Airies be wrong?

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generous85
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I just want to know if it is possible for an Airies male to ever accept the fact that they were wrong? My ex was a hards ass that never apologised for anything and hated it when I showed him how he actually did something wrong. No, it was not a game and I did not enjoy it at all, but it eventually became a game of who is better than who. He then dumped me when he started making less money and is now completely ignoring me like we never existed for five years - I still don't get it!
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Posted by Rambunctious76


But from my perspective, more mature Aries tend to give in after awhile and admit that they're wrong, especially when it becomes obvious.




From your post OP I get the feeling that Aries felt it was a competition more than a relationship in the end. You say you do not get it but admitted that making less than you did something to them. Either that is immaturity or the way you flaunted it. Five years is too much time to cover in a post with one example for others to decide the reason. Placements, more about you two together and introspection will be your answer.
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Is weird cuz I was always told how lucky I was that he wud put up with me and how there probly isnt someone else out there who can tolerate - i call it stupid mind games plus random items going missing just to piss me off. I have just never or yet met a mature airies. Am not saying there arent, i just have not met one.

I checked and his moon was in leo,venus in pisces and mars in airies. Got no clue what that means.
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My cousin and my fwb are both Aries and they are such softies (sensitive) deep down. I think when you get to know them better, they're more considerate of you.

However I also don't like to play the blame game, it should be more about how you guys are relating to each other. If he's having to apologise all the time, it's either you're sensitive, he's insensitive or more likely a combination of the two that is no ones fault, you just aren't compatible.
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Posted by generous85

I checked and his moon was in leo



EGO.

And yes I can assure you mature Aries do exist. We reach a certain point in our lives where we mellow down and aren't that big on competition anymore.
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Also when you are attracted to someone you have to be realistic as to where you are in your life. You can look at the partner and at yourself. Were you less mature going into this connection? How much have you changed in five years? What major life challenges brought you closer or drove a wedge in that time, these are pointers to your future and focus
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How sad. All that drama just to please an ego. When we started he never really had an ego that he put on display -mostly only at work, like an insecure man with issues that feeds off other people's dependency on him but now he wants to catch up on the days of drugs, sex and other irresponsible stuff ppl in their 20's tend to do. A late bloomer I call it. So thats where he wants his life to go. Am obviously done with all that and on a more settled vibe. Yeah, nobody playing a blame game am just tryina understand why what and so on. I know how I ruined it, Sally knws fo sho! As for us not being compatible,oh we are for sure, just not right now in our lives. There is no way I could go.back to behaving like am in my college years when am 30sumthing. Is just awkward...
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Posted by generous85
but now he wants to catch up on the days of drugs, sex and other irresponsible stuff ppl in their 20's tend to do. A late bloomer I call it. So thats where he wants his life to go.



I'm an Aries with Leo Moon. I find with this Sun/Moon combo, there's this desire to keep the perfect image. The definition of that perfectionism will probably differ from people to people.
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March aries are my babies. Male and female. But the water moons make them softer than i'd like. More sensitive. Being a leo sun and moon with an Aries rising they love me and I love them until they become boring. For some reason I can't stay around the girls too long, it becomes what you can do for them. I'm generous but I'm no sucker, so when I call them out, then sulk, but eventually they come back.