ARIES and SCORPIO?? YES or NO??

Lord knows what is going on in this guys head. I am going to guess that it ain't you, though. If he were doing things like answering your texts quickly and regularly, I would think perhaps it is different.

The thing not to do is to assign much credence to what he says and does when he has been drinking. Only by watching/listening to the sober person will you be able to know what he is up to.

He doesn't seem to be trying to engage you when sober, it just doesn't look all that great to me.

Posted by dofacc
Lord knows what is going on in this guys head. I am going to guess that it ain't you, though. If he were doing things like answering your texts quickly and regularly, I would think perhaps it is different.

The thing not to do is to assign much credence to what he says and does when he has been drinking. Only by watching/listening to the sober person will you be able to know what he is up to.

He doesn't seem to be trying to engage you when sober, it just doesn't look all that great to me.

Well we're friends and have been for a while, so he always answers my texts if I ever do. Here and there he would shoot me a text, but never enough for me to feel he was truly interested. I always got the feeling that he wanted me to pursue him, but I just don't do that...sorry. Him not responding to my texts after the football game was the first time he's ever ignored me..and for me to be asking a question and texting three times within the day makes me think he was ignoring me on purpose.

Either way, I do agree that it doesn't look good and just looks all jumbled and fishy. I feel like he wants to control me more than anything and that's what he's out to do...by playing all these games. I can't tell you how many times he's told me he can't be friends with me anymore because of some spat we got into. He told a friend of mine and even to my face that I have issues with control, and that in life...we have to submit control in relationships. It doesn't make sense...but I can kinda see where he was tryna go with it...

Currently he told me to fuck off and never ever speak to him again ever in life because I called him out on his shit about being a man whore and that being the reason I couldn't date him. I got a little taste of the tantrums Aries are known for LOL. He deleted me off FB and blocked me haha. However, I saw him at a bbq after that and he comes up to me, gives me a huge hug and says "I still love you, even though you're an idiot and acting like an asshole."

He's off his rocker!

Posted by xxnightbynight
aries don't take their time when they want something.

aries and scorpio have control issues... it can work... but... both sides have to let go of control. - that means he probably isn't ready to let go of control of his freedom. - when he's ready, he will.

"aries don't take their time when they want something." ---- That's so incredibly true, and for ANY man I feel like. That's why I just don't buy into his shit. I take everything he does with a grain of salt. I think he's getting mad and frustrated because he's not getting to me like he does with alllllllllll the other women.

LOL...yes, control. As you can see I touched on that subject just before you posted. It's so very true and I already can sense the power struggle between us. Idk why, but for some odd reason I get the feelings it kind of turns him on...all this back and forth. Hence, why he keeps coming back for more!

Posted by dofacc
Lord knows what is going on in this guys head. I am going to guess that it ain't you, though. If he were doing things like answering your texts quickly and regularly, I would think perhaps it is different.

The thing not to do is to assign much credence to what he says and does when he has been drinking. Only by watching/listening to the sober person will you be able to know what he is up to.

He doesn't seem to be trying to engage you when sober, it just doesn't look all that great to me.

The words of a drunk man are the thoughts of a sober one.


Having said that, the guy sounds like a tool. Next.

^^^^ LOL, love it!

@RNAP
To some degree I have to agree that what is said drunk is often thought sober. On the other hand, some of the most embarrassing things that I have ever done were when I had been drinking. When I sobered up I was horrified at what I had done or said. When I am sober I have enough sense to think to myself, "Man, that is stupid!" before I say it or do it. It is my guess that this is the situation with this particular Aries.

Having said that, yup, this guy is indeed a tool!!!

Posted by dofacc
@RNAP
To some degree I have to agree that what is said drunk is often thought sober. On the other hand, some of the most embarrassing things that I have ever done were when I had been drinking. When I sobered up I was horrified at what I had done or said.

but it seemed like a good idea at the time didn't it😉

Motherfucker! 🙂))))))
it was like I heard a story out of my life.

I dunno what to say. I'm not sure he wants a relationship with you...but I think he has some wild thoughts with you. The wildest kind! But once he will taste the scorpio sting...he might come back for more.

scorp sting aka scorpio fuking style &passion.

Posted by OvS
Motherfucker! 🙂))))))
it was like I heard a story out of my life.

LOL, I'm assuming you've played these similar games with chicks before. Tsk, tsk 😉 I refuse to cave in though! In all my 29 years...I've NEVER felt so much sexual tension with someone. It's ridiculous!! We're having trouble being friends at this point, because all we do is bicker, fight, and get on each other's nerves when we're around each other.

