Flavia
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Aries bf and his friends
We Aries are not complicated people, and we do not like being perceived as something we are not. If I am with someone, and if anybody says I am not who I say I am, then I am very hurt and offended. Also I am so confused because I can easily forget what mistakes I did, and will want to clear the air and MOVE ON so I can be the best I can with the one I love.
If we agreed to move on with a misunderstanding, and it comes up in conversation again, I am instantly confused, lost, wondering why is this happening, and I feel like I can't get through to the person. I can get angered by this confusion and say really abrupt things that might offend the other person because I don't know how to talk about something I have moved on from. When we say, "trust me it won't happen again, etc" we want to do not make it happen again, and want you to know that. Second guessing our intentions is confusing to us.
You have to be secure with the person and what you think of them. You can persuade them on topics etc, but once a misunderstanding took place, is resolved or said to be resolved, you have to trust an Aries to understand all the misc. consequences over time. We many times can't see all the many ways a mistake we made can make others feel like we will fail them in the future. Fail in the future? Wow, we never want to think we won't be our best to someone the next minute, the next day, the next week etc.
Believe us as best as you can, we are up front and don't do well in games of the mind, so don't think we can fool you.
Also if I am rude and don't know it, because I am like, why are we talking about this subject, of course I wouldn't hurt you, etc, I will forget the rude comment I made, and be thinking how to attract you and love you more as if the hurtful comment never happened. My apologies can be short possibly, but I want to be believed in, because I am a doer, and I can only talk about how much I want to do things, not stop and assure you of what I am not, would rather talk about what I am and what I can do.
If we agreed to move on with a misunderstanding, and it comes up in conversation again, I am instantly confused, lost, wondering why is this happening, and I feel like I can't get through to the person. I can get angered by this confusion and say really abrupt things that might offend the other person because I don't know how to talk about something I have moved on from. When we say, "trust me it won't happen again, etc" we want to do not make it happen again, and want you to know that. Second guessing our intentions is confusing to us.
You have to be secure with the person and what you think of them. You can persuade them on topics etc, but once a misunderstanding took place, is resolved or said to be resolved, you have to trust an Aries to understand all the misc. consequences over time. We many times can't see all the many ways a mistake we made can make others feel like we will fail them in the future. Fail in the future? Wow, we never want to think we won't be our best to someone the next minute, the next day, the next week etc.
Believe us as best as you can, we are up front and don't do well in games of the mind, so don't think we can fool you.
Also if I am rude and don't know it, because I am like, why are we talking about this subject, of course I wouldn't hurt you, etc, I will forget the rude comment I made, and be thinking how to attract you and love you more as if the hurtful comment never happened. My apologies can be short possibly, but I want to be believed in, because I am a doer, and I can only talk about how much I want to do things, not stop and assure you of what I am not, would rather talk about what I am and what I can do.
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For your BF, you can just let it die for a while. In a relationship trusting your friends hearsay is pretty petty to me, you have to form your own opinion. But the friends may have a hold on just how to spark his red flag on you; and maybe something you felt innocent, they knew they could use against your case.