Aries serious about me or just using me?

I've been dating an aries with venus in aries for the past 4 months now.We don't have a label or anything and I don't know what we are and if he is seriously interested in me.He usually initiates contact and makes plans to see me on the weekends.When we hangout things are great and I usually stay over his place or two night but I can tell that he wants me to leave after two days ,he doesn't say leave but I can feel that he wants me to leave.That kind of hurts me because if he truly liked me he wouldn't want me to leave....Also,he's not emotional with me and he's pretty cold with his words but he's more romantic with his actions because he always cuddles me and kisses me first.I just don't know if he actually has feelings for me or if he's just using me.What do you guys think?When do you know that an aries is really interested in you?

venus in aries= impulsive.... will rush into things then when reality sets in.. they are like"oh crap"

Hello? You're his fuck buddy.

Well, Aries is about independence, so it shouldn't be a surprise that he kinda wanted you to leave after two days. Particularly, the arie-man-way to do that is hardly by talking about it.

Since you two aren't boyfriend & girlfriend, I'd say two days is a huge amount of time. I mean, I can barely endure my best friends face for two days straight.

Just ask him if he has any feelings for you. It'll save your time.

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venus in aries= impulsive.... will rush into things then when reality sets in.. they are like"oh crap"

Yes, usually it's the younger ones..

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Not always!! 😄 I think this is part of my sign that I will NEVER get rid of...I kind of like it!

Oh you arians are famous for space. Thats the number one vocab word you use. You guys are independent. And stubborn. Don't often feel anything unless its to late...

How do two people who are stubborn and independent ever find time for each other?

I can only take so much space. Even though I need to be active around you daily. I can be just the same way. Wanting space all the time. It eventually gets old though.

I do believe 2-4 days not speaking makes the heart grow fonder. Come back talk one to two days. Get along, flirt, laugh, get to know each other. Then space out again for another 2-4 days. The cycle repeats. However if we click well on the days we do talk. I want to be with and take you out for fun dates later on when we have time to meet.

I think venus in aries have a bad rep for being players, but what I notice is, the more mature ones are extremely loyal. I generally think Venus in air and fire signs tend to wander around before they are incredibly sure.