aries is smothering me

what do i do ? an aries male has been smothering me for a while now. i want and need my space. i'm scared to say anything because what if i do, it's over for good. how do i go about it ?

Is this the same aries guy that you said caught you flirting or whatever with other guys? and you said you wanted him for just sex so you can have your cake and eat it too? IF You REALLY want him and only him. AND your not trying to make him jealous over you... Than... He is probably insecure. Especially if he knows you flirt, its just adding fuel to his fire. If you quit with the othr guys GOOD just keep reassuring him and be sincere, they ALWAYS know when your lying or brushing them off!!

LOL Love i agree! You are stringing this man along and playing games. I Think you want two differant things and you guys are both better off without each other! IMO

im an aries and well i have to say if it was me i would most definitly end it with you . you dont know what you want really im mean deep down inside with this guy you have no clue what you want with him do you — so heres the deal i hate this line but tell him you need to think about things and would only like to see him a couple times a week till you figure out what you want but heres the thing dont do anything stupid as an aries guy he will be watching for you to make a misstake so i suggest if you do this do it dont mess wit him just take some time and get your head wraped around what you really want then put it out there goo or bad its what you need to do

I'm not playing games with him.
I AM really into him at this point, it's just that I do want things to stay playful and pure. I don't want any emotional drama at this point in my life. I will keep going with the flow, with the way things are, and will not say a word. I'm completely truthful and upfront with him about the things that I do, like, I will never do things behind his back. Whenever things come up, I always make sure that it's okay with him, if it isn't I don't follow through. I'm faithful when it comes to that and that's that.

Sooooooo since your last post are you guys dating? Did you tell him you just wanted a F-Buddy? Whats changed? Im aking so i can get a better view on this.

Posted by beachkisses
I'm not playing games with him.
I AM really into him at this point, it's just that I do want things to stay playful and pure. I don't want any emotional drama at this point in my life. I will keep going with the flow, with the way things are, and will not say a word. I'm completely truthful and upfront with him about the things that I do, like, I will never do things behind his back. Whenever things come up, I always make sure that it's okay with him, if it isn't I don't follow through. I'm faithful when it comes to that and that's that.

You're creating your own emotional drama. You're the one who's with a guy you're not interested in enough to be in a relationship with. You're also the one who has a guy after her that does want a relationship but can't understand why he gets upset when you ask his permission to eff around with other dudes. He had NO emotional drama until you came along and started messing with his head. This isn't his fault, it's yours, and you know exactly what he wants but you're ignoring it. If you don't want emotional drama stop fucking other dudes and stop asking if it's ok that you fuck other dudes. You want an open relationship and he very clearly does not. Your values are not aligned, I suggest you move on if you really care about him

i'm having the same problem. buttttttt....i kinda like it

Well said guys

You havent seen smothering yet. When you are his, and trust me he will claim you. Flirting with other guys and F'ck buddies, will be a problem. You obviously wanted to be with him and othr guys. Tat wont work for him. Especially since you didnt bring it to the table the first time. You lead him into thinking you wanted him and now you change your mind, and now once again you change your mind. ou have alot of Libra in you, no matter what some say. Libras and Aries dont last long. You have stated so many timesbefore this post of how you are playing him and want t tha way. Now your saying your scared to tell him you want space because it will be over. Can you blame him? Aries are hot,passionate,protective,caring people. They are there for you till the end if you let them be. They mean everything they say, and they are good listeners. I think he would be better off without you. Let him go, he deserves better. He deserves someone who is in it for the all.

i dont believe its a real post either

how more real can i get ? what reasons do i have to come here and lie about this? ha, please.
he can also be icy cold, which hurts me as well. i don't know why you all are making it out as i should be kissing his feet as if he's so perfect.