Aries and Libra

I have been friends with an Aries male for a little over a year. Within the last 2 months we began a relationship. He told me he loved me and I felt the same for him. That's the good part. The bad part of this story is that I called an ex-lover's name during a heated moment. My friend told me he was very hurt and couldn't accept what happened because of his love for me. He left almost immediately and I haven't seen him since. He did leave a message for me explaining that he was still very much in love with me and unable to get me off of his mind, but that we could never be one another's love again. However, he did say that we might be able to be friends in the near future. I've never seen anyone react in such an irrational manner before in my life. Is he serious? I know what I did was really screwed up, but I was under a great deal of stress in my dealings with my ex, at the time, and really didn't have my mind on sex at the time I called his name. I tried to explain this to my male Aries, but he wouldn't hear of it. He just kept saying he could never forget it nor accept it. What I don't understand is how can you be madly in love with someone one day and turn away the next? He knows I haven't had any sexual experiences with my ex, (he's told me himself) but he refuses to listen to reason. Help!!!!!!

Aries are warriors! We are headstrong and can be easily wounded! The best thing about an Aries is that we are straightforward and we don't hold grudges! However, we may be mad for a while when our big ego is crushed! Leos aren't the only ones with big egos! If you really want him back, then compliment him! Don't try to tell him how you feel too much, because most Aries lack a sensitive side! Try to talk to him or come on to him fast! He might fall head over heels with you!!!! Approach with caution!!!!!!! Remember, he is very passionate! Hope this helps!

he most likely is serious even though he loves u with all of his heart i can tell u right now that he most likely will not come back to u in a romantic manner....i kno this may sound harsh but i kno this because i am an aries and we are easily hurt and unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it... i kno u probably didn't mean anything by what u did but u have to understand that he is very serious and thats all i can tell u...but there are a few ways to change his mind u have to prove to him that u really love him.

my respond is to move on aries fall fast and hard and fall out of it as fast see the challenge is over the minute you went from friends to lovers he was so in love when he didn't have you and when you surrender to him he lost interest in the relationship puttting your ex name calling as and excuse to his lost passion aries always makes up a reason to his lost passion holding you resposible for it. True love is forgiving he would've forgiven you by now but because you keep apologizing he sees you as someone who won't give him a challenge which that's what an aries actually thrives be one an give him indiffernce and you'll see he's change. Girl this man needs to be kepted on his toes be strong.

good luck

For those that were wondering, he forgave me. He apologized and declared his love for me. It took awhile, but he came around.

My situation is some what different. I'm an aries female and I fell in love with an aries male. After our relationship got real serious I found out he was married. I could believe it. I don't him I didn't want to see him again. and to never call me again. He's so stubborn he didn't listen right away and kept calling me. I would continue seeing him because he is so assertive and demanding. But in a good and sexy way where I can't say no to him. Just looking into his eyes makes me melt. But finally he was to hard for me to picture him going home to his wife and me being the other woman. So finally I saw him and asked him if was going to leave his wife. He said he doesn't want to because of this kids. of course I didn't puch him, i know how devastating things could be for his kids. So told him to leave me alone and never call me. Well finally he stopped, now its 2 months later and I miss him so much. I never knew love can hurt so much. Like you said how can someone love someone one day and not the next. I think I need help!!!!!

all those who think aries are insensitive are really wrong. us aries males are really sensetive and romantic. we get wounded easily and don't say mad, but when it comes to a loving relationship, it is really sensitive. a wrong move could just ruin it, i know if i heard my libra call someone elses name it would take a while before i could even kiss her again. as far as the married man, if he is a aries and really loves you then he would leave the wife and deal with the kids and divorce. i don't think he is really in love with you, i think he is taking advantage of you, i know u feel a lot for him, we aries fall in love easily. we find anything good about someone to do that. however, i think you should just move on and find someone who will treat you like u deserve, like a queen. sorry, but i think you should forget about him,
tony

aries Rock!!!!!!!!! ima gonna marry one, one day!!

Lol, so many Aries people here that feel flattered with readings about Aries......

I'm not gonna lie.. I'm total "compliment" junkie.