@woundedARIESego
16 Years
A Virgo stare often indicates curiosity or interest but can also be a sign of shyness or nervousness. It does not always mean romantic interest and varies based on context. Pay attention to body language and communication cues to interpret true intentions behind the stare.
Someone please help! I want our friendship back! Should I talk to him at school tomoro—
wow no one has any advice—? 😢
say hi to him act like nothigns wrong... and stop coming on to him. even act a little coldly sometimes. this behavior will drive him CRAZY
e paragraphs would be nice 🙂
Posted by woundedARIESego
I'm an Aries girl Aries sun moon and Venus. (arghh yes i know) He has a Virgo sun Gemini moon and Libra Venus. We go to school with one another.Impatient, aggressive, strong opinions, got it!
I spoke to a friend who spoke to him —he said he liked me as a —friend?? and he has a girlfriend...
This ^ explains the following.
So I decided to make the initial move and got his number and began texting him, this is when everything went downhill. I noticed he would text me sometimes then sometimes ignore me? so I stopped texting him...I was having my hotel bday party one weekend and of course I wanted him to come, so i got my friend to invite him, he said he?? couldn't come out that night??. This got me kind of mad. So I assumed he didn't like me. So at school the next day, he continued with the staring, which got me so confused, and when he saw me he hugged me— WTF? I took this as he did like me, so I texted him later that night, after him ignoring my text again, I told him if he didn't want to talk to me why take my number. he finally texted me with these exact words " my bad I didn't think you liked me'. With that I basically told him i did like him........NO TEXT BACK.
click to expandIt's not he doesn't like you or is not attracted to you. He just is simply in a relationship already.
We were never friends until I met him at a party we added each other on Fb started talking here and there saying hi to each other in the halls nothing serious. Then one day after exams we saw each other , we were just hanging out around school and I kept noticing him staring at me ( when I wasn't looking obviously) we were smiling at each other flirting yada yada. Anyway while we were going our separate ways I decided to give him a hug which he seemed surprised by , but I did it since we were off to winter break. To make a long story short every time after that we hugged each other when we saw each other and flirted etc. This continued.
One day when a friend and I were walking into the main hall in our school, as we were talking she said —omg His name* is staring at you" when i looked at him he was, and he quickly looked away. I got kind —happy?? because he was swarmed by a bunch of girls and he was looking at me. After this incident I noticed him starring at me a whole lot more, and with his stare the hugs and the little flirting..this is what lead me to believe he liked me. (I was wrong....i think?)
Virgos like to flirt. I love to flirt. I love getting attention.
I love getting girls to like me and having them admit their attraction, girlfriend or not.
Seems like he is similar.
his status says single on FB.
Facebook is not the be all and end all, darling.
And his stare says otherwise.
Now it's been two weeks and I have been ignoring him, he still stares at me, alot but this time instead of holding my gaze, he looks away 😢.
Help anyone...I think I ruined our friendship!
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He doesn't want to hurt you or lead you on, so he is taking step backwards. He will continue to "shun" you until he believes you have moved on.
Posted by zen
say hi to him act like nothigns wrong... and stop coming on to him. even act a little coldly sometimes. this behavior will drive him CRAZY
I agree. He will be wondering!
Posted by zen
say hi to him act like nothigns wrong... and stop coming on to him. even act a little coldly sometimes. this behavior will drive him CRAZY
Hi zen and thank you all for helping me out!
what do you mean act a little coldly sometimes? And yes I will stop coming on to him. lol but yea.. Like one day say hi the next nothing?
Posted by Cajunspirit
Firstly, some paragraphs would be nice 🙂Posted by woundedARIESego
I'm an Aries girl Aries sun moon and Venus. (arghh yes i know) He has a Virgo sun Gemini moon and Libra Venus. We go to school with one another.Impatient, aggressive, strong opinions, got it!
I spoke to a friend who spoke to him —he said he liked me as a —friend?? and he has a girlfriend...
This ^ explains the following.
