Aries Venus and Libra Venus compatibility?

Female - Aries venus
Male - Libra venus......

Stories, advice, experience?

I had this with the last guy I dated! I have Aries venus.

I found him to be a bit of a push over even though I knew he wasn't. It still bothered me, and I think it was definitely a factor as to why we didn't work out.

In hindsight, I feel like most of my actions towards him were very childish, naive, and impulsive compared to his actions towards me. Libra weighs the pros and cons of everything. Aries acts. The stark difference in our actions made me very aware of my own, and very embarrassed. I don't think it was that I liked him more than he liked me, we just expressed it differently. He was MUCH more verbal and open about his attraction towards me. On my end, there were just a lot of impulsively sent text messages that were kind of unnecessary. I'm also really awkward about expressing emotions verbally, so I pretty much never said anything related to that.

Even though we got along really well, I think part of that had to do with him conceding to what I wanted. He often pointed out how demanding I was when I just thought I was being normal and nice haha. It was sweet, though, when he would try to accommodate himself for me. I never had to ask him to, didn't really expect it either, and I appreciated it so much.

In bed, it's pretty much the same concept. Aries is selfish, usually without realizing it. Libra wants to make sure things are fair, but can give more than take for a while. Honestly, I never had any complaints.

The only issue that I remember being directly influenced by our venus signs was when we were having the "relationship talk." I brought it up, of course. He wasn't ready for something serious though, and I'm sure he felt conflicted because he really liked me... Even though I was upset, I wasn't about to try and persuade him. Persuading or manipulating a guy into being with you is worse than not having a boyfriend at all! He began compromising anyway. Then he broke up with me two weeks later lmao.

I'm not trying to scare you--I think this combination can really work. Aries just needs to learn patience, and Libra needs to learn how to say no when he means no, even if it will hurt the other person. It saves a lot of trouble in the end.

Also, venus in Libra has a tendency to say what they think the other person wants to hear. I really hated that!

I noticed this during the relationship talk. There isn't a doubt in my mind that he was coming from a good place, but when it was all over, it frustrated me because I sat there wondering how much of what he said to me was truly what he felt. Not just in that one conversation, but the entire time we dated. That is extremely infuriating for anyone with venus in Aries; we're very straight forward, no nonsense, and honest about everything we say.

Libra will do things just because he feels like that's what you want... I remember he asked me if I wanted him to tell me he loved me. Of course I said NO. What's the point of saying that if that's not what you ACTUALLY feel?! Who wants a fake relationship like that?

nope.
Nope
nope
NOPE

noooooooooooopppeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.


Aries venus should know about my little idiosyncrasies.
Why do I have to nag every time... about what I want.

Values are too extreme. One person gets the short end and it's usually Libra because we care too much about the little things.