aries with aries!

I'm an Aries girl, my best friend is an Aries and I'm very close to the Aries I know, I love them, I think they are so much fun, and I can always relate to them... however I have never dated an Aries and I always thought it would only ever be a disaster. But I met this Aries guy a few months and we hooked up. We don't text or contact each other, only when I am going to be in town, and we meet up again. But after the last time, I've started to have some feelings for this Aries guy. Its very easy with him, we both say what is on our minds and there is no complications... I need a lot of space and he gives it to me. He's also so so so sweet, he goes out of his way to do things for me. There's no stress, there's no pressure, it's just simple. How can this be so nice and relaxing? What are your views on Aries with Aries? Maybe this can actually work.

In my experience this ends in disaster. At least in my case with my ex, he hated being tied down and so the moment he felt like we were getting too serious (he brought up marriage, not me) he started talking to other girls and going on dates just to keep his "independence". With that said... It can be fun as a fling because that gives them plenty of space.

One of the best couples I know is Aries-Aries...born 2 days apart and their son was born on the day between their two birthdays.

They get along great...she tends to wear the pants, but he allows her to and thinks its cute. I love them together.

Posted by ashley1734
One of the best couples I know is Aries-Aries...born 2 days apart and their son was born on the day between their two birthdays.

They get along great...she tends to wear the pants, but he allows her to and thinks its cute. I love them together.

Woah, that's freaky and awesome! Did they plan it that way?

John and Kate plus 8 were 2 Aries

Posted by AriesIntrovert16

Posted by ashley1734
One of the best couples I know is Aries-Aries...born 2 days apart and their son was born on the day between their two birthdays.

They get along great...she tends to wear the pants, but he allows her to and thinks its cute. I love them together.

Woah, that's freaky and awesome! Did they plan it that way?

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No not at all, but their second child they DID try to have another Aries but he ended up being a New Year's Day baby.

Posted by PeytonLynn
In my experience this ends in disaster. At least in my case with my ex, he hated being tied down and so the moment he felt like we were getting too serious (he brought up marriage, not me) he started talking to other girls and going on dates just to keep his "independence". With that said... It can be fun as a fling because that gives them plenty of space.

Well he doesn't sound like a very nice person to be honest.

Posted by ashley1734
One of the best couples I know is Aries-Aries...born 2 days apart and their son was born on the day between their two birthdays.

They get along great...she tends to wear the pants, but he allows her to and thinks its cute. I love them together.

Thats pretty amazing haha.

My twin is an Aries and we can't live without each other but I sometimes also fantasize about stabbing her 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

One of my Beatles in elementary was an Aries. Great friend. She never gave me any problems.

Beatles ay? Haha
Yeah all my friends that are Aries are very close tome.

Posted by JURR
Beatles ay? Haha
Yeah all my friends that are Aries are very close tome.

I thought I corrected that. Lol!

Correction - *besties

My bestie is an Aries too! 😄

Sometimes I too wonder if we are best for each other?

I've done it, I'm Aries guy and went out with an Aries girl for seven years. Sometimes I think the only guys who can deal with the Aries women are Aries men, they'll certainly keep you in check, and you can kick off as much as you want, and Aries men will too but you'll understand each other. Arguments will be explosive and if you move in together the house will look like a bombsite (get a cleaner). But no argument will ever be too much, you'll fire up but then just have amazing sex 5 second later or go out for dinner as though nothing had happened (or laugh about it). And the sex will be amazing.

I disagree with the previous post, I don't think it's attractive for a women to wear the trousers, you might be the one in charge, I think one of you will override the other, and yes it has more chance of being the Aries women, but you must make him think he's the one wearing the trousers. It's not really a big issue though.

And if you both have a physical activity/sport you like doing together, the two of you will grow together and motivate each other. Just be very clear about your goals, and try to accommodate his goals. Aries women are great but they are selfish (I know I am), and if you are getting what you want, then remember to think about letting him have what he wants later.

This will move very very quick, I know what you're saying about him giving you time and he will be, but I bet you're seeing each other a lot, and the sex will be great, your passion for each other will be high. I had the same with my ex, we started and we were both casual about it, but we saw each other every day and then we moved in together quick, and I wouldn't be surprised if you were engaged in a couple of months (or at least this is what it will feel like you want to do). It's massive fire plus massive fire, best way to describe it. Actually, the only big problem with my ex, was when we had to go out together to meet friends, if an argument hits (usually because she was taking too much time to get ready), and it could be fuelled by alcohol (by her drinking too much), then you could have an argument in front of all your friends. When you do have an argument, you could be fine afterwards, but during the argument everyone will know about it and be a bit worried for you (unnecessarily). The pros are amazing and definitely outweigh the cons though. Just remember what I've said and take measures to reduce these issues. Definitely find a physical hobby you both like, hire a cleaner if you move in together, and don't drink too much around friends if you're out as a couple. Good luck, it's definitely an experience worth having.

Update:
So things are going pretty well, it's very much how AriesJo said, things aren't moving fast in terms of anything official but it is very addictive, and we've became very close, very fast. I've been staying at his house every night haha. We compete constantly, he's super competitive, he wants to play games all the time which I enjoy.

I wrote a post in the moon sign forum as well but didn't get much good feedback on our moons working... I'm a vigo moon and he is an Aries moon, we did have a small fall out last night which I think could be a clash of our moons, I said something a bit critical to him, it was nothing to me but I think I may have hurt his Aries moon ego a little. He stopped talking to me, he was acting in a very childlike way... but I apologized and he came round eventually.

Lets see what happens anyway.