So I decided to make the initial move and got his number and began texting him, this is when everything went downhill. I noticed he would text me sometimes then sometimes ignore me? so I stopped texting him...I was having my hotel bday party one weekend and of course I wanted him to come, so i got my friend to invite him, he said he?? couldn't come out that night??. This got me kind of mad. So I assumed he didn't like me. So at school the next day, he continued with the staring, which got me so confused, and when he saw me he hugged me— WTF? I took this as he did like me, so I texted him later that night, after him ignoring my text again, I told him if he didn't want to talk to me why take my number. he finally texted me with these exact words " my bad I didn't think you liked me'. With that I basically told him i did like him........NO TEXT BACK.
It's not he doesn't like you or is not attracted to you. He just is simply in a relationship already.
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Thank you, for explaining his behaviour!!
Thank you, for explaining his behaviour!!
My pleasure 🙂
Cajunspirit
do you agree with the others,
i should say hi to him and act like nothings wrong and even act a little coldly sometimes? First off how does one act "coldly" and also how would you being a virgo male react to this? Would this drive you "crazy" lol.
Posted by woundedARIESego
Cajunspiritdo you agree with the others,
i should say hi to him and act like nothings wrong and even act a little coldly sometimes? First off how does one act "coldly" and also how would you being a virgo male react to this? Would this drive you "crazy" lol.
You should buy a bracelet that says WWCD (What Would Cajun Do?) lol
You should buy a bracelet that says WWCD (What Would Cajun Do?) lol
lmao!
Posted by woundedARIESego
Cajunspiritdo you agree with the others,
i should say hi to him and act like nothings wrong and even act a little coldly sometimes? First off how does one act "coldly" and also how would you being a virgo male react to this? Would this drive you "crazy" lol.click to expand
Well you know he has a girlfriend, so I doubt you want to break that up.
As for advice, as to what to do.... hmmm...
Their advice is sound and effective, albeit a bit callous...
Just go about your life and don't feed his ego, he'll come around in time. 2 months typically.
act coldly as in, if he says something stupid instead of being nice about it and not saying anything just flat out say "thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard" and then.... just dont change your facial expression. just look extremely stoic while saying it lol. will drive him nuts!
i cant give u like any specific example...when i say act coldly i just mean dont be nice in certain situations where you would otherwise be nice... virgos like to be in control so your random change of behavior will really get to him yknow?
Posted by coorkie
ooOoOoOh.. Everyone's showin CJ the love... You must give sound advice...
Hang around long enough baby girl and you will too 😉
What should I have for breakfast tmrw morning?
PB&J sammy (grape jelly of course) and a glass of milk
or...
Cold Hawaiian pizza and a mean brew in a big icy mug
or...
Shall I wash down shards of glass w/ blood and bits and pieces of tongue matter?click to expand
Cold Hawaiin Pizza!!!
Posted by coorkie
now I see him nights at my other job across town where I now sell him alcohol..I can't remember what he said.. But he cracked a really lame, Capt Obvious joke lol... He's cute... Gosh he's growing on me nooo!!!!
I'm really digging your story, hehe 🙂
Hey guys thanks for all the advice,
And to let you know I haven't spoken to him yet- really because I don't want to feed his ego. And I have a life!
Basically the only thing that keeps my mind on him is his stare.
No other guy has ever stared at me the way he does (wait that's a lie another Virgo man has...gosh why do I love you Virgo men so much?) But Him, he stares at me every chance he gets, and he doesn't really look away anymore, Cajun is that progress? loll
But yea what's up with the constant staring that you guys do? Don't get me wrong, I love it! But it's kind of intimidating at times. It's like he gives me a one over like he looks me up and down then stares into my eyes, and his face always looks like he is trying to figure out something like he's studying me? What I want to know though , is what is behind all that staring? Because that is the only thing that keeps me wondering what if about him....what if he didn't have a girlfriend.
Posted by woundedARIESego
But Him, he stares at me every chance he gets, and he doesn't really look away anymore, Cajun is that progress? loll
He likes what he sees, and who can blame him?
Aries women are typically smokin'.
As for progress... maybe...
I personally love staring 🙂
It's also killing me that I haven't spoken to him in 2 1/2 weeks! I want to talk to him without letting him know that I still like him in that way, I want him to get the point straight off that I do not want anything from him either than a friendship.
But that stare...ughh you Virgos and your stare; it makes me Aries want to rip off all your clothes??_.and yeah.
