Desperatly need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This topic was created in the Aries forum by dunners on Friday, May 21, 2010 and has 7 replies.

Will the Aries man's feelings recover after the misunderstanding

Reconciliation with an Aries man depends on honest communication and patience. Apologize sincerely for any hurt caused and give him space to process. Aries values honesty and directness, so clear, respectful dialogue can help rebuild trust and determine if there is a future together.

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@dunners
16 Years

I have been seeing an aries man....last night we had agreed to meet up . he got caught up and couldnt meet up. i was fuming and drunk and started texting his friend. i was going to meet up with his friend for a drink so i cleared it with aries so as not to b sneaky. he said go for it hes a lovely chap and then rang his friend. i dont know what was said in this conversation but aries is ignoring me now. is der any way back from this. I know I was childish and stupid. I just feel like ive blown my chances with somebody i really liked. please help

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@dunners
16 Years

No different aries god i was really falling for him...i get it maybe he was jealous but i mean he blew me off in the first place so i dont really no i explained it was innocent but heard nothing back do u think dats dat den no way back—??

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@dunners
16 Years

Thats what I did I explaind in a text and said i waas sorry so now i suppose just hope he sees it from my point of view. i feel awful i knmow i was acting like a spoilt idiot its so out of character for me aswell...im desperatly ashamed of myself. i would never expect him to forgive me im just hoping against hopes he will....

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@dunners
16 Years

Well he text me back saying he doesnt know what to make of me and he thinks im abit mad and did i not think it was abit crazy>?? so i explained the situation and said i feel like a idiot cos i do like you and heard nothign back so obviously i was too available there but i felt i had to clear the air....so im not going to bother makin any contact again and see how things pan out. Ill definatly se ehim around in the next month or so..im going to try take the attitude of what will be will be no point pushing it...

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

Confidence and togetherness is attractive to Aries. If we make a mistake like can't go out that night, and you get upset at us / drunk or whatever, we are gonna need a reset of everything to get back in the groove with you. We forgive and forget (quicker than most), but if we are dressed up and sharp and ready to go out again, and everything is still messy between the partner, that just looks unexciting and opposite of lets make this work.

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

And as far as being possessive or jealous, yes an Aries can be very possessive and jealous, as we want the world to want us, or be available for us. We want a chase as well though 😄