@ckraprickorn
11 YearsCapricorn
ARIES IS THIS NORMAL??
Understanding Aries Traits in Romantic Interests
Aries individuals are often confident and enthusiastic but may also be shy or reserved in certain situations. Her behavior might indicate she's interested but cautious or unsure about revealing too much early on. It's common for Aries to be playful and spontaneous, which can sometimes appear as flirtatious or elusive. Building trust over time can help clarify her true feelings.
Posted by ckraprickorn
I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?Yes. She is interested.
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What made you say that?
Posted by ckraprickorn
I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?Yes. She is interested.
What made you say that?
Probably the shy/doesn't seem to explain much part. 🙂
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ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.
lol oh okay, relieved to know that these signs are good.
ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.
You're a Cap right? I've never know you all to be clingy...if anything y'all are far from it.
My ex Cap chased me for 2 months, but she did it very subtly - started with "let's hang out more" - then on our 3rd official date, she shoved her tongue into my mouth on the dance floor ahahaha.
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Yeah i'm a cap but my moon is in cancer and venus in pisces. I think that should sum it up lol
ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.
You're a Cap right? I've never know you all to be clingy...if anything y'all are far from it.
My ex Cap chased me for 2 months, but she did it very subtly - started with "let's hang out more" - then on our 3rd official date, she shoved her tongue into my mouth on the dance floor ahahaha.
Yeah i'm a cap but my moon is in cancer and venus in pisces. I think that should sum it up lol
What's her chart?
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I don't know, 😢 .
I have an aries guy friend at work, I can talk to him better than anyone
She thinks you're a creeper.
In all seriousness, whenever I do this, it's because I'm realizing that the guy may be interested and the fun banter has now crossed the line and omg it's not fun banter, but something more serious. The guy may be interested? Well shit, either I don't know if I'm interested or I really am not, hence the hesitance to share.
Don't put a ton of weight into one answer as her having true interest. She COULD, but you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, assuming it's interest.
Posted by ckraprickorn
I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?Yes. She is interested.
What made you say that?
Probably the shy/doesn't seem to explain much part. 🙂
ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.
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Just be yourself. If she likes you cool, if not... there are plenty of fishes in the sea 🙂
Posted by ckraprickorn
lol oh okay, relieved to know that these signs are good.She DID give you her number. If that's not a good sign going in the right direction then I don't know what else to say LOL.
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Word.
I like aries because I like to be chased. I never feel comfortable initiating anything
Posted by rockyroadicecream
In all seriousness, whenever I do this, it's because I'm realizing that the guy may be interested and the fun banter has now crossed the line and omg it's not fun banter, but something more serious. The guy may be interested? Well shit, either I don't know if I'm interested or I really am not, hence the hesitance to share.Don't put a ton of weight into one answer as her having true interest. She COULD, but you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, assuming it's interest.
So what do you do Rocky, when you are interested in someone?
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I don't shy away or avoid them, that's for sure.
I think the OP is just reading too much into things and needs to calm down, tbh.
Wow you've been busy girl... Which one is it exactly - the Aries, the Leo or the Sag?
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I don't think she's reading too much into things. I think she got confused as to what it means.
She? I thought the OP was a dude? Where did you get "she" from?
I think the OP is reading too much into it. Could this Aries be interested? Sure. But I'm saying that to go from friendly and giving out a phone number to freezing up and going quiet when it comes to personal questions, I wouldn't be surprised if she was being friendly and then realized that the OP mistook that for genuine interest. It's happened to me on occasion- I'm just being friendly and chatty and next thing I know, dude thinks I want a date or some shit.
OP just needs to keep doing what they were doing originally and not worry about it until they're sure. There is no mistaking someone's interest because it'd be more obvious than a "maybe I'm seeing things."
Btw, when I'M interested in someone, I don't freeze up or shy away from personal questions. The only time I get iffy/shy about that stuff is when I think the person in question may be on a whole other page than I am and I hesitate because I don't want to string along/encourage that bs.
I don't think she's reading too much into things. I think she got confused as to what it means.
She? I thought the OP was a dude? Where did you get "she" from?
I think the OP is reading too much into it. Could this Aries be interested? Sure. But I'm saying that to go from friendly and giving out a phone number to freezing up and going quiet when it comes to personal questions, I wouldn't be surprised if she was being friendly and then realized that the OP mistook that for genuine interest. It's happened to me on occasion- I'm just being friendly and chatty and next thing I know, dude thinks I want a date or some shit.
OP just needs to keep doing what they were doing originally and not worry about it until they're sure. There is no mistaking someone's interest because it'd be more obvious than a "maybe I'm seeing things."
Btw, when I'M interested in someone, I don't freeze up or shy away from personal questions. The only time I get iffy/shy about that stuff is when I think the person in question may be on a whole other page than I am and I hesitate because I don't want to string along/encourage that bs.
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I am a she. and what is your moon and asc—
I don't think i'm reading into anything by just being sure. I'm just curious into knowing if she was interested or not. Which she is btw. I found it a little strange as all and i asked for advice.
You're a she? She's a she? Does she swing that way?
I have a cancer moon and pisces rising
Posted by AriesGirl74
Wow you've been busy girl... Which one is it exactly - the Aries, the Leo or the Sag?😄
i'm just mingle in the fire! lol
Posted by AriesGirl74
Wow you've been busy girl... Which one is it exactly - the Aries, the Leo or the Sag?😄
i'm just mingle in the fire! lol
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mingling
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're a she? She's a she? Does she swing that way?I have a cancer moon and pisces rising
yes she does. her screenname on almost everything is ilove_females.
