Dating an aries female, advice appreciated

Hello all, as the topic states I need some advice since I am beginning to date this Aries girl. We have been on 2 dates back to back (at her request). They have just been us exploring the city, getting to know each other and joking around. I feel like I'm doing a good job. 1st date the conversation went great and she was paying all of her attention to me, chatting never stopped and she seem like she loved it. She told me she wanted to kiss me and that would be her chemistry test to see if we could even continue, and I passed it pretty well she seemed like she devastated when she couldn't get me to her place since her roommate was around. 2nd date was just as great when we kissed she didn't want to stop to the point where she would grab me so I couldn't even move and once again all she wanted to do was get some takeout at her place and have me stay over but again roommate cock-block. So now she plans to come to my place this weekend so it looks like things are going ok. Well I am a Cancer so being stupid and romantic are 2nd nature to me. Advice is needed, should I keep back and let her chase me, how romantic should I be and how much should I lay it on 😛. Right now my plan is to just make a simple candle light dinner and get her a small flower arrangement just to show her I appreciate her showing me around the city and just that I had fun with her. I told her I had a nice dinner planned, so what do you guys think?

I think you should keep doing what you're doing. Don't change anything - because she clearly likes you. Also, don't bother with the chasing stuff. I think the candle lit dinner is a really good idea and the flowers are a nice touch too. Just be yourself - that is working just fine. Good luck with it all!

I dunno my shortest fling was 5 months and ever girl I've dated I've gotten them to put out on the 1st or 2nd date and the ones that put out on the 2nd usually regret they didn't on the first. Plus I don't think its just sex since she yelled at her friend of 7 years for asking if she was spending thanksgiving with her parents, then took me aside and opened up about her bad relationship with her mom (she was really badly abused) and after talking about it for 20 minutes she moved across the bench to side right up against me. I dunno, she could just want sex but it doesn't feel like that but I've been wrong in the past.

heh thanks and that idea of her just wanting sex wasn't directed at you it was the post above yours
"Sounds like she just wants some sex. She's wanting to put out awfully fast... :/"
To be exact. 🙂

In the end I don't think she is going for just sex either, I'm just overly sex driven and once a girl smiles when I'm on a date with her I begin seducing and I have always pulled a crazed freak out of the most timid girls. To me it seems like she is interested in me, I'm not worried about that she just always says don't try to tell me or do things to impress me so I was wondering how I should approach this situations. If you are going to do something do it right 🙂 and seems worthwhile so far even as insanely guarded as I am right now.

Guess away I'll let you know if you are hot or cold 😉

Eh kinda hot. I'm really good at reading people, within minutes I can tell what they want, a nice guy or a badass or a no bullshitting ect, so I end up being whatever they want and it just kinda happens subconsciously. It's super manipulative but it also happens uncontrollably, kind of like how I pick up on accents and mannerisms and slightly mimic them to draw people in without knowing why I do it.

Well I had fun she text me a few ago saying she just wasn't feeling it and she couldn't explain it and best of luck to me...so had fun on this board but that is all she wrote 😢

Ya I'm not too worried she was a really cool chick but shit happens and you get over it

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