Also the other day we saw each other, he was walking with another guy that I'm friends with, so the other guy and I kind of acknowledged each other and flirted a bit;?? I??ll see you later in class" etc, all while the Virgo guy was watching . So yeah I felt kind of nice knowing that the Virgo guy turned around to watch us talk and "flirt" knowing that, we used to be like that. lol ( I know kind of immature lol)
I wonder if he realizes that I am consciously ignoring him though.
Posted by woundedARIESego
But Him, he stares at me every chance he gets, and he doesn't really look away anymore, Cajun is that progress? lollI personally love staring 🙂
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Why do you guys stare though, it's so intimidating knowing that you Virgos notice everyyything and me being a perfectionist myself, I like to look my best, but there's nothing like the perfectionism of a Virgo.
But Cajun since you love to stare and you being a Virgo and all, what is the purpose, either than to just be staring at someone because they're attractive, I know there's something behind it! It's not creepy like the scorpio stare lol...it's kind of intense almost seductive??_do you guys have some sort of powers you are hiding? Lol??_ every single one of you men (virgos) have this stare that just draws me in! Are you guys even aware? lol
Cajun,
You wrote this:
Virgos like to flirt. I love to flirt. I love getting attention.
I love getting girls to like me and having them admit their attraction, girlfriend or not.
Seems like he is similar.
Flirting fine. But why do you have to have them admit their feelings for you? And what is the outcome if you have to rebuff anyone?
Flirting fine. But why do you have to have them admit their feelings for you? And what is the outcome if you have to rebuff anyone?
I suffer from Venus in Leo, Moon as well 😛
Venus in Leo
Sincere, frank and warm affections. He is full of tenderness. High hopes of love.
He likes to live and satisfy his passions to the full. Protects and makes friends with those who can be useful.
Weaknesses: excess in pleasure and amusements. Haughty, boastful, pretentious:
he is affected, and seduces for the sake of seducing to prove to himself that he is attractive (this gets worse with age).
I have hardly ever rebuffed anyone. The count stands at 2 in my lifetime.
Nobody can read me and girls get the "player vibe" :\
and how did you rebuff? Were you direct or did you slink off and hide?
Posted by Cajunspirit
Virgos like to flirt. I love to flirt. I love getting attention.
I love getting girls to like me and having them admit their attraction, girlfriend or not.
Seems like he is similar.😢 You know how I've been trying to come to terms with my feelings for my virgo friend and how he does feed into those feelings. A part of me wants to believe that he has feelings for me, but another part then questions it all, especially when a virguy says the above. It would hurt me tremendously to know that I meant nothing more to my virgo friend than an ego boost.
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My feeling exactly Kaleidescorp44
It's like in order to stroke his ego; he had to wound someone else's in the process hence, my username.
Wow thank you Kaleidescorp44 because that's exactly what I was feeling and thinking, I just couldn't put it into words.
Uggghhhh, this thread wreaks of my virguys recent behavior. He too is a Venus in Leo. Yesterday's stunt may have been the last straw for us, it will be if I can stay strong and shut him out (or at least make our relationship go back to business and stay there). I always told him to be careful about his words (this was before our relationship went THERE). Now I'm mad at myself for falling hook, line and sinker because I really question his motives.
Posted by MayDORISDay
and how did you rebuff? Were you direct or did you slink off and hide?
I am direct, but that often still does not get the message fully across.
So I typically ignore and answer "Calls" less.
Posted by Cajunspirit
Virgos like to flirt. I love to flirt. I love getting attention.
I love getting girls to like me and having them admit their attraction, girlfriend or not.
Seems like he is similar.I don't know Caj, that sounds an awful like playing with a girl's affections just to boost your ego.
Of course it sounds that way, but in practice, it is far from. My flirting is quite playful and hands off. To date no girl has made it aware to me, I gave them the wrong idea.
What happens if a girl falls in love with you and you don't feel the same? The girl is then hurt because you wanted to "prove to yourself that you are attractive"?
It just doesn't happen. I never lead a girl on.
You've mentioned in previous threads about keeping a girl "on the hook", but what about her feelings? As you know, I'm struggling to understand all of that due to my virgo friend. Is it that there is no respect for the girl and what she might feel or that she might get hurt?
The only girls kept on the hook were exes, my hook is pretty dry right now lol
The respect is there, but the desire to be wanted outweighs it.