& oh okay
Posted by rockyroadicecream
In all seriousness, whenever I do this, it's because I'm realizing that the guy may be interested and the fun banter has now crossed the line and omg it's not fun banter, but something more serious. The guy may be interested? Well shit, either I don't know if I'm interested or I really am not, hence the hesitance to share.Don't put a ton of weight into one answer as her having true interest. She COULD, but you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, assuming it's interest.
So what do you do Rocky, when you are interested in someone?
She gets overly excited and starts beating her chest in total domination style !
(Ok i'm just kidding here...)
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lmao i can believe that though! 😄
Posted by AriesGirl74
Wow you've been busy girl... Which one is it exactly - the Aries, the Leo or the Sag?😄
i'm just mingle in the fire! lol
You not afraid of 3rd degree burns? 😆
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lmao nope! 😆 you guys are actually cool, minus the hot hotheadedness.
Also find out her chart she might be aloof and not your type. If shes aqua venus run for hills or Aries venus...
I didn't mean it by a cheater i meant... like it would be too cold for a venus pisces.
click to expandi agree!
Posted by ckraprickorn
I don't think i'm reading into anything by just being sure. I'm just curious into knowing if she was interested or not. Which she is btw. I found it a little strange as all and i asked for advice.It's actually not that strange. I've done this before...gotten shy in the face of an interested party. But unlike Rocky, it's not because I was unsure of my interest in the person - it was more like I was unsure of how to reciprocate that interest (i.e. my lack of interest in intimacy etc.etc.)
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what made you unsure?
Posted by Rambunctious76
Yeah sorry, I hear too much bs about Venus Aries being cheaters and commitment-phobes...it gets to me after awhile...just like how the Scorps keep getting told they're backstabbers...
my mother venus is in Aries, she is a very faithful even when my father treated her like crap! His venus was in Aquarius.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're a she? She's a she? Does she swing that way?I have a cancer moon and pisces rising
yes she does. her screenname on almost everything is ilove_females.
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Sorry, gotta ask. We've had a few people show up here who were all into the same sex, but the object of their affection was not.
Do you know this chick irl or is it all online?
Posted by ckraprickorn
I don't think i'm reading into anything by just being sure. I'm just curious into knowing if she was interested or not. Which she is btw. I found it a little strange as all and i asked for advice.It's actually not that strange. I've done this before...gotten shy in the face of an interested party. But unlike Rocky, it's not because I was unsure of my interest in the person - it was more like I was unsure of how to reciprocate that interest (i.e. my lack of interest in intimacy etc.etc.)
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You failed to mention that I also do this when I'm NOT interested.
lol relax she likes you. When Aries people are truly guarded, it means they like you a lot. Usually we're pretty friendly and assertive in situations like this..but the fact that she took the time, and gave out her number on the third date is a good sign.
1)When an Aries likes someone he/she is pretty friendly towards them.
2)When an Aries really likes someone, he/she will want to be a bit coy
3)When an Aries is speechless, well...hell we don't say a damn thing.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..
People may assume that because we are generally known for being assertive people, that automatically means we are extroverted. That is an incorrect assumption. Actually out of all the fire signs, I would say we are the most introverted, we just hide it well. If an Aries opens up his/her heart to you..sign,sealed, delivered. Be a little patient. She's into you.
*signed
Posted by biosynthesis
lol relax she likes you. When Aries people are truly guarded, it means they like you a lot. Usually we're pretty friendly and assertive in situations like this..but the fact that she took the time, and gave out her number on the third date is a good sign.
1)When an Aries likes someone he/she is pretty friendly towards them.
2)When an Aries really likes someone, he/she will want to be a bit coy
3)When an Aries is speechless, well...hell we don't say a damn thing.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..People may assume that because we are generally known for being assertive people, that automatically means we are extroverted. That is an incorrect assumption. Actually out of all the fire signs, I would say we are the most introverted, we just hide it well. If an Aries opens up his/her heart to you..sign,sealed, delivered. Be a little patient. She's into you.
Thankx for your advice man. Her moon is in cancer like mine also her venus is in pisces too
Posted by biosynthesis
lol relax she likes you. When Aries people are truly guarded, it means they like you a lot. Usually we're pretty friendly and assertive in situations like this..but the fact that she took the time, and gave out her number on the third date is a good sign.
1)When an Aries likes someone he/she is pretty friendly towards them.
2)When an Aries really likes someone, he/she will want to be a bit coy
3)When an Aries is speechless, well...hell we don't say a damn thing.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..People may assume that because we are generally known for being assertive people, that automatically means we are extroverted. That is an incorrect assumption. Actually out of all the fire signs, I would say we are the most introverted, we just hide it well. If an Aries opens up his/her heart to you..sign,sealed, delivered. Be a little patient. She's into you.
Thankx for your advice man. Her moon is in cancer like mine also her venus is in pisces too
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lol yw hun, just play it cool and don't pry too much. She'll open up eventually. Aries and Capricorn is a tough match up, but if you're willing to get past your differences and compromise, it could be something special.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..
😱 Talk about good news, bad news lol
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lmaooo
She is interested. We don't usually give number to the people we don't like or which we're not interested in. She came out with an initiative and now you need to do something to make her sure you like her too in that way 🙂
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I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?