Aries man, from obsessed to distant over night

Posted by IndependentArtisticLady
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We met 3 years ago on a social media and we've been replying to each other very rarely. We exchanged phone numbers about 2 years ago, we've been texting, but not everyday. Every once in a while.

We had this thing going on where we send memes and it became a competition to find the best one. We had a kick out of it. But we would text once every 2-3 weeks.

Last week, he told me he had just broken up with his lady friend. After telling me he was single when I asked months ago. He made it seem like it wasn't serious. They only had sex once in 8 months. They hung out more than anything.

We started talking about why once in 8 months and the discussion turned to sex. The next day, he texted me really early in the morning to tell me he had furiously masturbated after I turned him on.

We kept talking, and talking for the next couple days after. From the moment we both woke up to we went to bed. It's like he couldn't live without me. Telling me everything he was doing. Keeping me updated on everything. We made plans to meet, we talked about seeing movies together, activities, sexual plans. I'm pretty wild, he told me he wanted to learn and try new things.

I told him I was busy a few times due to work but I replied very often that's it. I played it cool after reading they love to chase. Not responding right away to keep him on his toes. But never in a cold way. I showed interests.

2 days ago, we sexted again and afterward, we talked for 2 hours about a show he was watching that I really like.

Then, next day, yesterday. Nothing.

So around dinner I texted him asking. Hey haven't heard from you today, what's up with that? He apologized saying what he had done that day, we talked a little but nothing more. He just answered rather than keeping the talk alive.

Today, nothing so far.

I really like this guy. I have for a while, but during these 3 years, I didn't chase him. I staying on his rhythm. But the past days were really fun and he told me he was into it. I just don't understans his silence now. What should I do?

He is an Aries man, with moon in Aquarius, mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus.

I'm a Capricorn, ascendant Gemini, moon in Pisces, mercury in sag, Venus in Cap.

What does he need? Me to talk to him or wait for him?

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Let aries be aries. Show interest, but not too much. Be elusive. Come on Cap 😉

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I've been elusive since we exchanged phone numbers. What's his deal?

Posted by IndependentArtisticLady

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Let aries be aries. Show interest, but not too much. Be elusive. Come on Cap 😉

I've been elusive since we exchanged phone numbers. What's his deal?

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Do you want something from him??

Posted by IndependentArtisticLady
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We met 3 years ago on a social media and we've been replying to each other very rarely. We exchanged phone numbers about 2 years ago, we've been texting, but not everyday. Every once in a while.

We had this thing going on where we send memes and it became a competition to find the best one. We had a kick out of it. But we would text once every 2-3 weeks.

Last week, he told me he had just broken up with his lady friend. After telling me he was single when I asked months ago. He made it seem like it wasn't serious. They only had sex once in 8 months. They hung out more than anything.

We started talking about why once in 8 months and the discussion turned to sex. The next day, he texted me really early in the morning to tell me he had furiously masturbated after I turned him on.

We kept talking, and talking for the next couple days after. From the moment we both woke up to we went to bed. It's like he couldn't live without me. Telling me everything he was doing. Keeping me updated on everything. We made plans to meet, we talked about seeing movies together, activities, sexual plans. I'm pretty wild, he told me he wanted to learn and try new things.

I told him I was busy a few times due to work but I replied very often that's it. I played it cool after reading they love to chase. Not responding right away to keep him on his toes. But never in a cold way. I showed interests.

2 days ago, we sexted again and afterward, we talked for 2 hours about a show he was watching that I really like.

Then, next day, yesterday. Nothing.

So around dinner I texted him asking. Hey haven't heard from you today, what's up with that? He apologized saying what he had done that day, we talked a little but nothing more. He just answered rather than keeping the talk alive.

Today, nothing so far.

I really like this guy. I have for a while, but during these 3 years, I didn't chase him. I staying on his rhythm. But the past days were really fun and he told me he was into it. I just don't understans his silence now. What should I do?

He is an Aries man, with moon in Aquarius, mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus.

I'm a Capricorn, ascendant Gemini, moon in Pisces, mercury in sag, Venus in Cap.

What does he need? Me to talk to him or wait for him?

Posted by Amethyst27

Posted by IndependentArtisticLady
Chart at the bottom:

We met 3 years ago on a social media and we've been replying to each other very rarely. We exchanged phone numbers about 2 years ago, we've been texting, but not everyday. Every once in a while.

We had this thing going on where we send memes and it became a competition to find the best one. We had a kick out of it. But we would text once every 2-3 weeks.

Last week, he told me he had just broken up with his lady friend. After telling me he was single when I asked months ago. He made it seem like it wasn't serious. They only had sex once in 8 months. They hung out more than anything.

We started talking about why once in 8 months and the discussion turned to sex. The next day, he texted me really early in the morning to tell me he had furiously masturbated after I turned him on.

We kept talking, and talking for the next couple days after. From the moment we both woke up to we went to bed. It's like he couldn't live without me. Telling me everything he was doing. Keeping me updated on everything. We made plans to meet, we talked about seeing movies together, activities, sexual plans. I'm pretty wild, he told me he wanted to learn and try new things.

I told him I was busy a few times due to work but I replied very often that's it. I played it cool after reading they love to chase. Not responding right away to keep him on his toes. But never in a cold way. I showed interests.

2 days ago, we sexted again and afterward, we talked for 2 hours about a show he was watching that I really like.

Then, next day, yesterday. Nothing.

So around dinner I texted him asking. Hey haven't heard from you today, what's up with that? He apologized saying what he had done that day, we talked a little but nothing more. He just answered rather than keeping the talk alive.

Today, nothing so far.

I really like this guy. I have for a while, but during these 3 years, I didn't chase him. I staying on his rhythm. But the past days were really fun and he told me he was into it. I just don't understans his silence now. What should I do?

He is an Aries man, with moon in Aquarius, mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus.

I'm a Capricorn, ascendant Gemini, moon in Pisces, mercury in sag, Venus in Cap.

What does he need? Me to talk to him or wait for him?

I am in a similar situation with an Aries guy. Just can't seem to figure out what does he want from me. He is going hot and cold. Now cold again 🙂) the longest period without any contact was 2 months. It's becoming kinda amusing already.

I decided not to stress about it. We agreed to meet and spend a weekend together so I guess I will see from there.

So I guess we both just have to play it cool and see where it leads. This back and forth game should be working, so they say.

Just stay confident I'm sure he will come to you.

Good luck with him!

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Learning from my mistakes... I would just wait for him.

That is were I am now. Backing up and trying to be very patient until he comes back again.

Posted by Amethyst27

Posted by pisceswoman123
Learning from my mistakes... I would just wait for him.

That is were I am now. Backing up and trying to be very patient until he comes back again.

It is frustrating like hell. I'm not that kind of woman who can lay back and wait, but that's what I did for 2 months then I don't know why he decided to answer to a text I sent after that time and we agreed to meet.

I have the feeling that he is a player, but I'm gonna see it for myself and gonna have a good time in those days.

Try video chat and arranging a meeting so you can see who you are dealing with. Through texts and even video chat can make you look different, but by meeting him you get a little help from your gut feeling. That's what I'm hoping for too. So far it seems like gonna be 3 days sex : )))

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