he puts Arpad at an Aquarius moon, but when i tried putting in his bday from wikipedia, he's Pisces moon. So, they probably haven't gotten his time of birth.

also, before she got married with Arpad, she was dating this Aquarian CEO for andre balazs properties guy:

(also used to date model Elle McPherson)
don't know his chart though.


obviously, Ms. Uma Thurman is very discriminating. 🙂

I haven't even looked at the Asian /Eastern cultures/film/celebrities/historical.

Hey nouran *waves* 🙂

I would definitely consider a relationship with a taurus! I wish I can contribute more it's just personally I've never been romantically involved with one but they make amazing friends! Who knows! It might just be a few placements and their aspects that make or break the union.

Just don't let astrology create bias for you 😉

I'm a Taurus and I was with an Aquarius (sun) woman for five years. There was great intellectual depth and a powerful 'friendship' element to the relationship, and there was a definite feeling of "comfort" (probably due to my Virgo Moon and her Capricorn Moon, among other things) but the sexual chemistry was never really there between us. She had a much "cooler" disposition than I do (I have Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Leo rising, Aries Venus, Sagittarius Mars... she had Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Capricorn Venus, Pisces Mars) and there was always a sort of imbalance between us when it came to passion... not just in terms of sex, but for pretty much anything. The friendship and the intellectual rapport was what kept it together for as long as it did.

Just my 2 cents.

Hi nouran yes ive dated a bull before. Great debates, good laughs, and still friendly after all these years. Lasted a half year or so we never meshed. Always felt she tried to control me. She never understood why i didnt do anything she wanted me to do. We ended after one day when she called and i didnt pick up. I intended to talk to her but was busy working. Nine calls that hour all with messages like "how are you or miss you". 27 calls that day and another 20 the next all with increasingly insane messages. I called back later that week and talked it out before ending the realationship. On seperate note i have not had a voice mail set up since.

Posted by Shadowsinger
I'm a Taurus and I was with an Aquarius (sun) woman for five years. There was great intellectual depth and a powerful 'friendship' element to the relationship, and there was a definite feeling of "comfort" (probably due to my Virgo Moon and her Capricorn Moon, among other things) but the sexual chemistry was never really there between us. She had a much "cooler" disposition than I do (I have Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Leo rising, Aries Venus, Sagittarius Mars... she had Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Capricorn Venus, Pisces Mars) and there was always a sort of imbalance between us when it came to passion... not just in terms of sex, but for pretty much anything. The friendship and the intellectual rapport was what kept it together for as long as it did.

Just my 2 cents.

you so funny. Guess you didnt like her Pisces Mars sexual drive?

Posted by EvilTurtle
Hi nouran yes ive dated a bull before. Great debates, good laughs, and still friendly after all these years. Lasted a half year or so we never meshed. Always felt she tried to control me. She never understood why i didnt do anything she wanted me to do. We ended after one day when she called and i didnt pick up. I intended to talk to her but was busy working. Nine calls that hour all with messages like "how are you or miss you". 27 calls that day and another 20 the next all with increasingly insane messages. I called back later that week and talked it out before ending the realationship. On seperate note i have not had a voice mail set up since.

Oh man thats very annoying all the insane messages and calling so i agree with u on that point. however while u were busy did u try to at least inform her that ur busy doing something and that u will get bk to her as soon as ur done??
In my case what used to annoy me about my aqua is how we spent like 3 or 4 days of not talking. Just good morning u ok and thats about it. or sending him a message telling oh im goin out to uni and ill talk to u later. thats it.
After days of not barely talking we miss eachother which is natural and when we talk (finally) he would still distract himself with silly things like browsing the internet for a car. lol
I wouldnt mind all that. But after some time of not talking I think it would have been more polite and nicer if he made at least 15 mins for us.
Those 15 mins of connecting and intellectually/emotionally interacting will give me the energy to go on for another 5 days of not minding to give him his own freedom of drifting away to another world. Itll make me more tolerant cuz then ill know after waiting for a while he will come and make it up to me.
But not get anything or getting very little is not fair dont u think??

^^^ lol excuse my typing mistakes

@lisabethur
from what youve wrote about the celebrity couple..does that mean they r neutral?
Cuz i dont know much about planets/houses thing..sorry

All i can do is that i can give u my chart and my ex aqua chart and id like to see ur interpretation of the natal charts. I tried to look for those sites that can give me detailed info about our natal chart compatibility but I didn't find useful info.