Is there no caring for the girl and her feelings? Do you do that with women you don't find attractive, women you do, or just women in general regardless of your level of attraction for them?
Only attractive ones, pretty shallow but that's how I am.
Would it make you feel good knowing the women that admit their attraction for you may cry themselves to sleep at night when they find out you don't feel the same? What about the woman that holds onto hope for something more, when you know there is no possibility of "more"?
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Sounds like a Scorpio perspective, I am not guilty of these things 😛
It seems like a game to me, one in which someone will end up hurt. 😢 You know how I've been trying to come to terms with my feelings for my virgo friend and how he does feed into those feelings. A part of me wants to believe that he has feelings for me, but another part then questions it all, especially when a virguy says the above. It would hurt me tremendously to know that I meant nothing more to my virgo friend than an ego boost.
It is a game 😄
But so long as everyone plays by the rules, no one gets hurt.
Ohhhh no wonder. 😉 You're such a sexy earthy and an incredibly witty fiery guy, CJ!! 😄
Thankies Valeria!
You're such a breath of fresh air on the Virgo boards, hope you don't leave us 🙂
Posted by *~ariesgal~*
Uggghhhh, this thread wreaks of my virguys recent behavior. He too is a Venus in Leo. Yesterday's stunt may have been the last straw for us, it will be if I can stay strong and shut him out (or at least make our relationship go back to business and stay there). I always told him to be careful about his words (this was before our relationship went THERE). Now I'm mad at myself for falling hook, line and sinker because I really question his motives.click to expand
What is there to question?
Are you not the one at the end of his sincere and warm affections?
Do you really need it all?
Haha, you Aries women and your possessiveness of your love 😛
Posted by *~ariesgal~*
Uggghhhh, this thread wreaks of my virguys recent behavior. He too is a Venus in Leo. Yesterday's stunt may have been the last straw for us, it will be if I can stay strong and shut him out (or at least make our relationship go back to business and stay there). I always told him to be careful about his words (this was before our relationship went THERE). Now I'm mad at myself for falling hook, line and sinker because I really question his motives.
What is there to question?
Are you not the one at the end of his sincere and warm affections?
Do you really need it all?
Haha, you Aries women and your possessiveness of your love 😛
It's official, I'm a total wimp when it comes to him. How many hours ago did I post that original statement? Well forget about whatever I just said. Thanks to him, I'm better now. **fans self**
Oh and stop laughing at us aries girls, we can't help it.
Posted by Kaleidescorp44
Well ariesgal, from one wimp to another, I'm still trying to figure out how they do it. You're determined this is it, this is all you can stand, all you can take, and then they turn that little impish smile up, give you that look, and whatever you were upset about, whatever it was that caused you to be determined to walk away this time, has become a pile of ash that's blown away in the wind and forgotten. You're standing there wondering what in the hell just happened, and are left leaning against the wall just trying to remember how to breath.
**stands up to applause** I couldn't have said it better myself.
It's official, I'm a total wimp when it comes to him. How many hours ago did I post that original statement? Well forget about whatever I just said. Thanks to him, I'm better now. **fans self**
Oh and stop laughing at us aries girls, we can't help it.
Posted by Kaleidescorp44
Well ariesgal, from one wimp to another, I'm still trying to figure out how they do it. You're determined this is it, this is all you can stand, all you can take, and then they turn that little impish smile up, give you that look, and whatever you were upset about, whatever it was that caused you to be determined to walk away this time, has become a pile of ash that's blown away in the wind and forgotten. You're standing there wondering what in the hell just happened, and are left leaning against the wall just trying to remember how to breath.click to expand
It amazes me too at times.
Girls always hit me stories about how they don't take crap, cursed out this guy and made a scene with that ex.
Never happens to me :\
It's official, I'm a total wimp when it comes to him. How many hours ago did I post that original statement? Well forget about whatever I just said. Thanks to him, I'm better now. **fans self**
Oh and stop laughing at us aries girls, we can't help it.
Posted by Kaleidescorp44
Well ariesgal, from one wimp to another, I'm still trying to figure out how they do it. You're determined this is it, this is all you can stand, all you can take, and then they turn that little impish smile up, give you that look, and whatever you were upset about, whatever it was that caused you to be determined to walk away this time, has become a pile of ash that's blown away in the wind and forgotten. You're standing there wondering what in the hell just happened, and are left leaning against the wall just trying to remember how to breath.It amazes me too at times.
