Aries Man... Casual to Serious?

Hey All!!

I've made a previous post regarding my Aries. I was still confused back then on the relationship we're in since we just jumped into it without even developing any base to it. Well it was pure lust and began with one hot kiss.

Anyway me n him as I've mentioned before have been tight friends for like 5 years if not more, he had his gf's I had my bf's and not till early this year we both started feeling weird together the sexual attraction and so on. We did not talk about it till late March after we made out we both confessed how we were both really attracted to echother.

So basically this guy likes me as a friend there is no doubt in that and he realllly cares for me I know that 100% just like I like him and care for him BUT I want something more serious. I know that could have happened had I taken it slow and put the sexual attraction aside. He used to mention that he wouldn't marry any other girl but that was all before we got physical. He mentioned the "possibility" of us getting serious after we got physical but i never really commented on that part though I know without me saying he knows I would wanna be with him.

Anyway what I know is that if Aries has made his mind regarding something he wont change it. So basically if in his mind this is a Casual relationship and we are not going serious will it remain like that?
It's not like it is all we do, we do go out for coffee, drinks, breakfast etc and I have been cutting down on our sexual encounters and I don't initiate it at all.

In the meantime I'm in that state of mind where I believe that there is a way to make him serious "My wishfull thinking" haha I WANT HIM SOOOOOOOO BAD!!!!
What can I do to change things and make him serious about me!!

Will being distant help? DO I just Leave him till he comes back?
Any of you ladies were in a similar situation? Aries men what do you think...

I'm staying POSITIVE hahah.

He's a Aries moon in Libra and Venus in pices
I'm a Saggy moon in Gemini and Venus in Scorpio donno if that would help 😛

Thanks guys in advance :*

Didn't specifically mention wanting the serious relationship to be with him but he does know I want to end up in a serious relationship.

Look im aries born on the 4th if he wants you for a serious relationship then you too will end up in one if he dont then you know..........

EK thanks for ur post!
I do wish that i took things slow and didn't jump in head first into the mess i got myself in.
Going through old messages he sent me the change is pretty obvious, he was all over me before when he didn't know that he got me.
Anyway i am not talking to him, i will not initiate contact with him, when he does talk to me i will reply and be nice. I will not ask to see him and if he does ask to see me i'll make sure it's not too soon.
I'm done with the physical part. Like you said if i have to walk away them i'll just walk away and the sooner the better.
Now i'm hoping that would work and i will not end up losing him. He was a great friend and being closer to him was even better.
*sigh*

EK thanks for ur post!
I do wish that i took things slow and didn't jump in head first into the mess i got myself in.
Going through old messages he sent me the change is pretty obvious, he was all over me before when he didn't know that he got me.
Anyway i am not talking to him, i will not initiate contact with him, when he does talk to me i will reply and be nice. I will not ask to see him and if he does ask to see me i'll make sure it's not too soon.
I'm done with the physical part. Like you said if i have to walk away them i'll just walk away and the sooner the better.
Now i'm hoping that would work and i will not end up losing him. He was a great friend and being closer to him was even better.
*sigh*