Me:
Sun:27?? 48' in Taurus
Moon:19?? 30' in Sagittarius
Mercury:13?? 01' in Taurus
Venus:20?? 44' in Taurus
Mars:09?? 38' in Aries
Jupiter:05?? 06' in Virgo
Saturn:18?? 17' in Aquarius
Uranus:17?? 45' in Capricorn
Neptune:18?? 47' in Capricorn
Pluto:21?? 12' in Scorpio

Him:
Sun:27?? 49' in Aquarius
Moon:10?? 52' in Cancer
Mercury:01?? 30' in Aquarius
Venus:16?? 01' in Aquarius
Mars:16?? 16' in Taurus
Jupiter:27?? 24' in Taurus
Saturn:10?? 34' in Capricorn
Uranus:04?? 13' in Capricorn
Neptune:11?? 33' in Capricorn
Pluto:15?? 02' in Scorpio

Posted by aquasnoz
Hey nouran *waves* 🙂

I would definitely consider a relationship with a taurus! I wish I can contribute more it's just personally I've never been romantically involved with one but they make amazing friends! Who knows! It might just be a few placements and their aspects that make or break the union.

Just don't let astrology create bias for you 😉

heyy *waves back*
I totally agree with u i mean astrology is not something u should base ur whole life upon. But i guess it gives a hint on how to deal with someone.
I havent been in any relationship with any aqua except one so cant judge 🙂

Posted by Shadowsinger
I'm a Taurus and I was with an Aquarius (sun) woman for five years. There was great intellectual depth and a powerful 'friendship' element to the relationship, and there was a definite feeling of "comfort" (probably due to my Virgo Moon and her Capricorn Moon, among other things) but the sexual chemistry was never really there between us. She had a much "cooler" disposition than I do (I have Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Leo rising, Aries Venus, Sagittarius Mars... she had Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Capricorn Venus, Pisces Mars) and there was always a sort of imbalance between us when it came to passion... not just in terms of sex, but for pretty much anything. The friendship and the intellectual rapport was what kept it together for as long as it did.

Just my 2 cents.

can u gimme more details about problems u both faced? if u dont mind ofc

Posted by feb16aqua
I've tried to date 2 of them, never lasted past a few weeks. The whole "you're mine" "you belong to me" after like the first few dates...all threw me for a loop. Both of them were really about, seemingly, dominating me. I found them both to be jealous to the point of not talking to me. I realized later that when I upset the taurus he would disappear. Only if he was upset or hurt. This did not gel well with me, I can usually keep cool after a fight.

Unfortunately my disposition and the give and take reciprocation led to distance between us, quickly too, and it was over. Neither one of them wanted to be my friends afterwards either which sucks.

I really felt like my independent streak did not work with them, at least these two. I am pretty sure they like very feminine women as well.

Damn..even i hate the whole u belong to me thing. I actually had an aqua guy whom i wasnt even in a relationship with but he had a crush on me who used to tell me the same thing "you belong to me you cant speak to other guys" blah blah
I eventually deleted him cuz he was super annoying

Anyways, did u break off with them? or did they break up with u first?
And how did they not want to be friends with u? did they just disappear or they actually said to u they dont want the friendship?

Nouran, have you tried using pullen? go to astrotheme, google it and google for pullen or dominant elements in chart and stuff. Find out what energy he's dominant in. It looks like he's Venus Dominant though. Taurus Venus dominant. For a man, that means he is definitely POSSESSIVE. but it also depends on his character/upbringing. If he's been raised well, he'll make you happy, but it might be dull for you. some girls don't like good boys. And some girls want bad boys. *sigh* I dunno. it all depends on your personality really. And his. he might be the type that is playboy and likes having a "harem" of women around. that would grate on your nerves and you'll want to castrate him (not literally but secretly).

Posted by harry99

Posted by feb16aqua
I've tried to date 2 of them, never lasted past a few weeks. The whole "you're mine" "you belong to me" after like the first few dates...all threw me for a loop. Both of them were really about, seemingly, dominating me. I found them both to be jealous to the point of not talking to me. I realized later that when I upset the taurus he would disappear. Only if he was upset or hurt. This did not gel well with me, I can usually keep cool after a fight.

Unfortunately my disposition and the give and take reciprocation led to distance between us, quickly too, and it was over. Neither one of them wanted to be my friends afterwards either which sucks.

I really felt like my independent streak did not work with them, at least these two. I am pretty sure they like very feminine women as well.

We just can't be friend with people we once had feelings for. It doesn't meld with our mindset at all. My exes all
hate me cuz I couldn't be friends with them so you're not alone.

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i feel the same way, and i've been saying that forever on here....and since i did my pullen no wonder.

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by lisabethur8


i feel the same way, and i've been saying that forever on here....and since i did my pullen no wonder.

