Are aries pretty honest usually...

I've read alot that what you see is what you get and that they are pretty staightforward. I don't have any reason not to believe anything he says to me other than I'm an insecure scorpio that needs to be in control. I don't know what is going on with him as he's disappeared someswhat to deal with a difficult situation which of course drives me crazy! Just trying to relax and give him space and just remember all he's told me so far. Is it just me or do they just lie in general and I should move on?

Posted by amysue99
I've read alot that what you see is what you get and that they are pretty staightforward. I don't have any reason not to believe anything he says to me other than I'm an insecure scorpio that needs to be in control. I don't know what is going on with him as he's disappeared someswhat to deal with a difficult situation which of course drives me crazy! Just trying to relax and give him space and just remember all he's told me so far. Is it just me or do they just lie in general and I should move on?

We are very much usually pretty straight forward when it comes to things however for me specifically I tend to hold some stuff in until I just explode with a million things that have been bothering me for 3 months LOL. In regards to the dissapearing act...it's strange you mention this. I have been discussing with fellow Aries as of recent our wierd shift in social interaction-- lately I have felt super anti-social (a total opposite trait of Aries).

As an Aries I actually find I have a really hard time lying... I always ended up telling my mom things I was completely getting away with by another story just because it was eating away at me that I lied. I dont know if it's that way for everyone but definitly me. I am also straighforward-- I am told I am the most inappropriate chick people have ever met I say whatever is on my mind pretty much all the time lol 🙂

Sometimes Aries need to recharge their batteries, so maybe he just needs a little space. Scorpios can be really intense.

Stop talking down about how you??re insecure and this and that??_.Scorpios are controlling because they want to feel safe. So please with the controlling and insecure this and that.

Have fun with the darn guy.

Posted by Love366
Sometimes Aries need to recharge their batteries, so maybe he just needs a little space. Scorpios can be really intense.

Stop talking down about how you??re insecure and this and that??_.Scorpios are controlling because they want to feel safe. So please with the controlling and insecure this and that.

Have fun with the darn guy.

Absolutely correct... we dont do the disappearing act like Aquas do but we definitely require that shut everyone out time to ourselves to just recharge. I have found that I am now OBSESSED with long periods of cardio at the gym. I stick my headphones in listen to music & watch something on the attached TVs- I can do a full hour like this because it's just zoning out. I had gone to a gym where I would take classes with people-- once I turned 30 for some reason I just really really couldnt handle people lol. I love to just zone out & have my me time.

Posted by amysue99
I've read alot that what you see is what you get and that they are pretty staightforward. I don't have any reason not to believe anything he says to me other than I'm an insecure scorpio that needs to be in control. I don't know what is going on with him as he's disappeared someswhat to deal with a difficult situation which of course drives me crazy! Just trying to relax and give him space and just remember all he's told me so far. Is it just me or do they just lie in general and I should move on?

That's your problem right there. That shit will drive any guy away into some alone time.

Get a grip on that estrogen. It destroys relationships when not controlled properly.

What I find interesting is that all the Aries in my life tend to smile when their lying. Almost like they're stifling a laugh. I think they also tend to smile when they're doing something wrong too. I have an old high school frenemy who consistently had this weird smile on her face, when she would bully other students. When I visit home and see her, she's really awful to our group of old friends and sort of finishes every cruel, mean statement with that same creepy smile. My Aries mom has this really distinct smile when she's lying too. It's really weird.lol

But I honestly don't think they like lying. The smile is almost like they're saying "Hey Just Kidding!". It's like when someone says something incredibly insulting and mean, but then they end it with a Just Kidding! To me it indicates that they're obviously not comfortable lying.

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Posted by Love366
Sometimes Aries need to recharge their batteries, so maybe he just needs a little space. Scorpios can be really intense.

Stop talking down about how you??re insecure and this and that??_.Scorpios are controlling because they want to feel safe. So please with the controlling and insecure this and that.

Have fun with the darn guy.