He is my friend and I love him dearly, which is why I care wth he is doing. However, quite honestly...I don't see him in my future, and me and him as a couple just doesn't feel right. But this sexual tension puts me in quite a conundrum.

I'm taking advantage of the fact that he deleted and blocked me off FB LOL. That way, he's kinda outta my life and I don't have to see or be around him. Hopefully, I'll get over whatever chemistry is there...

Posted by starlover
My experience of Aries guys ~ if they want you they will COME GET YOU ~ no hesitation, no messing!!! I have been with one for 4yrs and he still chases the hellouttame 😄. The chemistry beteen us literally crackles!

Yes...I find that true to be of all men, despite the excuses girls try to make for them. Which is why I know this one isn't looking for anything serious, but like I said...the sexual tension is ridiculous!! All this lust has my brain confused LOL.

The Aries def doesn't chase me aggressively, but he still comes around....and I've done/said some of the meanest/craziest things to push him away, far away. Still he comes back for more! I've done such off the wall shit that I told myself, "Welp, I guess we're no longer friends now." But nope, he may act all mad at first...but still he's right there being my friend again! Aries are actually quite loyal I'm realizing.

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Posted by starlover
My experience of Aries guys ~ if they want you they will COME GET YOU ~ no hesitation, no messing!!! I have been with one for 4yrs and he still chases the hellouttame 😄. The chemistry beteen us literally crackles!

I agree. In my experience, Aries men love to chase. They want what they can't have, and by you (OP) basically offering him the nana was probably somewhat a turn-off.

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I'd totally agree with you 100% ...but I'm not sure he saw it that way. Because the next morning he text me and was like, "I don't know what that was all about last night or what I did to deserve that, but it was ridiculous and uncalled for." I think he thought I was tryna test him...to see if he'd go for it, which is why he essentially turned me down. Like I said, I'm not an easy kill...and he knows this, which is why he probably thought something was up.

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Posted by candyapples88



the next morning he text me and was like, "I don't know what that was all about last night or what I did to deserve that, but it was ridiculous and uncalled for."

Well you could take his response two ways. You could read it the way you read it, like he thought you were trying to test him. Or the way that I read it, like he was appalled that you were so forward about wanting to fuck him.

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Very true, can def go both ways...

Posted by starlover
I have found that although they are very sexual, they also like a very sexual woman who isnt promiscuous, its as though they want her all the themselves 🙂

Aries men I have found...don't like sharing their women, always want the new "toy" that comes around, and will dig thru their phone book and contact past conquests for the sake of nostalgia. They always have to feel like their #1, even if they don't want the woman in any serious aspect.

My leo male friend has had sex with a few of the same girls the aries encountered. When the aries found out, he got mad...even though he doesn't talk with the girls anymore.

Well, I tell ya' RNAP, now that I am old and yellow, I mean mellow, I find that I avoid "It seemed like a good idea at the time" as much as I can. I simply don't find all the fuss all that exciting any more. Sigh, is there any doubt why I call myself "Dumpy old fart?"

Cause I am.

Posted by dofacc
Well, I tell ya' RNAP, now that I am old and yellow, I mean mellow, I find that I avoid "It seemed like a good idea at the time" as much as I can. I simply don't find all the fuss all that exciting any more. Sigh, is there any doubt why I call myself "Dumpy old fart?"

I thought it meant you were a Devastatingly Orsome Fuck And Creative Cook.

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Posted by dofacc
Well, I tell ya' RNAP, now that I am old and yellow, I mean mellow, I find that I avoid "It seemed like a good idea at the time" as much as I can. I simply don't find all the fuss all that exciting any more. Sigh, is there any doubt why I call myself "Dumpy old fart?"

I thought it meant you were a Devastatingly Orsome Fuck And Creative Cook.

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Well, I am, of course. It is just my sense of modesty that keeps me from saying it right out loud....

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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by dofacc
Well, I tell ya' RNAP, now that I am old and yellow, I mean mellow, I find that I avoid "It seemed like a good idea at the time" as much as I can. I simply don't find all the fuss all that exciting any more. Sigh, is there any doubt why I call myself "Dumpy old fart?"

I thought it meant you were a Devastatingly Orsome Fuck And Creative Cook.

Well, I am, of course. It is just my sense of modesty that keeps me from saying it right out loud....

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Oh, so it's a secret? Ok then, I won't tell anyone.

Appreciate that. People can get awfully jealous and childish if folks like me and you aren't careful with our Awesomeness!

Posted by Gumshoe

Oh, dear. Where do I begin?

I'd like to give you something useful, because we're half-sisters, Scorp women and Aries women. We share the same father, that bastard-punk Mars.

An aside: it's true that both signs have an astounding ability to shrug off outlandish behavior, albeit for *very* different reasons. Why? Because we're both lunatics, let's face it.