Girls always hit me stories about how they don't take crap, cursed out this guy and made a scene with that ex.
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Ya know, I have never been then curse out, scene causing gal. I get mad, get quiet and disappear. After Thursday, I had told myself I wasn't going to contact him anymore (on a personal level) because he'd kinda ticked me off. I am such a giving person that sometimes I get my feelings hurt when it doesn't seem reciprocated. I do know though that I can't and shouldn't expect the same as what I give all the time, but that's easier said than done. I was preparing myself to keep our relationship strictly business. I'd even told him the day before to forget about plans for the following day, I'd just see him next week. Then he shows up like I'd never cancelled and I cave in instantly, forgetting about how annoyed he'd made me the day before. And then he showed up with a gift! WTH?! I'm still like straight mush almost 24 hours later.
Posted by ArianPride
This is really unfortunate but you should also be aware that the Virgo won't have much respect for you if you are chasing after him when he has a girlfriend.What I would do in your shoes...well I wouldn't be in your shoes for one. Before the cat and mouse game even started I would have asked him if he had a girlfriend. You should also make that a rule before you start getting crazy about a guy.
If you are really interested in this guy...then only time will tell if your intentions are true and of the purest nature. If you feel so strongly about this Virgo then you can wait and not like waiting like a spider in a dark corner but wait patently as a friend. You will learn more about your Virgo crush as a friend than a relationship. I've noticed that when you are in a realtionship with a Virgo you sometimes are less privy to information, than if you were a friend. So relax...get comfortable, be his friend, let the attraction die down, act casual, stop the flirting, tell him you are happy he told you he was in a realtionship because you wouldn't have wanted to hurt anyones feelings....
If this Virgo is into you and if this relationship of his does't work out which I presume it won't because I assume you are both in highschool and probably very young.....if in the event that he's single and you are single then let him know you are interested in getting to know him.
Not everything has to be serious...sometimes good things happen to those who wait. Don't hate in his GF either, be a friend to him, learn about him, maybe in time you will either discover you really like him or just like him as a friend?
Thanks for the advice. But i haven't spoken to him in three weeks, we just make alot of eye contact or we make eye contact then one of us looks away. Basically i started avoiding him,and we are kind of ignoreing each other. So Im not quite sure how i can begin speaking to him again, and to make it clear, I do not like him in that way.
I want him to be clear on that. Im just wondering how i can approach him again? To open that line of communication. That is now gone.
Why do I want to be friends with him? To steal him away from his girlfriend of course!
lol All jokes aside, we were friends before my whole "crush confession" and honestly I just miss talking to him and saying hello in the halls etc. And I can't stand the tension between us, especially since we hang within the same crowd and we both play rugby so we always see each other practicing afterschool.. but yeah I feel like he hates me now for creating this whole awkwardness. It also seems as if, if he sees me standing somewhere, he will try his best to avoid going near me, *virgo behavior?* it's quite sad really. I think it's time to talk to him again.
AP
"I've noticed that when you are in a realtionship with a Virgo you sometimes are less privy to information"
Why is this the case?
I noticed that recently with the virgo I am in the "process" of have "more" with.
When we are out as a group I hear him tell others things I had no idea about.
In fact the other day this happened and I felt weird not knowing what he was talking about, and the girl he was talking to knew what he was refering to already.
He and I are best friends, have been for 4 years now.
I did not become upset because I knew later that night I would have his 1:1 attention, I did and it was all good.
Wow @mador! I am a leo female trying to catch a virgo male and it is hard work. But maybe he is just crazy about me. I will say that male virgo eyes are f"ing amazing. It's like there eyes are perfectly clear and they are sooo seductive. I know that if it does't work with this virgo then I plan to get me another one becase they just do something to me!!!!!
@nwgamador
Wow, thank you so much for your feedback! Everything you said about Aries women is quite true! I do not take no for an answer, I simply do not understand "No". Lol And yes, you Virgo men and your eyes, it's like you guys hold some type of "power" that makes women (specifically Aries 😢 irresistible to you! It's the stare I tell ya!)
