Afraid to continue dating this aries guy:'( :'(

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walkingonair
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So i started dating this guy who has Venus in aries,moon in cap and mars in taurus and im soooo afraid to continue seeing him because of all the bad things I've heard about venus in aries men ,that they are players and chat,etc.I've been in 6 dates.with this guy and we talk mostly everyday but there are a fee red flags😢 He always talks about other women in front of me and that he has been with many women.He usually wants to come over my place at night.He has alot.of female friends .I'm worried im just gonna get heart broken😭 is he worth dating ,guys—😭 or should not waste my time with him.And if i do continue seeing him,should i play hard to get and ket him chase me or should i show all my interest?😢
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Uggh same for me..I was with a mars Taurus (Leo sun) and he was the same; hundreds of female friends (fine if you are secure about that) but he also ALWAYS talked about other women to me - wtf for I don't know - I was never impressed and I just used to laugh.

Usually a sign of an inwardly insecure person. Plus a sign that he doesn't take you seriously as relationship potential.

Seriously, if a guy is secure and wanting to please you and he is devastatingly attractive, why would he need to be constantly telling his date about other women fawning over him?

You can continue to date him but with your eyes wide open otherwise he WILL break your heart. If your gut isn't sure, then it's not on; there should be no doubts and his behaviour should NOT make you feel like this.
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walkingonair
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Uggh same for me..I was with a mars Taurus (Leo sun) and he was the same; hundreds of female friends (fine if you are secure about that) but he also ALWAYS talked about other women to me - wtf for I don't know - I was never impressed and I just used to laugh.

Usually a sign of an inwardly insecure person. Plus a sign that he doesn't take you seriously as relationship potential.

Seriously, if a guy is secure and wanting to please you and he is devastatingly attractive, why would he need to be constantly telling his date about other women fawning over him?

You can continue to date him but with your eyes wide open otherwise he WILL break your heart. If your gut isn't sure, then it's not on; there should be no doubts and his behaviour should NOT make you feel like this.



Thanks for your feedback aries girl!Yea why would someone keep bragging about all the people they've slept with and making remarks about women .I guess it is cause of insecurity :-\
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Uggh same for me..I was with a mars Taurus (Leo sun) and he was the same; hundreds of female friends (fine if you are secure about that) but he also ALWAYS talked about other women to me - wtf for I don't know - I was never impressed and I just used to laugh.

Usually a sign of an inwardly insecure person. Plus a sign that he doesn't take you seriously as relationship potential.

Seriously, if a guy is secure and wanting to please you and he is devastatingly attractive, why would he need to be constantly telling his date about other women fawning over him?

You can continue to date him but with your eyes wide open otherwise he WILL break your heart. If your gut isn't sure, then it's not on; there should be no doubts and his behaviour should NOT make you feel like this.




again, this aries gives good advice. listen up 🙂
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walkingonair
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Posted by walkingonair
I also feel like the venus in aries placement is the worst when it comes to being in a relationship with someone.....




I dont think the Venus in Aries has anything to do with it. I have venus in Aries and I'm extremely loyal, even to a fault.....
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Hmmm interesting!i just always hear about how venus in aries get bored in relationships easily:/
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Posted by walkingonair
I also feel like the venus in aries placement is the worst when it comes to being in a relationship with someone.....




I dont think the Venus in Aries has anything to do with it. I have venus in Aries and I'm extremely loyal, even to a fault.....



Hmmm interesting!i just always hear about how venus in aries get bored in relationships easily:/
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I get bored easy in a lot of things, But when I'm in love... Your on the throne and worshipped, until you hurt me bad... Then go treetrunk forever!