You feel the same way about which part? I just did my pullen last night too.

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and?? what was your pullen?

Posted by harry99

Posted by feb16aqua
I've tried to date 2 of them, never lasted past a few weeks. The whole "you're mine" "you belong to me" after like the first few dates...all threw me for a loop. Both of them were really about, seemingly, dominating me. I found them both to be jealous to the point of not talking to me. I realized later that when I upset the taurus he would disappear. Only if he was upset or hurt. This did not gel well with me, I can usually keep cool after a fight.

Unfortunately my disposition and the give and take reciprocation led to distance between us, quickly too, and it was over. Neither one of them wanted to be my friends afterwards either which sucks.

I really felt like my independent streak did not work with them, at least these two. I am pretty sure they like very feminine women as well.

We just can't be friend with people we once had feelings for. It doesn't meld with our mindset at all. My exes all
hate me cuz I couldn't be friends with them so you're not alone.

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That makes u a taurus like me..but i dont c y wouldnt I still be friends with someone i had feelings for? If my feelings r over for that person that ill treat him just like any other friend or random person. The only time I wouldnt feel comfortable is if im still into that person and i see him with someone else then itll hurt me.
But the general concept of being friends with ex..ummm..y not? Guess that makes me a different type of taurus?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by lisabethur8


i feel the same way, and i've been saying that forever on here....and since i did my pullen no wonder.

You feel the same way about which part? I just did my pullen last night too.

and?? what was your pullen?

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what is a pullen? lol i feel stupid now

Posted by lisabethur8
Nouran, have you tried using pullen? go to astrotheme, google it and google for pullen or dominant elements in chart and stuff. Find out what energy he's dominant in. It looks like he's Venus Dominant though. Taurus Venus dominant. For a man, that means he is definitely POSSESSIVE. but it also depends on his character/upbringing. If he's been raised well, he'll make you happy, but it might be dull for you. some girls don't like good boys. And some girls want bad boys. *sigh* I dunno. it all depends on your personality really. And his. he might be the type that is playboy and likes having a "harem" of women around. that would grate on your nerves and you'll want to castrate him (not literally but secretly).

ohhhhhhhh actually sorry u already told me..but i read yesterday so i forgot.
I have to check this out tonight

Posted by Nouran20

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by lisabethur8


i feel the same way, and i've been saying that forever on here....and since i did my pullen no wonder.

You feel the same way about which part? I just did my pullen last night too.

and?? what was your pullen?

what is a pullen? lol i feel stupid now

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http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/pullen-charts<BR>
http://www.astro.com/cgi/genchart.cgi?gm=pu<BR>
check google and search for more.

feb16, congrats, you're a libra/aqua/scorpio.

and you're mercurial as that's your no.2. Cool. You're way smarter than all of us here. 🙂

Moon at no.1 is good. You can get anyone you want. LOL

i would, the sex is good so why not?

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
i would, the sex is good so why not?

Lol sex is last thing I would consider, but i dont mind being with an aqua as long as he wants a long term relationship and as long as hes FAIR..meaning if he wants to be free he has to equally give me the freedom I need.
I wont keep on giving while he takes and gives nothing.
I guess thats where we clash. Most aquas just want to take take take disappear take again and again and give once in a long time.
This is y a very patient long tempered partner is most suitable for an aqua I guess.

I still like my aqua friends though. I just dont like aquas that will love meeeee so muchhhh and suddenly leave just cuz they felt like it..
*sigh*

Posted by Nouran20

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
i would, the sex is good so why not?

Lol sex is last thing I would consider, but i dont mind being with an aqua as long as he wants a long term relationship and as long as hes FAIR..meaning if he wants to be free he has to equally give me the freedom I need.
I wont keep on giving while he takes and gives nothing.
I guess thats where we clash. Most aquas just want to take take take disappear take again and again and give once in a long time.
This is y a very patient long tempered partner is most suitable for an aqua I guess.

I still like my aqua friends though. I just dont like aquas that will love meeeee so muchhhh and suddenly leave just cuz they felt like it..
*sigh*

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Aquas don't just leave because they felt like it...
They may be distant at times. And as I've stated many a time this happens in a committed relationship when it gets to a point where the person is doing stuff to either hurt or stress them out... but they don't want to leave you well I wouldn't but I guess I'm not a typical one maybe ^.^
If they leave it's for a good reason. Unless they are just shit bags... I dunno I keep trying to compare them to how I would be and I guess obviously they will not all be like me derrr.

No decent human being just takes and takes and takes... and never gives no matter what the zodiac sign.