And, yes, dear God yes, the sexual tension between these two signs. I could weep.

I *have* wept. 😉

Let me gather my thoughts- although I'm not an Aries male, I was married to one (and I was involved with two Scorp men), so I might be able to offer you some insight.

At the moment, my mind's gone suddenly fuzzy with remembering all that glorious electricity.

It's funny you say Scorp women and Aries women are half-sisters. I have not met an Aries woman I didn't like...there's just this sisterly connection I feel with them and I can't ever explain it. My cousin's wife is an Aries...and we get along so well. We even fight like sisters, and we get over our tiffs like sisters would haha.

Yes, I agree again that we're both lunatics! We both are drawn to drama, theatrics, challenges, and a good fight here and there. It makes us both feel alive 😉

At the moment with Aries, after our latest fight and him telling me to fuck off and never speak to him again......yet afterwards telling me he still loved me and giving me a hug at this bbq (that's an Aries for ya!), our mutual male friend (his bff) messaged me on FB asking me to bring Aries his jacket because he won't shut up about it. This is the same jacket I've hit him up about prior to our fight, asking him to pick up and he ignored me (purposely I suspect).

I told his friend if he wants his jacket, he needs to hit me up and make arrangements to pick it up himself. I ain't bringing his ass shit LOL. I tried before to be civil about his damn jacket. Now it's time for him to reap the consequences of his game playing actions 🙂 It's a fucking jacket...either you want it or you don't. Going thru all these loop holes is unnecessary when you really want something. Again, I suspect this is another game of his.

Posted by Gumshoe

Just wanted to pop in and say that I haven't forgotten, but Christmas eve festivities are in full swing. I'll respond soon.

No worries. Feel free to message me if you want! Happy holidays!! 🙂

Aries Man, Scorpio Woman= Fireworks of the highest order. Just watch out for the Aries fire. We have a tendency to burn metaphorical bridges and dance around like Madhatters when the relationship/friendship/kinship is over. It can be disconcerting for non-Aries folks.

what are your birthdates?

LOL, I absolutely love you Gumshoe!

I'll try to be as honest as I possibly can about the situation and how I feel about him. Personally, I think he's a complete douche bag, who is nothing but a man whore. However, we had established a friendship prior to all this drama starting. As a friend, I find him generous, exciting, funny, warm, has tons of energy, and loyal. So one side of me holds dear my friendship with him, and another part of me disses him for the man whore he is, because of the sexual tendencies I feel towards him.

I was honest in saying I don't see a future with him, but...the sexual tension is just crazy ridiculous. So much so, it was effecting our friendship and we're now having trouble getting along even as friends (I mean, he's having to go through our mutual friend to get his jacket!!) I could give in to it, but I just don't want to because 1. I feel I'm getting too old for all that and am looking for something more, 2. I don't want to be another notch on his bedpost (which is now riddled down to a toothpick, I'm sure).

And you're absolutely right...I do enjoy every bit of game playing that's going on right now. I'm just as twisted in the head as Aries is about it, it's so shameful! I find it quite entertaining, laughable, frustrating, challenging, and annoying. I know this makes me sound crazy, but I too will take a note from you and blame being ruled by Mars for that! I guess you're right again, if anyone can handle an Aries...it's a Scorpio, because we're both nuts!

So in answering your question, what I want is for us to be friends again. However, as long as the sexual tension is there...I don't see much changing in the state of our friendship from what it is now.

Posted by FredJMJ
what are your birthdates?

Me: Oct 30, 83
Him: April 16, 86 (or April 17, can't remember).

Hmmm...I can agree with some of that and then I totally disagree with other aspects. Thanks for posting this nonetheless!!

Posted by xxnightbynight
aries don't take their time when they want something.

aries and scorpio have control issues... it can work... but... both sides have to let go of control. - that means he probably isn't ready to let go of control of his freedom. - when he's ready, he will.

That's exactly what I have personally experienced. However, I must say that the chances are better for a Scorpio femal and an Aries male versus an Aries female and a Scorpio male.... masculine/feminine lines up better with Scorpio woman/Aries male. The problems become exacerbated with the Aries female and Scorpio male.

Posted by candyapples88

Posted by FredJMJ
what are your birthdates?

Me: Oct 30, 83
Him: April 16, 86 (or April 17, can't remember).

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I realize this post is several months old, but somebody bumped this thread, so... here I am.

Those dates are pretty close to the dates of my current/most recent Scorpio encounter. He is October 28, I am April 17. All I can say, from this one experience alone, don't expect anything "real" or "meaningful." Of course, maybe things are different when it's a Scorpio woman with an Aries man.