@candyapples88
15 Years
I know when a Aries says no, they mean no and that's the end of it. They're stubborn LOL. But the second part confuses me. It sounds more like an IDK than a no.
It means that personally, he doesn't see himself with that person, but the world works in mysterious ways.. so it is possible. 🙂
Did I help at all? LOL.
Ahh, sometimes we say no to things we are not sure.. Not sure if you are involved with this guy, but he might have said no because he thought you were joking. It's a defense mechanism. A weird one.
*We are not sure of*
No he knew I was serious LOL. We have a complicated history unfortunately. Went thru things while together that a lot of couples could never survive...including us.
I'd take it as "No", unless something life changing happens.
If he had ONLY said "I don't get paid to predict the future"..that would've sounded more optimistic to me. But he started it with an outright "No".
I know I tend to make sarcastic jokes when I feel uncomfortable as a means to buffer the awkward situation.... probably what he's doing since he couldn't lie to you but he probably felt bad telling the truth straight out.
Don't read into it more than it really is. Guys are not like girls where they had double entendres in convoluted words. He said no end of story.
Come one think about it. What guy says to a girl that he loves and wants to be with and see a future with a straight out no. If there are any meaning behind it you won't lose any chances of it going away by interpreting what he's saying as what he is really meaning. Trust me, if a guy wants you he wants you.
*hide double entendres
Yea I guess I question it because when I say no, it's a no for now AND in the future. There's no "but I can't predict the future" bs. I would never give that response unless I wasn't sure.
You're right.
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If you ask an Aries male if they ever saw you two together again in the future, and they said, "No. But I don't get paid to predict the future either." How would you interpret that?