And with that said, I'm not even going to lie, When I first found out he had a gf I wanted to steal him away, but because I am such a "good person" haha and I can clearly see he is very loyal to her, I respect that. I also know he would hate me if I ruined his relationship! So as of now I'm just playing it cool, living life and basically not going out my way to talk to him. I have noticed now that I hardly ever talk to him, it seems as if any chance he gets he tries to make eye contact, or initiate conversation, he did this yesterday. (In person of course! He never calls/texts me, and i don't think I should him either, after what happened the last time! lol)
So all in all, I do want to build a friendship with him, but it's not going to be an easy task. (I'm up for the challenge though! 🙂 One because he is so freaking attractive, and I find it impossible not to flirt with whom I find attractive, I think I pretty much flirt with everyone lol. Another thing, I feel like if I do try to go out my way to talk to him, he's going to think I'm coming on to him! haha and I don't want that!
Thanks for your feedback nwgamador!
@wgamador
haha I just realized I spelt your name wrong! Sorry!
@lovelyleo
I agree Virgo men have very seductive eyes for "virgins" haha , that's what keeps me hung up on my Virgo, it's the way he stares at me I can't shake it off . Like yesterday for example we ran into each other and he looked straight into my eyes for a brief second, before giving me a one up - looking me up and down. I swear it was the sexiest thing ever!..... smh*sigh*
But honestly, are you guys even aware of what you are doing?
i should say hi to him and act like nothings wrong and even act a little coldly sometimes? First off how does one act "coldly" and also how would you being a virgo male react to this? Would this drive you "crazy" lol.
You should buy a bracelet that says WWCD (What Would Cajun Do?) lol
Already have one of those...
Posted by wgamador
@woundedAriesSure we know what we are doing with our eyes because at one point or another we have heard about the magic in them but sometimes we arent doing anything special, just looking at you.
Although at times i purposely look deep into a woman's eyes just to see if they shiver.
Like the girls behind the counter at the Dunkin Donuts, i like looking deep into their eyes when they give me my change back, I say "Thank You"
but i say...."My body desires you" with my eyes. And I dont really desire her, but i make my eyes say it until my heart believes it.... all of that just to see her reaction.
Hahaha, damn you guys sure do know how to use your eyes, too bad i don't 😭
Posted by Kaleidescorp44
Don't even get me started on the Virgo eyes. I swear I could write a dissertation on the effects those eyes, that stare has on me. I haven't seen my virgo for several months now, but when I close my eyes, I can still see those eyes looking into my soul. Damn it, even just the thought of that look can make my knees go weak, cause my heart and breath to stop. Damn virgos. >:-/*sigh* I want to look in my virgos eyes now! See what you all did to me—
HEY!!!! hows it going dude!!! I thought you disappeared. I can always send you pictures of my virgo stare, so you can remained hooked hahaha.
In all honestly, that's quite true. If I'm not smiling then there is something going on with me or i'd like to say bothering me. Otherwise I'm smiling lol. And oh Im sure you already are, I personally think Ariesfemale/Virgo male is a perfect match, once we learn how to understand each other.
Posted by woundedARIESego
In all honestly, that's quite true. If I'm not smiling then there is something going on with me or i'd like to say bothering me. Otherwise I'm smiling lol. And oh Im sure you already are, I personally think Ariesfemale/Virgo male is a perfect match, once we learn how to understand each other.
never i think aries people are brash and dont think before they talk i have a older aires brother and i know a couple of aries people they get on my nerves lol.
it can be that i have Libra placements in mercury and in venus so i cant take their noise but being a leo mooner i enjoy their drama lmao.
they are good people but not for virgos only if those virgos have loads of fire placements.
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they are good people but not for virgos only if those virgos have loads of fire placements.
Hey uhh hi, LeGendary ViRGo
Everyone has their own options, and that's yours. Speaking for myself personally, I get along surprisingly well with Virgos. And that's just judging by the fact that a lot of my immediate fam & friends are Virgos.
But that's just me.
LOL. See, I have this connection with Aries women. I want to expose them and their vulnerabilities so i can get them in my arms and fully ravish them, make them think of me on a rainy stormy day, make them call me when they feel sad or someone has hurt their fragile feelings. Look them deeply in their beautiful eyes, kiss their lips and say to them
"You are wonderful".