Absolutely correct... we dont do the disappearing act like Aquas do but we definitely require that shut everyone out time to ourselves to just recharge. I have found that I am now OBSESSED with long periods of cardio at the gym. I stick my headphones in listen to music & watch something on the attached TVs- I can do a full hour like this because it's just zoning out. I had gone to a gym where I would take classes with people-- once I turned 30 for some reason I just really really couldnt handle people lol. I love to just zone out & have my me time.

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Oh yea! the wonderful disappearing act of the Aquas??_.Don't ya just love it makes you feel so special and loved. My daughter is an Aqua yep! know all too well how they can be. What you need to ask when they come back was how did they enjoy their time away, and if they missed ya while they were gone, lol.

I need exercise. I breathe it. I flip flop between yoga and the gym for weights. Great for my psyche.

Posted by RoseTheTaurus
What I find interesting is that all the Aries in my life tend to smile when their lying. Almost like they're stifling a laugh. I think they also tend to smile when they're doing something wrong too. I have an old high school frenemy who consistently had this weird smile on her face, when she would bully other students. When I visit home and see her, she's really awful to our group of old friends and sort of finishes every cruel, mean statement with that same creepy smile. My Aries mom has this really distinct smile when she's lying too. It's really weird.lol

But I honestly don't think they like lying. The smile is almost like they're saying "Hey Just Kidding!". It's like when someone says something incredibly insulting and mean, but then they end it with a Just Kidding! To me it indicates that they're obviously not comfortable lying.

Haaa this sounds like me I have such a hard time lying I end up with this huge tell all grin on my face!!!!!

Me too at lying/joking grin... Also with the evil smirk of victory when I've just dominated a situation where someone was trying to get a strong hold or manipulate me.

And me too with the gym/cardio/workout obsession! I been working out like a psycho lately. Sometimes I'll spend three hours at the gym and leave drenched and dripping with sweat! And I love the burn in my muscles when I'm working out and pushing through it. Hell yes it's hard, but I make my workouts my bitch.... Like a boss!

Posted by lotuslily
Me too at lying/joking grin... Also with the evil smirk of victory when I've just dominated a situation where someone was trying to get a strong hold or manipulate me.

And me too with the gym/cardio/workout obsession! I been working out like a psycho lately. Sometimes I'll spend three hours at the gym and leave drenched and dripping with sweat! And I love the burn in my muscles when I'm working out and pushing through it. Hell yes it's hard, but I make my workouts my bitch.... Like a boss!

This must be something going on with us because I have been working out like a man lately-- I could do a full hard hour on the elliptical like it's nothing because it just feels like such a huge release to just completely zone out to my music & pushing myself. It's just such a ginornous stress relief & me time that I need really bad lately.

I'll start off running for 30 mins on treadmill, then do 20 minutes on stair master, then two sets of five on bicycles as a warm up. Then I'll go do bums and tums or body con for an hour. Then if yoga or Pilates is on I'll do them too just because I love them. I can definitely feel my mars and my fire loving it as I push through the burn and all the hard bits and spending all that energy. I feel like a bottomless source of energy and fire. Of course... The reward has been worth it! And the new clothes I have been able to wear! I definitely think I've started objectifying myself a lot more!

I am not really for the Scorpio- Aries relationship as i have been with 2 in the past and half my family is a Scorpio as well.

Aries are VERY straightforward and blunt to the point where Scorpio's in the past couldn't handle in it as well as the independence side that comes along with an Aries personality.

Him wanting space is not unfamiliar to me as once i have been around people for too long i NEED time away to refresh myself and get back to feeling normal... it is essential!

I can't lie no matter how hard I try. I end up telling the truth within 24 hrs. or less....lol. I feel all guilty when I lie like I committed some type of crime.

Ya it's "what you see is what you get" with my Aries.He doesn't hide his feelings and not afraid of sharing his feelings/emotions with me. My aries is honest even if that honesty hurts. He sometimes lie when I ask something just to pull my legs but tells me the truth after 30seconds.. then we laugh and I softly pinch him. I love how straightforward and honest he is...I don't have to guess or go through the layers.