What is Love to an Aries Woman?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Fishey_Fishey on Wednesday, July 7, 2010 and has 20 replies.

Understanding Love for Aries Women

Aries women view love as passionate and energetic. They show affection through actions and enthusiasm, valuing honesty and adventure. Their love is direct and intense, often expressed through bold gestures and spontaneous acts. Understanding their fiery nature helps in building a strong, dynamic connection.

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@Fishey_Fishey
16 YearsPisces

This one goes out to all the ladies born under the Aries sign March 20- April 20 Woop Woop. LOL
It's sort of a general question, how do Arian women view love and how do they show it.

Thank you in advance for your replies πŸ™‚

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@Flavia
17 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Fishey_Fishey
This one goes out to all the ladies born under the Aries sign March 20- April 20 Woop Woop. LOL
It's sort of a general question, how do Arian women view love and how do they show it.

Thank you in advance for your replies πŸ™‚

I may want to tell the world, but I usually only share it with that person when I feel the time is right.

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@ariesvita
16 Years

Interesting question, it made me think and I found it a little hard to answer, but this is my best answer I can give you at the moment:

What is love to an aries woman? For me it is trust, admiration and respect. When one of those is broken down, the feeling (love) is withdrawn, and eventually dissapears.

How do they show it? with devotion, presence, openness.

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@Fishey_Fishey
16 YearsPisces

Thank you once again for the wonderful replies πŸ™‚

It's just a question that has been brewing in my mind for a while now.

I'm Sorta kind of with this Aries right now and I get a little confused now and again if she
how she shows affection and her caring side. She is the type that as she puts it "Never shows her weak side"
I feel that if I haven't really seen it yet then there was something that I was doing wrong or either not doing right.

And as one of you said something about "Love" being to an Aries woman Trust Admiration and respect. I strive so hard to please my Aries but don't think I'm making any progress. I try and give her all of these things because I want her to open up to me.
She just doesn't believe that after seeing all of her flaws that I still Love and care for her.
Maybe I'm playing it a little to passive.

But she has told me that she just wants me to be patient and I know that is an Aries thing I was once told before.. Aries are impatient but If you want them to be yours you have to be patient and they will make sure that you don't regret it. πŸ˜‰

Thanks again πŸ™‚

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@Run262
19 Years

For me: I give 110% to the person I'm in love with - I want to learn about them, be around them, talk constantly about them, me, us...make plans, travel, share, trust, just plain BE THERE for them 110% .

The thing is, the trick, that which breaks our heart eventually - we want the same back - we want the other person to give 110% - rarely does that happen. Just my experience.

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@Mistery
19 Years500+ Posts

"...But she has told me that she just wants me to be patient..."

It sounds like you are getting somewhere if she said that. Our love of freedom can be at odds with wanting to commit to a relationship. We take time to reconcile those opposite drives.

Her idea of 'weakness' may be quite different than yours. It may not even sound like weakness to you. For example, I consider it a weakness if I have to ask for help. In my mind, I should be able to take care of it and really hate imposing. You sound like you might want to feel needed by her and that's a tough one for us. We hate to ask for help but we don't realize that is how men show their love. I didn't get it until a bf got pissed at me for not calling him first when I needed someone.

Being sweet and attentive is not passive. It's the most effective way of bringing out the sensitive, romantic side in us.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

hmmm fishey,

I strive so hard to please my Aries but don't think I'm making any progress. I try and give her all of these things because I want her to open up to me.
She just doesn't believe that after seeing all of her flaws that I still Love and care for her.
Maybe I'm playing it a little to passive.

so what are your flaws? I am not sure I understand this... so you are playing her so she can fall for you? When you think she has, what next?

About your love question, following from what mistery says Her idea of 'weakness' may be quite different than yours. It may not even sound like weakness to you. , this is about how pisces and aries view life and express themselves, it is different. Love will NOT be expressed in the same way so what your idea is of how she should express, you may NEVER get that, what you want her to OPEN up to may NEVER be her idea of what opening up is, or she may be even opening up but you do not speak the same language so it is not easy to tell.

Just relax, ease up on the trying to please her if this is not real, you will teach her a few lessons anyway by just being you....as mutable signs are one of the most compatible with cardinal signs. No ego battle so you can have great peace between you.

But she has told me that she just wants me to be patient Are you pressuring her in any way? No matter how subtle.... The problem is if you don't let her express how she wants, when she wants and she doesn't let you express how you want, when you want She just doesn't believe that after seeing all of her flaws that I still Love and care for her.
This will start to happen more, flaws start to grow where they may not have been flaws for other more compatible pairing.

Remember, you are young and bound to be restless... go kick a football if you get impatient πŸ˜›

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@HolmeSuckle
16 YearsAries

This is a tricky question lol I guess it depends on the person im with I try to give them what they need as an individual not necessarily what i think they need. (that's in all my relationships, family, friends, romance etc. For me love is total honesty and having a laugh. So i guess i just be myself lol but i also let them see me at my most vulnerable. I also tend to show them my bad side first so they know what there getting themselves in for. "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
β€” Marilyn Monroe

I guess i do the normal things. Cook for them give them a massage when there tired from work make them smile when there feeling a little down and i don't judge them. You know that kinda stuff.

Hey, i'm 19 i know what love is to an extent but i don't think i'll truly ever know and i think thats the beauty of it.

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@wateraries
16 Years

Posted by Run262
For me: I give 110% to the person I'm in love with - I want to learn about them, be around them, talk constantly about them, me, us...make plans, travel, share, trust, just plain BE THERE for them 110% .

The thing is, the trick, that which breaks our heart eventually - we want the same back - we want the other person to give 110% - rarely does that happen. Just my experience.

Wow, this is exactly how I feel...
What are your venus sign? Not to generalize, but it doesn't sound like you have venus in aries ^^

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16 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by wateraries

Posted by Run262
For me: I give 110% to the person I'm in love with - I want to learn about them, be around them, talk constantly about them, me, us...make plans, travel, share, trust, just plain BE THERE for them 110% .

The thing is, the trick, that which breaks our heart eventually - we want the same back - we want the other person to give 110% - rarely does that happen. Just my experience.

Wow, this is exactly how I feel...
What are your venus sign? Not to generalize, but it doesn't sound like you have venus in aries ^^

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I do. that's why i can relate as well πŸ˜„

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16 Years5,000+ Posts

Pfft check ouit all these boring replies, an aries shows love with burning desire, you'll sure know about it! there's no secrecy there or slowness to it, it's treetrunking intense and exciting with jokes laughter and just having a fab time.

The question is, you being a pisces can you handle it? .... or cope, LOL

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@lcrc
12 Years

love for me (maybe other aries women too) is a partnership. I give you give, I care you care ect

If I'm giving and sharing and letting you into my life I expect the same from my man. If your agenda/plan is to use me as a ego boost, trophy, project, time filler (in the meantime casual thing), or sex toy then I guarantee the vibe is felt. If I want something serious that vibe you give will make me drop the whole thing and run

I don't get this silly idea people have that Aries women like to chase. That's stupid. Aries women like to win. We don't chase we just engage with you and have lots of passion and drive to show you we want to love you.

If your playing stupid games Aries women don't dwell on it to long. They just go, off they go.

don't play games I'd advise. Just be straight up and back your words with actions xx

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@ca79
11 Years

It depends on where the aries is at...my answer today is completely different than what it wouldve been 10 years ago