Although I don't do this with aries, but I happend to feel this way with all the women whom come into my life when i see them in such sorrow. Do you happen to have a great deal of leo placements within your chart?
Yes Virgo Male and Aries Female make a good match despite what compatability charts say....here is the secret though,
Its on the Virgo Male to make sure he keeps his Aries Female always chasing him on some small level. Because We can lose you to other more fascinating men if we get too comfortable and think things will last forever . Not even true love will keep Aries Female interested forever. That was the mistake I made and I lost a lover and a great friend and while she was the one who kissed someone else, had she been happy being with me, she would have pushed him off her when he reached over for the kiss; instead she welcomed it because i was a loser and losing me would never ever haunt her.
So sad.
This brings back chilling memories. AH, heres the solution to everything.
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Hey sweetie! It's a goin'. I hadn't disappeared, just been extremely busy. Regarding the picture, I'm still waiting on another one from you. *wink wink nudge nudge* But if you want to send *that* one and include the virgo stare, I won't complain. 😄
click to expandHhaha, not until you tell me what Seavixen stated during that same time (awaits vixen to reply with smiley faces) and i'll send you the pictures. 😉
LOL. See, I have this connection with Aries women. I want to expose them and their vulnerabilities so i can get them in my arms and fully ravish them, make them think of me on a rainy stormy day, make them call me when they feel sad or someone has hurt their fragile feelings. Look them deeply in their beautiful eyes, kiss their lips and say to them
"You are wonderful".
Yea, I'm pretty sure Aries women would love that. lol
Yes Virgo Male and Aries Female make a good match despite what compatability charts say....here is the secret though,
Its on the Virgo Male to make sure he keeps his Aries Female always chasing him on some small level. Because We can lose you to other more fascinating men if we get too comfortable and think things will last forever. Not even true love will keep Aries Female interested forever. That was the mistake I made and I lost a lover and a great friend and while she was the one who kissed someone else, had she been happy being with me, she would have pushed him off her when he reached over for the kiss; instead she welcomed it because i was a loser and losing me would never ever haunt her.
So sad.click to expand
I think true love can keep me interested, but that's just my Venus in Pisces talking.
And that is so sad, seems like that Aries really broke your heart. That's very selfish. Selfishness is a characteristic of Aries. I'm glad my Venus in selfless Pisces balances me out.
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I'm an Aries girl Aries sun moon and Venus. (arghh yes i know) He has a Virgo sun Gemini moon and Libra Venus. We go to school with one another. We were never friends until I met him at a party we added each other on Fb started talking here and there saying hi to each other in the halls nothing serious. Then one day after exams we saw each other , we were just hanging out around school and I kept noticing him staring at me ( when I wasn't looking obviously) we were smiling at each other flirting yada yada. Anyway while we were going our separate ways I decided to give him a hug which he seemed surprised by , but I did it since we were off to winter break. To make a long story short every time after that we hugged each other when we saw each other and flirted etc. This continued. One day when a friend and I were walking into the main hall in our school, as we were talking she said —omg His name* is staring at you" when i looked at him he was, and he quickly looked away. I got kind —happy?? because he was swarmed by a bunch of girls and he was looking at me. After this incident I noticed him starring at me a whole lot more, and with his stare the hugs and the little flirting..this is what lead me to believe he liked me. (I was wrong....i think?) So I decided to make the initial move and got his number and began texting him, this is when everything went downhill. I noticed he would text me sometimes then sometimes ignore me? so I stopped texting him...I was having my hotel bday party one weekend and of course I wanted him to come, so i got my friend to invite him, he said he?? couldn't come out that night??. This got me kind of mad. So I assumed he didn't like me. So at school the next day, he continued with the staring, which got me so confused, and when he saw me he hugged me— WTF? I took this as he did like me, so I texted him later that night, after him ignoring my text again, I told him if he didn't want to talk to me why take my number. he finally texted me with these exact words " my bad I didn't think you liked me'. With that I basically told him i did like him........NO TEXT BACK. I spoke to a friend who spoke to him —he said he liked me as a —friend?? and he has a girlfriend...his status says single on FB. And his stare says otherwise. Now it's been two weeks and I have been ignoring him, he still stares at me, alot but this time instead of holding my gaze, he looks away 😢. Help anyone...I think I ruined our friendship!